I took your advice!

I have taken the first steps to get my husband involved. I did a series of warm water enemas yesterday afternoon in between checking in here, before I went to work. Then I left my equipment hanging in the bathroom to dry with the douche nozzle attached (let him wonder). He knows I don't douche as I grew up in the age when we were taught that gravity will bring down anything that needs to be washed out at the opening and we shouldn't mess with the flora of the vagina.

Then, when I left for work, I minimized this site to the bottom of my screen, so if he used the computer last night, and opened one of my Windows, he would see it in the list.

So, then when I get home this morning, I find a new Window open to a BBW porn site and I am cracking up laughing. Maybe there is hope for us yet. I will keep you all posted.

Good luck. Hey, he may find that with you turned on even more, he'll get more enjoyment too.

Maybe the next time you should leave your "full" enema bag hanging discretely 😉 in the bathroom. Maybe he will help you out 😄

Well Done Di! Sounds like you've found a great solution. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

This is the latest, I had posted it under a different topic--I almost got caught this evening. Heard his key in the door and had just enough time to click shut and remove nozzle and was sitting down expelling when he opened the bathroom door on me. The bag and all was in the sink and he said nothing,later he was looking at my receipt from health food store and says, what's HBA? and I said that's for peppermint soap for my red bag. He says what red bag, I say the one in the bathroom. Then, nothing. Then out of the blue, I say have we got time for sex tonight? He pretends to think about and says no, not tonight. Then, I said I am going to have your ass one of these nights and I make a fist and stick my tongue in the middle of my curled up index finger and I said Pucker up, baby! I am so close to coming out to him!! This is all true, it just happened. he is sitting out at the kitchen table reading his Legion paper,while I am "letting my coffee cool" and getting ready for work. Is this outrageous or what. I couldn't make this stuff up.

How long have you been doing enemas without him....

Only a couple of months now, but I have had fastasies of enema play with sex since about age 11.

Lady Di, Have read many of your posts, agreed with 98%. Here is a thought. Why not sit down with him, tell him what you do, how it makes you feel and how very much you would enjoy his partnership and discovery of the benefits (both heath wise and sexual) of (doing it) together?

Sometime the honesty surprises when it's done with love.