I am 50 and have had minor leaks getting up from bed and from urinary infections over last two years. Suddenly in last few weeks I am becoming seriously incontinent (not sure why - may be from diabetes 2, prostate enlargement or bladder stones from gout or a combination). Have had to start wearing pads (Tena Men Level 2) but they leak from the back end of the pad. I need something very discreet but reliable and not something that could be seen sticking out of my trouser waistband as I work as a teacher. Any suggestions? I am leaking at least 25 times in a day, usually just short squirts, but boy do they add up!, and am going to loo at least 13 times in a day. Live in UK.