Dating a nurse (or other medical professional)

Anyone have success in getting a getting their s.o. who is a real medical professional to participate in fantasy exams?

I would think this would be very rare that someone who is a medical professional would also have a medfet interest.

Thoughts?

Yes, I had both, actually two female nurses and a female doc too.

What to say? they are normal persons with our same med fet, the advantage is that playing with them you could have access to more professional and complicate procedures, tools and skill ( and consequently less risk ).

This way can be a nice experience, for me it's been so mostly.

However I can say that it's not said that they have a so big fantasy and sometimes they are almost bored to give the same procedures that do already all the day working in their job.

Then depend also with the affinity with your and his/her medfet kind: I had found it totally similar only with my actual g.f. that do me really crazy even if she is not a true nurse, LOL

M2000

I think there was a Seinfeld episode about this. Jerry dated a massage therapist who always refused to give him a massage because she wanted to do something else after work.

My experience has been the same with medical professionals and fetish play.

Most of whom I've talked with over the years RARELY wish to bring their "work" home with them... they see enuf ugly butts and ill people throughout the daytimes that it's just no fun to continue "work" at home. What I don't understand is that when done from THIS viewpoint (with pleasure and sexuality and orgasm and loss of control THE KEY FOCAL POINTS), one would find it difficult to understand why it wouldn't be enjoyable!

Yes I date a female nurse right now, we play sometimes and she actually enjoys dressing in full nurse uniform and cap a few times a month with some of her co-workers to do a full medical examination on me. I always think I'm living a dream 😄. She tells me she hates wearing the scrubs and would prefer the older way so when I bring it up she is usually all over it, only bring it up a couple times a month or a little more....because she is a very busy lady and works her butt off.

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...but all of my friends are nurses and most of them, or I should say about 50 percent are into kinky medical play... In total I would say that about 70 percent of them total are into other kinky stuff whether it be medical or BDSM or the like... with most of my nursing friends anyway, we all seem to like to keep ourselves shaved, and most of us enjoy anal sex.

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A very eye-opening post! I had no idea that there were so many kinky nurses. I don't know if I can look at a nurse in the same way ever again.

I dated a Dr. and she thought medfet was 'wrong'. Needless to say we never did anything of the like.

That is how it seems all of my girlfriend nursing friends are, out of all the ones she works with on a regular basics...I know I have played with like 3 of them 😄.

I allways wanted to date a nurse or a doctor,because of my fetish ... but it was never serious enough to share these things with the ones I did date... I allways thought it would be much easier to share these things with a nurse,and she would probaby have a stethoscope 😃))

I am currently dating a nurse and have in the past dated GP's and a nurse practitioner. I did not mention medfet as such but always had my heart listened during 'sexy time 😃' The joys of being with a med pro is that there is usually a stethoscope within touching distance 😃

"The joys of being with a med pro is that there is usually a stethoscope within touching distance 😃 " -that's what I meant!! 😃))

In my 20's I was dating a nurse who was more into the scene than I. She talked me into participating. She liked to practice her techniques from school (though I think she either dreamed some of them up, or went to a very advanced nursing school!). She turned out to enjoy injections so that was a lot of our practice (both giving and receiving). Of course, always in the bottom.

I can only say that the ones who did nursing for a bit then changed majors are fun to share time with : ), maybe they are the ones that half way through questioned their own motives lol.

We have a close friends and the wife is a nurse. She is attractive and has that stern nurse manner that is so exciting.

I always fantasize about being under her "care."

I have dated several nurses and discussed my pet fetish (buttock injections) with them. They all excited me by admitting that they enjoyed giving shots in the bottom to men but only two of them actually gave me injections back there.

One knew that she would be on duty when I went for minor surgery requiring a general anaesthetic and thrilled me by freely admitting that she looked forward to giving me a "jab in the bum" (pre-med injection). On the appointed day, she entered my cubicle ominously hiding the injection behind her back and with cold professionalism uttered the words, "Bend over, this won't hurt". When she pulled down my pants, I requested, "not too high, please," and she obliged me with an erotically painful shot right where I sit. That evening she visited me at home, clearly pleased to see that I could only sit on one cheek, and confessed that, notwithstanding her demeanour at the time, injecting my bare bottom had turned her on as much as it had me.

The experience with my other nurse girlfriend was even more exciting. I told her that I needed travel inoculations but that I was frightened of injections (untrue but said for effect). As hoped, she opined that she had better give them to me where I can't see. I agreed and, trying to hide my eagerness, told her that she might have to be strict with me at the time. Her reply, "That's no problem at all," left me in a state of excitedly nervous anticipation for the days before our appointment. When she arrived, she promptly told me to pull down my pants and bend over for my booster shots. Testing her promised resolve, I said that I thought booster shots were given in the arm to which, as hoped, she firmly replied, "They can be, but you're getting them in your bottom." I hesitantly unfastened my trousers, letting them drop and, as I had hoped, she pulled my pants all the way down as well, repeating the instruction to bend over. Only after I complied did she begin to prepare the injections, so I spent a long time bent over in bare-bottomed antipation. It really made me scared as I spent the wait thinking only of what would happen before I could stand and get dressed and that there was nothing I could do to avoid it in my helpless, vulnerable position. Eventually, I felt both buttocks thoroughly swabbed and then three quick stings in each cheek. After it was all over, I invited her to dinner but she opined that I might not be able to sit down - and she was right!

I didn't really think about it when we were dating,things were hot enuf without any play acting.Then we got married and have been together enjoying anything and everything,Why I even got my first enema for a birthday present,from her.But the one thing that still eludes me is the full blown "nurse exam" that I so much desire.She knows my wants...maybe sometime."I'm dreaming of a white Christmas... 😜 >😄" (White uniform,lace top thigh high nylons,tall high heels)

In my experience, dating a medical professional is better in fantasy than in reality. I've been out with a nurse and a physiotherapist (I think many of you call it a therapist) and whilst they found my interests "cute" and were willing to give whatever I wanted a try (after some persuasion), both didn't like it as it reminded them of work.

Both of them told me that playing nurse or using a stethoscope in the bedroom made them think of elderly, sick patients and that it belittled their profession, which they took very seriously.

I found this frustrating but could totally understand where they were coming from.

I also found they were more receptive to doing stuff if we made it more sexy/less realistic but as I suspect others will attest, this kind of took the fun out of it.

This is not to say I didn't have some great experiences (and some of these experiences were much better than they would have been with a non-medical person) but the downside at least outweighed the benefits in my opinion.

Then again, maybe I was just unlucky. I'd love to hear if other people had similar experiences...

Simply you must so lucky to find a nurse or a doc that likes medfet too ...

And yes, play and real medical job are two different things, obviously a medical professional is able to do it better and correct even during playing.

M2000

There are a lot of kinky nurses out there, I used to work with several of them. I think there is a fairly high percentage as compared to the general population, but they also draw a hard line between work and play.

One of the key reasons that firefighters become paramedics are the nurses!!! 😉

Some of my first play patients were the nurses from the trauma center we frequented, they kept professional and play lives totally separate... the ones I knew were all outrageously fun!!

My advice is shy away from approaching a nurse on her turf... most anywhere outside her work enviornment is best venue.

Best wishes, play hard, and have fun!

I've dated nurses in the past and my ex wife who was a pediatrician had been a nurse. Their knowledge of medical procedures made for some kinky play. Some of the girlfriends who were nurses felt that it was too much like work. All of them liked raunchy jokes and had twisted senses of humor. I would do it again!

When I was a massage therapist, I can't tell you how often friends, lovers and strangers would ask for a massage, usually a neck and shoulder rub. I found it rude and inconsiderate. I work at work and not at home or parties, etc.

My wife was a medical professional - not a nurse or doctor - when younger. But not a hint at bringing any of that in our personal experiences, no white labcoats, no playing nurse or whatever. Not that I tried all that hard, because once you know each other for a long time, it's easy to read the signals of what goes and what not ... and it just wasn't there, hints or not ...

I think I was fun to date. 😎

I never got any complaints! 😁 😁 😁

I think I was fun to date. 😎

I never got any complaints! 😁 😁 😁

Did you get tons of requests to perform work duties while off the clock?

^^^^ No, I had a lot of requests for blow jobs though!

I got lots of requests for oral sex as well. Nothing to do with work...

My ex wife would dress up as various things when giving me "treatments". She dressed in her nurses uniform, her belly dancers outfit or in camo fatigues which her sister had given to her. Now that was fun! These sessions always degenerated into actual sex.

My ex wife would dress up as various things when giving me "treatments". She dressed in her nurses uniform, her belly dancers outfit or in camo fatigues which her sister had given to her. Now that was fun! These sessions always degenerated into actual sex.

That's how it is for us.

I like it that way!

6 years after my spinal cord injury i started dating my physical therapest she not only got me up and walking again (braces and crutches) but would also help take care of my 3 kids including changing my diapers and help me with my bowel care (this included enemas once a week) sadly she moved back home after one year