Why men like to play with women's bottoms?

Paynefan said:

. . . . A lot of guys are really turned off by it [butts]. They seem to be the same ones who simply adore her breasts. It seems there really are two types of men. Butts or breasts. And the breast guys also love the vagina. The butt guys really don't care about either one.

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From a young age we are forbidden to look at them. Girls are instructed to keep them covered, and mothers discourage boys from looking or even thinking of ladies’ bottoms. They are mysterious and contain many secrets to be explored. They are soft, round, and emit exquisite pheromones and scents to attract the opposite sex. A woman’s bottom produces an aesthetically pleasing perfect “golden spiral” ratio, as do flowers and other pleasing things of the natural world.

It’s also fascinating that a female’s ‘playground’ is located directly next to her ‘waste disposal unit’. It’s almost like they are meant to receive equal attention!

Any bottom young or old, large and small will garner my immediate attention.

They look, smell and taste like heaven! Every fiber of my being insists I pay attention to them!

I find women’s butts to be incredibly sexy, preferably with big cheeks and a long, deep crack. I’m indifferent to the size of her breasts but a skinny butt is a nonstarter. I’m also delighted to tickle her little starfish if she will allow it. Some women love it, others don’t like being touched there.

It’s also fascinating that a female’s ‘playground’ is located directly next to her ‘waste disposal unit’. It’s almost like they are meant to receive equal attention!

One of natures gifts is pretty much all our sexual organs double as 'waste' removal conduits. The penis for urine, the rectum unused food, but also dead body cells are part of the fecal mix, and once every 28 or so days, a woman sloughs the lining of her uterus, a mix of tissue and blood the body also doesn't need. Even the mouth will vomit as a means of disposing something the body doesn't want.

For the most part, the vagina doesn't have the same cultural stigmas attached to it as the rectum, when it comes to sex, but both have pretty much always been used for sex.

I can only repeat what I've said here before. By the age of 5 or 6 I was fascinated by and playing with, at every opportunity, my neighborhood chums bottoms. I'd had my temperature taken rectally, gotten an occasional enema, spanking and a bunch of penicillin shots but none of these events dominated my life at this stage. But bottoms sure did. Boys or girls, I've been fascinated and drawn to any nicely shaped bottom since at least this point. And I still love viewing them, playing with them. I gotta conclude I just came wired this way.

Women’s bottoms are shapely, narrow waist, flared hips, muscled legs, tight glutes. I’m fascinated by them whether clothed or not - first place I look is at a woman’s ass. My wife loved erotic butt massage, starting with upper hamstrings, glutes, spreading the glutes to visually see her rosebud. While we enjoyed vaginal sex, butt play was a delicious alternative we immensely enjoyed.

You can visually enjoy a womans butt - even when clothed they present a more enticing visual than a clothed vulva. Boobs are ok, but butts are better!

I suspect that part of it is the forbidden nature of the anus and rectum. As someone said upthread, it's taboo in most cultures, considered filthy even when things are quite clean.

So the fact that a woman allows, encourages, and enjoys his anal play suggests there's a huge amount of trust. That he has permission to explore and toy with that last, most private opening requires a greater level of intimacy than vaginal play.

I like big butts, I cannot lie. My anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, hun..

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So the fact that a woman allows, encourages, and enjoys his anal play suggests there's a huge amount of trust. That he has permission to explore and toy with that last, most private opening requires a greater level of intimacy than vaginal play.

That too! Plus the pleasure received which stimulates both partners.

What's not to like about a woman's bottom? I think a nice round curvy rear really helps define a woman's physical femininity. I've forever been attracted to womanly curves as long as I can remember and when I finally stop, they can close the lid on the box!

Because they're nice to look at, and nice to rub / squeeze / fondle. Or how they feel when the gal sits on your lap.

One of my biggest weaknesses is an attractive, nicely shaped women wearing the classic high-waisted, straight leg blue jeans with her shirt tucked in, no belt.

Just last week I was watching 'Murphy's Romace' starring James Garner and Sally Field. There's a kitchen scene where Sally is preparing dinner for herself, Garner, and the guy playing her ex-husband who's there visiting. She's wearing exactly those sort of jeans with a frilly white blouse tucked into them. There's one part where she's bent over putting something on the table, giving the viewer a really nice shot of her ass. A minute later, she's facing the camera, talking to the two men while grabbing a couple beers out of the fridge, giving viewers a nice crotch shot ( those 80's jeans- damn ) . I freely admit that I paused and screenshotted both of those for future use 😃 .

I also still like the classic large, full-ass womens' brief style panties, AKA "granny panties". I just never saw the purpose or appeal of thongs. Sue me LOL.

Because that's how we are wired. Take a biology class

Women's bottoms are wonderful! Small, pert, large, curvy - doesn't matter to me...and that lovely tight anus just begging to be touched, played with, fingered or even fucked! Wonderful.....

For whatever reason, the two young men I’ve played with both wished to be the patients and never even saw let alone touched my bottom. They were each very submissive and I think enjoyed the trust we had. Still I wonder if they ever fantasized about ME being the patient?😳 I’m still in touch with one, we play from time to time, so maybe I’ll ask… but I don’t wish to cross a line with him.

I certainly love women's bottoms- all sizes shapes and ages, wrinkly or taut. Cellulite is sexy!

Ask my husband! I know he especially loves my bottom. I’ve asked him, what’s his favorite part of me? He always answers the same, my eyes. I never believed him!

After a 10 year hiatus, this thread has been exhumed and reared it's head again. That it's deep seated interest is worth exploring, one may rise to the occasion as thoughts about the wonderful aspects of some old fashioned T&A are pondered.

Did I mention that I really enjoy that part of the female anatomy? Perhaps it's the allure of some degree of fondling, caressing, or penetrating that area that often is guarded with "No Trespassing" conditions, that really triggers some fanatical desires. Your bottoms "make the rockin' world go round"!

Lady's butts are beautiful. I always love to give my wife's but a rub, and a squeeze, my wife likes it also. When I was a teenager many girl's always liked to sit on my lap because it always gave me a boner and they enjoyed giving me a boner and I also enjoyed having their soft lovely butt on my lap.

Being Bi and having played with both men and women, I have to say the biggest visual turn on for me is a woman's ass viewed from a doggie style position with anus and pussy in full view. Yes, a guy with a great ass is sexy too but for me nowhere as hot as a woman's ass. I think that this image is maybe a hardwired image burned into men's psyche that has developed over our evolutionary history for eons of time. When you think about doggie style fucking it is how many primates and mammals have sex with the male mounting the female from behind.

Seeing a woman's ass from the doggy style position is my biggest sexual turn-on hands down.

Perhaps it's the allure of some degree of fondling, caressing, or penetrating that area that often is guarded with "No Trespassing" conditions, that really triggers some fanatical desires.

@sse4fun That is a big driver for me. Butts are covered, private, hidden, taboo, off limits. That all fuels my desire to peek behind the curtain, get in there and get dirty, experience their deep dark secret, be in their personal space, and experience them at their raw state. So very naughty.

I’m addicted to looking at and playing with the outside and inside of a woman’s butt. I’m under the impression that women also enjoy playing with a guy’s butt. I used to attend a local church, and their Bible study group openly condemned anything anal. They stated that it was perverted and sinful. I never returned again. Obviously, these are not normal men, with natural desires.

They are aesthetically shaped and attractive to look at. Probably hard-wired into our mental appreciation and sex-drive, since traditionally, and by this I mean in paleontological terms of tens of thousands of years, apparently sexual intercourse was initiated and conducted by the female presenting her buttocks for penetration from the rear. Which is also why many say that the traditional shape of a heart is not that of a heart at all, but of buttocks being presented for sex.

So there are several quite old and long-standing biological and cultural reasons and impulses pushing men to appreciate the look and feel of female buttocks.

In a nutshell, normal men have a hard time resisting an ingrained impulse. Men are almost hard-wired to do so.

Why??? Seriously????

Hummm??? I am compelled to admit that I had to contemplate this question. However, here is what I came up with so to speak. For a countless number of years, a woman's buttocks have been a physical aspect admired and desired by both sexes but of course especially men. Also, and more recently, many of the lower extremity garment's that women wear distinctly exhibit their buttocks and the recent skintight workout pants or leggings certainly verify this too. Continuing, a woman's buttocks is where a lot of physical communication occurs and for example, a man will pat or gently massage her butt. Also, to include playfully swatting her butt or spanking her butt expressing his disapproval, dominance, or allowed by mutual consent due to the gratification received from submitting to a traditional spanking. The more invasive activities with a woman's butt such as fingering, sodomy or giving her an enema will often create a more intimate and emotional "connection" between her and man too. My last example is this, a woman I once adored more than I can say or describe said to me,

"I only give up my butt to you Ray,"

This convinced & verified to me why men like to play with a woman's butt,,,,,,she considers that man very special to her!

What is it that everybody likes so much about playing with a woman's bottom?

Oh the sight of a curvaceous backside brings out the 😈 👿 👹 👺in me.

Because I find women's butts very attractive and sexy, especially have they have a nice bubble butt!!! 😜 But there are exceptions, if it's the size of one that won't fit in a car seat, or hard to cover with jeans or slacks, I'll pass. But then I'm a butt man you know, and that's the only thing I like about grocery shopping. 😉 LOL

Simple answer THEY LIKE IT

It is so true.

I hear there's an interesting book out that might explore this subject a bit. It's called "Butts: A Backstory". Any of you read it? If so, what did you think?

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/59366123