Anal Lube Discussions

To make easily a good mixture, use warm tapwater, and a mixer, same as used when making soup, prepare the amount of warm water as you need for lube,and add the powder after, do it slowly, you need a few powder for a max lube.

Hey everyone, what works best for me is Coconut Oil mixed with silicone. First thing is make sure the coconut oil is pure, unrefined and cold pressed. Not all lubes are healthy this one is. I find that Carrington Farms makes a really good one and you can get it from most Costco's right around $19.95 for 54 fl oz. I get right around 8 months of use from this one jar. As for the silicone lube I use Wet. Now if you ever did any mixology you will understand where I am coming from. It acts as a floater. With the coconut oil on the bottom and the silicone on top. Now when you mix this you are going to mix 80% coconut oil and 20% silicone oil. Now you are going to get a small wide mouth jar and pore this mix in to it and place the jar in a warm place. I just put my jar in the bathroom since that is where I am going to be using it.

Now I use a Lubricant Launcher : http://www.amazon.com/Naruekrit-Lubricant-Launcher-Blue/dp/B00EYC9QPK/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1414100784&sr=8-2&keywords=lube+injector. and I fill it half full of the coconut oil taking it from the bottom of the jar and I then place that in my rectum. Now I take my njoy large butt plug and I dip my plug in the jar. Now that the silicone is floating on top the first coating on the metal plug is silicone. Now I know this sounds like a lot of work but it will save you time. And here is the funny part about all this. If I take a four to six qt enema beforehand, I have been able to wear my plug up to 49 hours without removal or relubing. Oddly enough, the silicone acts as a sealant, keeping the coconut oil inside.

I used to use coconut oil but now all I use is J-Lube. It's easy to mix ahead of time and store in the fridge, is economical and works great. I may try mixing coconut oil with it.

My favorite overall can be hard to find: Vaseline "deep moisture creamy formula". As far as I know, only comes in white, 4.5 oz. squeeze bottle with a blue lid. The perfect balance between staying power and wash-ability.

I like J-Lube - its just better for sliding in and out 😄

Have been using the coconut oil for lube and it is freakin PERFECT, but... I have noticed that it intends to dry out a little when using toys... but its all good. It comes in large quantity And is dirt cheap so u can use all ya want! 😃 thanks for the help!

Is there a good lube that doesn't dry out or get absorbed by the body? I want to sleep with a plug in, but I have to re-lube every two to three hours or it really starts to hurt.

Eversince i discovered anal pleasure i've been using this.

http://www.belbestel.nl/components/com_virtuemart/shop_image/product/202a9519a6ec8c6ff3c5de5f32bd9bd0.jpg

Cheap, works perfectly, never had any problems.

Kinkydog

I hope I am not harming myself, but I am finding old fashioned Vaseline the best,,,, for anal dildo in and out, aneros protate toys, and butt plugs. When I have a good enema series and I want a prolonged play with my toys and self pegging,,, I don't have time to worry about drying out and pain, so Vaseline works best, while I use some AandD ointment, to sooth after enema series, I don't like to use it internally per directions, but have used it as such so a plug lube, anerous or butt.

Vaseline was the lube of choice for many years, and is still quite popular.

I have tried many different lubes.

J Lube is ultra slippery, but I read some discussions and have stayed away after warnings of severe complications if it gets into your blood stream.

Using coconut oil presently, just don't spill the stuff on the bedding or carpets.

I've always preferred water based lubes because they're so easy to clean off and don't leave me (and everything around me) feeling all sticky afterwards. Tonight though, as I have progressed to wider plugs, I used Vaseline too. I just dabbed a small amount on my finger and spread it around and inside my rectum. I then coated the plug with as much water based lube as I needed and I've seem to have found a good balance between adequate lubrication and messiness.

I prefer water based lubes generally, but coconut oil is great although as noted earlier it can be a big messy.

I love how long silicone lube lasts, but I can't use it with silicone toys and it's messy. My favorite lube is JO H2O Water Based Lube, because it feels similar to silicone and lasts longer than any other water based lube I've tried. However, if I'm using a glass or metal toy, I'd still rather use a silicone based lube.

Has anyone tried silicone butt plugs with coconut oil? Is it safe? Will it works for a long wear?

I'm very partial to KY in the flipcap, lotion like tube. But, ID Velvet Silicone is amazing as well.

I think water based lubes have worked the best for me over the years. I have tried Vaseline but I found that at least with enema nozzles that it did not work as well as the water based lubes. I definitely like the fact that the water based lubes make it so much easier to clean nozzles or anal toys vs. Vaseline which is greasy and takes much greater effort to get it off whatever you put it on including your anus.

@joejoeb

Yes, coconut oil and silicone go along very fine. Silicone (I'm talking about Doc Johnson Platinum silicone) absorbs (a tiny tiny bit) oil, but even after washing if you leave your plug on a paper towel you'll notice an oily stain (not really a stain, more like a "halo") on the towel. This is both good and bad. Good for long term wear; oil keeps your toy comfy and oiled silicone keeps much less smells. The bad news is that to get oil out of silicone, boiling it (repeatedly) is pretty much the only option. Odours dissolve in oil and get out with oil when boiling (boiling without oil will not get you smell free toys. Believe me, I tried it many times). Most of the times you just wash it and it is OK. When the plug feels oily even after washing, then I suggest to boil it a time or two.

So yes, coconut oil is my preferred lube for silicone toys. I usually relube (smear the toy with coconut oil) every 4 or 5 hours. When playing I put a dab of (soild, cold) coconut oil in my bum for additional lubrication. At first it is supper slippery, but soon developes some drag, which adds to sensations.

@joejoeb

Yes, coconut oil and silicone go along very fine. Silicone (I'm talking about Doc Johnson Platinum silicone) absorbs (a tiny tiny bit) oil, but even after washing if you leave your plug on a paper towel you'll notice an oily stain (not really a stain, more like a "halo") on the towel. This is both good and bad. Good for long term wear; oil keeps your toy comfy and oiled silicone keeps much less smells. The bad news is that to get oil out of silicone, boiling it (repeatedly) is pretty much the only option. Odours dissolve in oil and get out with oil when boiling (boiling without oil will not get you smell free toys. Believe me, I tried it many times). Most of the times you just wash it and it is OK. When the plug feels oily even after washing, then I suggest to boil it a time or two.

So yes, coconut oil is my preferred lube for silicone toys. I usually relube (smear the toy with coconut oil) every 4 or 5 hours. When playing I put a dab of (soild, cold) coconut oil in my bum for additional lubrication. At first it is supper slippery, but soon developes some drag, which adds to sensations.

Thank you! I will buy coconut oil in these days. I found a lot of type of coconut oils: refined, unrefined, bio or not, comestible or not... Which one of these I have to buy?

Another question is: I read something about inserting the plug(maybe any toys) in a plastic wrap. Is it okay? How to do it safely?

Thank you in advance.

Here's everything you need to know about coconut oil:

http://www.coconutoilcompany.com/coconut-oil-faq.php

Use virgin edible (comestible) oil. No refined stuff.

Bought it! I tried to use it this morning but it's very difficult to use it in a solid state. Which is the best way to warm it?

I don't understand if I may use a plastic wrap for my plugs.

Thanks

Actually, the "solid" state of coconut oil is what makes it easy to manage. Smear a bit of it over your toy and the warmth from your finger will melt it as you spread it. A (small) pea size of "solid" coconut oil is easy to insert into your bumm (after you loosened up with your lubed finger). It will melt inside you in a moment and you are good to insert the toy. At first it is super slippery (nice for playing), after a short while it gets a bit of "drag", which adds to sensations.

Storing your toys in plastic bags is OK, although I prefer my bags to be made of material which "breathes" so there is no moist captured inside the bag.

Using semi Solid Coconut Oil makes an interesting bolus that coolly slips right up in there. Spoon some into a baggy. I have some of the half sized, snack size. Zip it shut and put it into the freezer for 10 minutes. Then while it is still inside the snack pac, shape it a little, eliminating the edges left by the crease and corner of the baggy. I imagine your anxious bottom has already gotten some on it some how probably, so that when it is approached by the cold coconut bolus, there is symbiosis and success is amazing to you.

Never considered coconut oil before. Will have to give that a try sometime. Glad I ran across this thread as there's lots of great information here!

Allrighty then...Anyone ever tried Nivea "body" nourishing lotion with almond oil & vitamin E additive ??....slippery on slugger...pampers pussy...smooth as silk & real easy to clean up...just washes up with soap

Since coconut oil was mentioned by a few people, I'll put my two cents in.

While I think it is a horrible lube (I had to say that) you can melt some and pour it into a glove up to the finger lengths, put it in the freezer or refrigerator for a while to get hard again and you will have five perfectly smooth good sized suppositories of coconut butter. -- THAT'S THE ONLY GOOD THING I CAN SAY ABOUT IT.

Allrighty then...Anyone ever tried Nivea "body" nourishing lotion with almond oil & vitamin E additive ??...

On occasion I use Nivea "body" renewal night lotion as a playtime lube, often in the shower where the girls keep a bottle. If not the same thing it is very similar to what you describe, Aussie.

I generally use it for penile masturbation, and anal fingering and 'thumbing.' Of course I've used it to insert a few objects rectally too. It's a decent lube; not particularly different from other skin lotions like coco and Shea butter based lotions. It's not my go-to anal lube, but it sure is handy.

Normally for intensive anal play I use blend of Vaseline and coconut oil or a water based lube, depending on the task at hand and the feeling I want. Vaseline has a lot of drag, which can be a plus or a minus, but the staying power is second to none. I often want the slipperiness of a water based lube when I'm fucking my ass hard with a dildo or dildo-shaped object.

Dr. Sheffield's Lubricant-Gel is available at Wal-Mart for $0.88 per 3oz. tube. It's basically the same as KY.

I like to use ordinary hand lotion. It lubricates well and does not wash away like ky does.

hankb

I like Palmer's Cocoa butter crème for wacking off and for nozzles. It's water soluble, but doesn't dissolve quickly. It has enough staying power to last through an enema and a massage of Mr. Happy, but will wash off under a spray shower hose.