Dating a nurse (or other medical professional)

Mashie, I guess that docinny45 must know how to do things correctly. (That is when he takes off his real doctor hat).

I was married to an RN for 12 years and she never wanted to play Med Fet.

Yes, he does do it perfect every time. He is my real doctor so when I am getting my real physical he doesn't play around, at all, or ever. I have tried more than a few times to be a bit naughty with him and he gets a bit mad at me. He talks to me in the slightly deeper authoritarian voice of his and puts me back in my place. He just doesn't mess around when he has his doctors hat on.

When we are playing we both like to keep it real, but we can and do vary that a bit. I might reach up with my foot and rub his penis while he's the doctor during play time. Even then it takes him a bit to stop himself from wanting to back up to avoid patient doctor contact that is not appropriate. Once he gets a bit more out of his real doctor mind set then we get the party started, lol.

You know, it's been 8 years as of January 9th, so yes, he must be doing something right. MMMMmm!

Mashie

Mashie,

Thank you fo all your valuable advices.

You are right, the quality of the performed exams is a real point

My ex of many years is a nurse. I was with her through nursing school and such. She knew of my fetish and interest but we never went past talking, nothing happened and we never played it out. And when did talk about it, it was very fair and far apart in timing.

Have dated multiple med pros. None had any issues with me playing. Some were more specific on how I prepped and made things sterile. But all were ok with it.

My wife used to be a medical profession - not a nurse - but I have realized that other ladies I have been out with (since my wife passed away) were nurses. One retrained as a nurse after being a journalist and the other was always so.

However, neither has ever given a hint of finding anything specifically arousing or sexy about nursing or wishing to introduce anything. In fact, I'd say that both are fed up and tired of the job and all the hassle that comes with it, jealous colleagues or nasty supervisors and so on.

A G, think about all of the blood, bodily fluids, open and draining wounds, a plethora of others medical events/interventions not to mention shat and urine, and puke, the many people who do not take care of themselves, and the large variety of unattractive things that go wrong with people in the hospitals and doctor's office, it could be difficult to eroticize foreplay in a medfet setting, quite possibly for a long time after the fact. Maybe with a partner with an interest, they could ease into it at a later date...

My thought is that medfet interests are typically developed at a younger age through a medical procedure that leaves an impression, more likely then by events or lifestyle changes that start/occur in the 20s, 30, or 40s.

YES, we have new members all the tme exploring for a first tine, but with gr8 frequency, they've been playing in their heads for years and even decades, finding their own sensual pleasures..

My 40+ y o gf, Nora, an Rn, San Francisco had no interest in medfet because of her job in a hospital, but enjoyed D/s and bdsm from earlier experiences, maybe some abuse or other introduction.

My current friend here, 49, has been playing with 'thoughts' in her mind the last ten years of her marriage until divorce, and bdsm wise, because of a physically abusive Mother when she was a little girl.

Ssssoooo many reasons...

It's my thought that we are not born with, but that through experiences, interests and attractions may be created and/or developed...,

AG, I enjoy following you on Zity, and before Zity was developed, going back into the 80s or 90s. You are a deeper thinker than myself, and more often that not, I have gained from your insights.

Regards,

Dr Marcus Welby

I did. I dated a nurse for a while. I got a nice full physical exam to include my fantasy rectal exam, and a butt shot. She did it all very realistically. I never breached the enema fantasy with her. But I would have if we had dated much longer.

I also got some good school paddlings from her. I've found just about all the women I have dated to be very open to my fantasies...

My wife is in nursing school right now. Exams do nothing sexually for me but she has given me plenty of enemas!

I so love older men. I always have and probably always will. I sort of can't understand the ladies who like to play with the babies that are between 18 and 24. They may have some stamina, but that's it. To be honest with you, I love hair on a man. Bald chests do absolutely nothing for me at all. I also like my men with some meat on their bones as well and some gray in their hair. Older men just know exactly what they are doing. As far as the stamina thing, it's not always the babies that have it. Give your man 25 mg of Benadryl and see how long he lasts.

Oh my God, yes! yes! yes! A thousand yesses! I have always preferred older men, in fact at 19 I lost my virginity to a guy in his 40's.

I once dated a guy who was diabetic. If his sugars were low, he'd take insulin and once they were up, so was he! He got the hardest after an insulin shot. The sex was amazing - and he liked to play doctor!

Yesssss, older men for the win ladies! @bbw4doc I so agree. 😁 If he's a good man with a good heart even better and that's necessary in my opinion.

Love, Megan

He definitely has to be a good man!

@huggscampinggirl Same here, but I think hiding a sick tummy or feeling unwell. In my case, an enema needed. Young lady, are you telling me you've been hiding the fact you're sick?!

Unacceptable! When was your last BM? Gulp, squeak 4 days. OK, run along and go fill the enema bag WITH soap and over my lap, now. You should feel thankful I'm not spanking you!

I can hear my close med student guy's voice saying that. That just melts me.

Love, Megan

I was working in a medical institution to retirement.

I have to admit that although I was in the company with a lot of medical staff, the sex with the doctor is still somewhat different. I can not easily explain it, and every doctor is a man, but the knowledge that he knows your body better than you. It gives you some kind of different feeling. Sex with Dr. is really nice, especially if it is not stingy in providing tenderness.

See the details on the page with my stories. https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=985587;nox=562727

Well, as I've happily reported here many times, I'm certainly happy with my "Veterinary Nurse". She certainly knows all the 'Med Stuff'...but I had to teach her how to give an enema....she had only done fleets to dogs, and that only a couple of times in her 45 years of vet medicine. I've already been fixed, so didn't have to worry about that one. the question of "worms" came up, butt I passed. --I just have to be careful and not piss her off!

the boxcar

My wife is a nurse practitioner.

One of my earliest submissives was a 32 year old new urologist that moved into the clinic 4 floors above me. She had a very empathetic personality and was always amazed at how normal women would come in and totally give control to the doctors there. I t pushed her to want to be examined and I had her as a submissive for almost eight years. That's where I learned so much medical jargon and how to perform exams and invasive procedures.

name a procedure and we probably put her through after hours when we would play. An amazing time of life!

I met a paramedic but I think as soon as he realised it was very arousing for me, he felt a lot above me, so it didn't work. The good thing is he left me with a beautiful memories seeing as he was very passionate about what he was doing and all the time he was talking about his patients I got so excited, it was even uncomfortable. Best memories with him in the NHS uniform... 😃))) Id love to meet some again, but they all turn to be a douches :/