Intentional Misbehaving

I'm sure all of us subbies (at least the masochistic ones) have at one time or another 'intentionally'disobeyed our dominant, in order to get punished. What happened then?

I will happily admit to doing that a few times myself, lol.

It's part of my personality to intentionally disobey! I'll suffer the consequences rather than change my personality!

I am up front with any Dom as far as my tendency to be disobedient from time to time. I've not yet met one that didn't enjoy the challenge. We always laugh, well, one of us does anyway.

It's always fun to be a little 'naughty' time to time to see how a Dom reacts. Some may not tolerate it but some know how to have fun 😃

I love pushing to see just how far my Dom will let me go before he takes matters into his own hands. One time I had freezing cold hands and kept shoving them up his back. He was getting annoyed and in the end, tucked me under his arm and gave my backside three heafty swats that stung like hell. I've never done it since.

Hi I used to have a girl friend some years back who used to smoke . I liked her very much but not the smokeing . She also said that she wanted to give up. So I took the plunge and said I would put her over my knee every time she smoked or I found cigarette or she smelled of fags .

So she went over my knee or touched her toes several times with only a faint protest when the second time I made her pull Jeans and knickers down. I then started to make sessions longer and harder. It took me a few sessions to realize that the sex after got better.

Only after about 4 months I mentioned to her mate that I wished she would stop smoking , and her pal said she had not touched a cigarette from the day we first went out . So the packets I found in her bag she had picked up for me to find .we went on to cane plimpsole and rideing crops.

I am so looking forward to pushing my online friend sexually when he comes down to visit for the first time in August. He's just getting into bdsm (and is very keen), though, he has very natural tendencies and has been doing lots of research. There is no question I will be "pushing my luck" to see what kind of punishment he comes up with for me. Just thinking about it, gets me all hot and bothered. 😉

No question, I won't push too hard - but I find it playful, and upping the ante - surely increases the excitement.

I love "disobeying" my partner an "testing my luck" but usually he sees it as I seriously don't want him to do something. I've tried explaining that sexually misbehaving usually means that I want something to happen.

This worked a few times with my Dom but she pretty quickly figured out what I was doing. She refers to me as a "spank whore" since I enjoy being spanked (especially by her) so much. She had me lick her boots, then she tied me to a rack and twisted my nipples which really hurts, but she was only going to spank me on her terms not mine. She untied me, took me over her left knee and whipped me with a 2 inch wide belt; this really hurt and was more than I expected so I haven't intentionally misbehaved recently and probably won't in the future.

For me, intentional misbehaving always depended on the sense of humor of my partner. My former Dominant had a very good sense of humor and when I playfully gave him 'the look' that said I was going to do something wrong, he always replied with something playful as a punishment.

If I was being serious and purposely trying to piss him off (for reasons of moral and ethical differences... yes, we had differences... LOL), that was a completely different story and my punishment would far exceed the crime commited. I did not purposely piss him off very often, but it did happen, when I was trying to show how tough I was, and when I was trying to make a point. LOL! For some reason, I get awefully empowered and brave when I'm stripped naked and bound. I think my brain has a crossed wire somewhere. LOL!

I disobey sometimes, and been bound with hands above my head, legs spread so that punishment, humiliation or anything else can be dealt.... and I love it

I disobey sometimes, and been bound with hands above my head, legs spread so that punishment, humiliation or anything else can be dealt.... and I love it

THAT'S the problem with your "punishment."

You have to be GOOD to be punished.

If you intentionally misbehave, you should be made to stand DRESSED, facing the corner without any contact with your master.

THAT is punishment because it is something you don't want.

Personally I find misbehaving to get punished appalling and childish. Pain turns me on but punishment doesn't. If i am with a Dom and i misbehave only to get a punishment then I feel like he should ignore the fact i want punished and give me a non painful punishment. Like standing in the corner until i apologize. I would think that people that are serious about the BDSM lifestyle and want to live it as a lifestyle should be mature enough to ask for what you need, not to brat to get it. That is my personal opinion but to each the own.

I've had my moments of "willful disobedience."

Mostly because I enjoy seeing what he'll do, but I also like redeeming myself and hearing him call me a good girl.

But lately, I've just really wanted to please him, so I haven't been as feisty as usual.

I used to misbehave to get my balls busted. He would make me stand and present. I was the sub in a relationship for about 3 years

Anytime I started bitching or complaining or having a fit I got my balls busted. There was lots of times I did it on purpose. I just walk up and spread my legs and say something like you stupid mother fucker

It's who I am, I can't be good and obedient all the time. Doms I've known have appreciated this. I've made them laugh or given them a reason to go further, be more dominant. It's in everyone's best interests to be yourself I think.

When I would act bratty on purpose, Mistress would intentionally not do what I was asking for. She never stood me in a corner, but she would just sit me at her feet and not touch me. Sure stopped me being bratty in a hurry.

I love misbehaving at times because the punishment is delicious

I know I have misbehaved whether it was intentional or knowing that I would get punished not sure ,but I definately got punished and lots of times these lead to a more severe punishment.

Oh, yes. I have tried this a few times and my ass paid for it 🍑🍅

While I like to be teased I like to tease back. Sure I can be some what bratty and whiny but I don't try to do anything to over the top. I don't necessarily do it to get punished it's more like that is a consequence of my current behavior. I do enjoy fighting back it's part of why I enjoy forced scenarios to begin with. Someone is taking away my power to resist their will over me. They are not only proving they can, at any time, but that they can and will punish me in a multitude of ways. What is the term "to big for your britches"? I'm a an adult, but I'm also toddler in diapers under the care and control of a loving caregiver. I enjoy trying to see how far I can get before I'm put back into my place with spankings, corner, etc. It's meant to be playful and fun not because I have a part in me that is malicious. In my mind we are playing and at the flip of a coin it can turn on me without warning. Suddenly I'm in deep shit and I didn't realize I had pushed that far.

That being said there are times when I'm wanting a punishment spanking or wanting to be treated like the over sized toddler I truly am. It's not as often as one might think but it does happen. So yea sure my toddler side needs to poke back at times but it's only a poke or two..... or 5... I can't help it it's fun!!! Don't get mad at me for being the big silly baby I am!

My ex-wife and I were switches and used to love trading enemas, one (usually me) as a sub receiving, one as Dom(me) giving, mixed with subjecting the chosen sub to all our other kinks for arousal even before starting the enemas. Even for any given enema voliume, solution and duration, whoever was the dominant would further enhance the sub's experience by conversation heavily designed to make the sub feel as submissive, helpless, embarrassed and humiliated as possible during their large and prolonged enema. We both loved it in either role.

I never intentionally misbehaved to induce more intense, humiliating and erotic punishment. However, in a way, as the enema sub we both tailored our verbiage of moans, complaints and begging to incite the dominant one to make our treatment as intense, sexual, prolonged and humiliating as they could. So, in effect, we were asking for as much as they wanted to push us into doing. And believe me, it worked! Sometimes it would just amount to increasingly probable threats from them that they were about to make us do something even more submissive and erotic, but often they really did push limits with more enema volume, more balloon pressure, change to more stimulating solution. more holding time, more strenuous chores while demonstrating enema belly distention, or even occasionally making me hold the enema overnight well into the next morning.

Eric

I have been tempted but not brave enough lol

Yup 😁

I did occasionally misbehave intentionally to hopefully get the slipper on my bare bottom, but obviously not too often in case my parents became suspicious.