First exam thoughts

Do any of you females recall the thoughts that were racing through your'e head the first time you went to the gyn, were placed in stirrups, and asked to "scoot down until you feel my hand"?

I could feel both the doctor and nurse staring between my legs at my spreading labia. I didn't like it. I felt totally out of control and had no idea what was next.

Man, I definitely remember. I had avoided it for as long as possible, but once I started having sex, I couldn't reasonably stay away any longer. I made an appointment and wound up in the waiting room for almost an hour before I was called in to chat with the doctor. Eventually, I was shown into the exam room and given a gown. The doctor came in and could clearly tell how terrified I was. In all honestly, the exam was over in less than ten minutes. It was a little painful at first, of course, but I got used to it. I was just glad when it was over.

Despite having a medical fetish before my first exam i didnt enjoy it at the time. i think i would have preferred if it was a man doing it but it was a woman and it was over too fast

I was quite dreading it.

My doctor was female, and when it got to that part of the exam process, she actually gave me the option of having the pelvic and pap or not since she knew I was quite nervous.

I went through with it, and it turned out to not be nearly as bad as I was thinking it would be.

The thoughts were usually, what is going on, oh I feel that. I was totally not turned on by anything of this nature until years later.

I just took some of my niece's college stuff over to her dorm room and went out to dinner with her and her roommate.

We were talking about medical embarrassment, and the roommate told me that she had gone to get birth control when she was 15. She didn't have a boyfriend or anything (she says she was to smart and too skinny and too pimply to appeal to high school boys), but she wanted to "break out" at least that much.

She was embarrassed to go to her own doctor because he played golf with her Dad, so she traveled about 40 miles to a women's clinic for the exam. She had to wait a few minutes for her appointment. While she was sitting there 3 students from her high school (2 girls and a boy) came in, greeted the receptionist and went back toward the offices and exam rooms.

The receptionist turned to her and explained "Student nurses!"

In total terror, the girl went into her exam. The doctor came in and, when asked about the "students" assured her that the students had recognized her name and wouldn't be assisting at her exam.

This wasn't complete reassurance since she spent the next few weeks wondering if every student in the school knew about her birth control exam. On the other hand, it was better than her fears that a bunch of fellow students would be watching while the doctor gave her a pelvic.

Since this kind of a story is kind of a turn-on for me, I asked her had she ever imagined that the older kids from her school had actually participated in the exam, penetrated her or whatever. She said that she hadn't even considered that. She blushed a lot when I asked, though, so I suspect that she had fantasies of that type, but didn't want to tell me about them.

I was scared that it was going to hurt and having my legs open and everyone could see me I didn't like it at all

Nervous, scared, awkward, uncertain, very exposed and totally embarrassed

I was really apprehensive about my first exam. I really did not know what to expect, and it was all new to me. I was nervous and scared, and probably pretty uptight during the procedure, and when the exam was over, I felt relieved.

I was 24 years-old, and even though it was my first gynecological exam, I knew exactly what to expect as I had worked

in the delivery room for over a year. You would think the experience of working in a hospital delivery room would have calmed my nerves. Not so...I was scared to death, and totally mortified...lol. I did not go to any of the doctor's I knew at the hospital, and I made sure I didn't let on that it was my first gynecological exam because that would have been even more of an embarrassment. I remember I had two glasses off wine prior to my appointment because I was a nervous wreck. My heart was pounding, and I couldn't stop shaking, but the wine really helped...lol.

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When I first went I went as late as I could not to have to wait too long...

In the end the doc was very friendly and it was over very fast. To ben honest I don really mind, up to now it has never hurt

For my first exam I was 17, just before college. It was my own idea, I wanted birth control and I was curious about the procedure. I remember my first thought was to look at the doctor's, male, hands to see how big his fingers were. I was just a bit apprehensive and curious about what my own feelings would be. I got through it easily. Some time later, my mom suggested that I get a gyn exam before leaving home. I was able to tell her, "It's OK mom, I already did it. I was quite proud of myself.

I was nervous and scared because my experience with the pediatrician was horrible, traumatic, but the gynecologist was very kind, attentive, explained everything to me, he's sweet, sometimes I still go to him and I love it.

My first exam happened quite recently, about three years ago. I specifically requested a male doctor, and that was what I got. He was quite impressed with the extent of my medical knowledge as we discussed a few inherited conditions I wanted to rule out.

Is it boring of me to say the actual examination was underwhelming? Part of me had hoped the speculum would be uncomfortable, but I didn't really notice it much. Likewise for the transvaginal ultrasound (checking for ovarian cysts) - I would have preferred less lube. Hahaha.

I went back this year for a follow up with the same doctor and was disappointed, though - perhaps it was too early in the morning for him, but the whole thing was very rushed. As soon as he determined that all the parts were in working order, he headed out!

@Anna_D that is how exams go in the 21st century. The majority of people that go to such appointments are not wired like us, and they’d rather the doc be in and out, so to speak. Very few people want the exam you hoped for and are happy when it’s quick, painless, and lacks any intimacy.

Luckily, there are myriad playdocs and nurses on zity that can and will provide the exam and proper care you’re seeking. Hope this helps and good luck on your kinky journey.