Does age matter to members in a swingers club?

When I was in my teen's I preferred someone in their 20's ' Later in my 20's I preferred to be around late 20's or 30's . Now that I am in my 60's 50 seams young .

I can absolutely say NO... at TSC ... Nashville, TN ... there are a wide group of ages. I am 63 and have been taken upstairs by women young enough to be my daughter and some as old as me. There are all sizes and shapes. We are all there to have fun and to treat and to be treated special... that's a good word for it.

I never went to a Swing Club, or a party. But I did meet a woman who had been intensively into swinging with her husband for 5 years. She was just a few years older, but was an incredibly good lover. I thought her husband was nuts when he divorced her. She & I became the very best of friends & lovers for many years.

Now that I'm much older, I find that most of my dates are with younger women -- MUCH younger, since older divorced women don't seem to have any interest in any kind of intimate or sexual relationship. I always try to give them an experience they will remember (and learn from).

We have been swingers for almost 30 years. Now at almost 50 we don't go out with couples or singles under 30 - tooo much drama - just our experience. Have been with two couples close to sixty that knew exactly what they were doing 😃

While age doesn't matter to me, it does to some others. I'm not offended if someone tells me no due to my age; it's their choice. Remember, "safe, sane, and consensual."

To me age doesn't make that much of a difference as long as they have a good personality and they take care of themselves.

Having been on both sides of the coin in this age discussion, age does matter in some contexts, in my opinion. If it's just sex, not sm sex, or power-exchange sex, age mattered little. But, for any kind of kink or romantic sex I've found that age does matter and that there is a power imbalance sometimes when dealing with persons who are more than 5 or 6 years younger than me. I used to prefer older guys and women, but now I am finding that I am attracted to younger people, too. Just not too young. I'd have to set the lower age limit to 10-12 years younger, max, for any kind of romantic involvement now. It's not a question of explaining 8-tracks. It's a maturity issue for me. I need romance with someone who is emotionally mature.

It's not quite the same thing but my partner and I belong to a very active educational/fetish organization. There are members of all ages there and we all socialize very well. There is a special social meeting every month for those under 35 and recently a proposal made to have the same thing for the over 35 crowd. Some of us have children that could belong to the younger age group and we just don't feel comfortable discussing our kink with them. For those of us born a more comfortable distance from the apocalypse, there is also that maturity issue.

I'm in a really cool, really open swing club too. I'm 58 years old, and I get invited by all ages except twenty somethings. They probably see me as a relic. I think swing clubs in general attract a slightly older clientelle. Folks who have been married a while, maybe even the kids are grown up, and are looking to broaden their horizons. More power to them.

Edit- Viagra changed everything!

I an 22 and i like the man to be older.......like 20 years older.....i feel safer if the are....