Afraid of a real proceedure...

Just wondering if anybody else is afraid of "real" procedures?

Am facing surgery and am afraid this time. :'(

"Play" medicine is way different from real medicine. I did an EGD recently, and a lot of people here would think such an invasive exam (of which I am terrified) would be great. I had them sedate me to the point that I have no idea when we even started. I was stressed about it for the entire week before the procedure.

For a lot of people (medfet as well as the "diaper crowd"), if their fantasies became real, they would find it is not fun anymore. I've been able to see a lot of these same procedures from both sides of the fence. Things that are a massive turnon from my GF are unpleasant "for real".

If you don't mind my asking, what is coming up?

Well, I am never been in surgery, a part a lot of dentist procedure that are not so bad with the modern procedures.

But for sure, instictively I am not so calm with true docs and nurses, it's more strong than me, so I am not sure of like would be the reactions of mine in those circumstances, for sure I would not be too much happy .... :😃

Obviously play it's different, even if, I have to be sincere, when I did play with true nurses and doc I wasn't calm at all, because their behavior remain always that of a true medical professional ...

M2000

It is a normal reaction to be afraid of real procedures. I have had two operations and was afraid before each one, but I had excellent surgeons and nurses who helped ease alot of the fears that I had surrounding each procedure.

Absolutely terrified!

If I was facing a real surgical procedure, I would have one of two feelings.

If the procedure was simple, and done under local or regional, I could handle it. I’ve done locals, and blocks. I know what they feel like.

But, if I was faced with general anesthesia, or even something as simple as conscious sedation, it would be frightening.

I can tell you why. The medical industry is filled with idiots. I would be absolutely convinced that I would die!

But, the medical play that I do has helped me in some ways.

For decades, I was scared of injections. I had no tetanus shots, ever. I had teeth filled without a block.

But, as a result of doing injections, I can deal with it now. I allowed the dentist to do dental blocks. I sat there, with a hand mirror and watched, as he placed the liquid in several areas.

I overcame my fear, by doing them to myself, first. I can sit here, and slowly push a 22-gauge needle through my skin, and while it hurts a bit, I can handle it now. I will let select girls do injections too. Or rather, sticks. Empty syringe, no plunger. Pretty hard to screw that up.

Fortunately, most are happy to receive, and not give.

Also, being on the receptive end has made me much more respectful for the girls that allow me to inject them.

I won’t turn you into a pincushion!

If you don’t like it, and you don’t get a kinky sense of nervous excitement from being injected, then I won’t do it to you. End of subject. No whining, or trying to cajole her into it.

And, if you are that 1-in-20 that will let me do injections in your cheeks, I will do it easy and make it very erotic for you. Little, easy needles, and not all that many. No stinging plain water shots! Nothing that hurts, or is uncomfortable!

I think that I am so frightened of actual surgery because I know what is involved. Neuromuscular agents. Look that up, and see what they do. It’ll frighten anybody!

Being with a female physician helps a lot for me, too. I feel a lot more comfortable, because I let girls play with me. The truth is, I really don’t like being touched by men. I compete with men, for the better things in life. I don’t bond with them. My dentist is male, and I sat there and watched him pull out a decayed tooth, and place a crown on another one. But, if some man thinks he’s going to do prostate exams, or injections, or even a hernia check, he’s delusional!

I've thought about this a lot too...how the idea of med stuff can turn me on so much, but when it actually comes to real procedures, it's a totally different story. And don't even get me started on surgery haha...I once had to get a cyst removed from under my arm, and st the beginning of the consultation the doctor was instant that it would be done only with local anesthetic and by the end of the consultation and seeing what a mess I would be he 100% agreed that I should be knocked out haha.

The only medical procedures that give me apprehension is when I am presented with the reality of actual surgery. In 1970, I was involved in a vehicle accident that caused surgery to be performed on me fully conscious without the benefit of anesthesia in order to keep me alive. There followed 2 years of reconstructive surgery, psychologically, that time is imprinted on me as unpleasantly very traumatic. As a result, I have associated anxiety when it comes to real surgery, it is dealt with well though through a number of methods.

G.N.

When it comes to real medical procedures I am always terrified as well - even for a proctoscope exam

Absolutely; IRL I will do just about anything to stay out of a doctor's office.

Am not. Been in and out from the hospital seens I was four (never to big operations, but needed to be done). I find it ok, but what am afraid of is what happends after the operation. To be in pain or what not. That is the thing that scares me, but going under is not so bad.

The only thing I can truly say I am afraid of is needles, in play or for real.

I have never had a bad experience but even now, injections or blood tests I am a bag of nerves with cold sweats the works, until I feel the needle prick my skin, then instantly I am fine & can watch what is being done.