Self Spankers.....

Hard to believe.

@Spkmibtm07 that many just isn't necessary...

@caresabouthealth I sooooooooooooooo agree with you!!!! OMG!!! OUCH!!!

The number of spanks is purely dependent on the infraction and the moral turpitude of the offender.

Some infractions are punishable by severe corporal punishment, extreme torture or even amputation or dismemberment.

@SwitchableSusie Dimemberment is way too harsh and 1000 spankings/swats isn't needed...it's a bit insane even.

I agree with Switchable Susie, the punishment spankings I deserved. Tonight's 500 swats were so intense on my tender sore behind. Each 100 swats made me do the spanking dance. I spanked myself completely naked and stood in the corner for 10 minutes after each 100 swats with my hands on my head. The stinging pain was thrilling. Standing in the corner was humiliating. Spanking is my passion and it never fails to fulfill my desire for submissiveness, humiliation, intense stinging pain to my bottom for punishment I so deserve. My bottom will be sore for two or three days and I so enjoy viewing my welted, red, bruised backside. I have promised myself a repeat punishment spanking after three days rest.

@SwitchableSusie Dimemberment is way too harsh and 1000 spankings/swats isn't needed...it's a bit insane even.

What can I say?

We play hard. 😁

1000 Hits: I've done that, although not every session; hardly ever less than 400. The damage to the body is related to how hard each one of the blows is, implements, and where. Butt, front of leg, back of legs, penis, testicles. 25 hits here, 50 there with one implement, repeat with several others, rest a little, repeat, and after an hour or so, 1000 easy. Being a wuss, maybe I don't hit as hard as others; I very seldom have bruise on the butt. I hit hard enough to feel a good sting. I use large paint sticks for the butt, straps, riding crop, couple tawses (split leather belt), thin bamboo garden stakes (these hurt) on my butt. I recently built a testicle pillory, picture in the images section, so I can self spank my penis and balls, hard enough so scrotum bleeds. The penis does not have as many pain endings as the hand. Same hit to hand will cause more pain that same blow to penis. 20 to palm is like 50-60 to penis. Like other members posting above, I enjoy acting out the humiliation of being naked & restrained hand, ankles and testicles while receiving spanks.

It’s been a while, but I’ve done it in the past, always accompanied or followed by masturbation (& amazing orgasms). Most effective were a switch or long-handled wooden spoon on a bare bottom either bent over the edge of the bed or propped up on pillows.

My desire to be spanked had to stem from some unknown early childhood incident. i used to try to get my parents to spank me. If that did not work, I went downstairs to the basement rec room. I pulled out an old hassock, pulled down my pants, and paddled myself, while over it. I did this for most of my childhood until my cousin, 2 years younger than me, caught me. I then had to pull down my pants and undies to my knees and get over her lap at least once a week! She always sat on the same hassock that I had used.

I do not have a partner, so when the need arises I use belt.... standing with my foot on a chair

I have been a self spanker since I was 16.... I got into it by watching others, or seeing photos of red bums, and was fascinated to see that I could turn my bum red as well by spanking it.

At first, I would only use my hands, then later used wooden spoons and hiarbrushes. In the times were I was single I spanked myself several times so hard, that I had difficulties sitting for days, and had visible marks for at least 2 weeks.

My favorite position is on the bed, bum propped up by some cushions, and pants down to the feet. To get that "kiddie" feeling, I also like to let my feet hang in the air, out of the bed, feeling a bit like being over the lap of a parent. I would have a mirror placed at the end of the bed where I would monitor the results.

I would then start by taking my rectal temperature, then to warm up my cheeks with my hand, next use the hairbrush, and, lastly, the wooden spoon. I am erect during the whole procedure, and either I cum during the spanking, or would hump the pillows to come to a close, while enjoying the stinging of my cheeks.

Later, I would send myself to bed, take my temp rectally again, and give myself 2 suppositories; one painkiller, and one with a mild sedative to make me sleep (I normally use VOMEX A; they are originally against motion sickness, but make you really really sleepy!).

When waking up, I would then admire the marks on my bum.

Once, I literally beat the shit out of me.. It was during one of the londer sessions, hitting the same spot over and over with the spoon until it burnt like hell, to my surprise I suddenly felt my sphincter open, without me being able to stop it, and discharging my bowel contents between my legs. At that time this made me so excited that I came immediately.

These days, I am in a relation who is not into spanking at all, so I have developed a technique where I could spank myself that it stings nicely, my cheeks turn a healthy read, but this would disappear after an hour or so.

Another thing that has developed over the years is that, when spanking myself by hand, and clenching my buttocks and sphincter in the rhythm of the spanks, this will lead to a nice hands free orgasm..

Looking forward to your replies!

In addition to my earlier post of my wife making me spank myself for her amusement, I have many times spanked my self with the bath brush for as hard and long as i can, which is not enough! It is NOTHING like a REAL spanking! Luckily she does spank me often but almost NEVER as hard or long as i need and WANT! (Only about 10-15 severe spankings in 46 years!)

I have a mentor who tells me what to do and how to do it. the position i find the worst is the diaper position and the implement is the two- tailed leather strap. i hate having to strap my sit spots because it hurts for days having to sit down but nothing is more effective to get me to follow the rules and behave.

Sometimes. When i do somthing wrong i spank myself.. I dont know why lol but i like it

Hi all. Anyone out there like to self spank themselves? I love it so any others love it too?

I do. I'd prefer to have a woman to switch with. Until I find the right woman who'll be willing to dish out as well as take a good spanking, I just play on my own. I may see a pro disciplinarian at some point. A few months back when I realized I wanted to be spanked, I used heavy rubber spatulas and spoons but it just wasn't cutting it. So I ordered a real spanking paddle. It wasn't one of those adorable faux leather toys for beginners either. My first one was the Cane-iac Sr. Oak paddle at 16" long and 1/2" thick. It was lighter than I anticipated but it can pack a solid smack. I had told myself I wasn't going to go amassing implements until I had a regular play partner. Well, that was a lie lol. Surprisingly, I can push myself to new limits. My last self paddling left me bruised for about 5 days with some tender spots sticking around longer. So I went and ordered some new stuff to see I handled it. I have a delrin loop and new paddle that arrived today. Also this week I bought a bath brush and hair brush. The hair brush is too small and light. I'll need to search out a bigger one. The bath brush can work up some serious speed and torque so I'll probably get pretty intense with that. I just hope I don't break it. My delrin loop is like a cane but for OTK. I can get some good hits with it but it would work better in the hands of someone else. It doesn't achieve the whip action like a cane should and it's very light. It has potential to leave serious welts but I can't get a good enough hit on myself. Now my new paddle, that thing is impressive! It's zebra wood, 20" long, 2.75" wide and 7/8" thick! It's definitely thuddy but still packs a nice sting. The smacks are quiet compared to my other paddle. This thing could seriously be used like a billy club. Definitely for use on soft spots only and I'm predicting some heavy bruises. For my next extended session, I think I'll go, oak paddle to get the surface and get things really heated up, the loop to because it will sting like the dickens on already paddled skin then the heavy paddle to get that deep sensation. Sorry for writing a novel in reply but self spanking is new to me and I've been having fun with it lol

Self spanking has been a satisfying fill in for the times there are no spankers available or if a spanker would like to witness me giving myself a spanking. I use a variety of spanking instruments and have a 500 spank minimum. I spank in sets of 50, then change to a different spanking tool. I write down how the spanking will be done and that way I follow through and do not stop. My plastic coated quarter inch thick cable looped into a loopy johnny leaves welts. I have double and triple loopy johnny's. Paddles and leather straps provide the impact sting. I feel so much better after a spanking and self spanking provides that. I am a fan.

I started a thread "Self Punishment - Enema vs Spanking" at https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1022828 check it out. I find it interesting to read here about those who can actually enjoy self-spanking. I've tried it, but as I mentioned it has worked for me...

I have experimented with self spanking several times and while it is somewhat erotic and exciting, I prefer being over my husbands knee so much more!! Denise

I've tried it a couple of times but been disappointed.

I'm a budding disciplinarian and I don't have any bottoms to spank. I practice online spanking, telling people to follow my instructions for punishment...

I'm curious about what you find effective. Positions, implements, etc...

(And if anyone is willing to self spank letting me watch/direct feel free to pm)

I do for discipline and stress relief. I use an oak paddle, four fingered tawse, plastic bath brush, and belt just to name a few. I have been self spanking for about 45 years give or take.

I have spanked myself to tears on several occasions. It generally takes a half hour or more. It leaves bruises and my naughty bare bottom will sting for at least three days or more.

The important thing is I always feel better after the spanking is over.

I like the diaper position with a hairbrush.

I just cant hit myself hard enough when i self spank. any suggestions on how i can hit harder? i really wish i had a spanking machine. does anyone have any good plans of making one cheap?

Bad Boy, check out cane-iac. They have a paddle under their wood paddles section called "Terra's Terror." It's a wood section built on a delrin loop, 7/8" thick with a single hole drilled in the middle. They just got them back in stock and I just ordered one a few hours ago and haven't had the opportunity to test it yet. The idea is that the delrin loop creates a whipping action that propels the paddle section faster. It is specifically designed for self spankers. I'm more of a fan of traditional implements, specifically wooden paddles but it's impossible for me to get the leverage to go beyond a certain point. I'm hoping that implement will deliver the strikes I'm looking for. In the hands of someone else that thing has potential to really sting under the range of motion and force of a full swing. Once it arrives and I test it on myself I'll post an update.

I do enjoy being spanked. I was spanked growing up and have enjoyed ever since. I spank myself but rather have someone spank me. I love being told I have been a naughty little baby and need a hard spanking. When growing up I was always spanked on my bare bottom which I prefer. I always had my pants and underwear pulled down all the way down and sometimes pulled off. There were times I was getting a spanking and to get ready for it. I would always just pull my pants down and not my underwear but soon was told I was getting it bare bottom and always pleaded no but I did not it known I rather be naked. It always ended standing in the corner showing my red bottom and sometimes having a diaper put on me.

Being that my wife is vanilla and is okay with my kinks. She does not participate in my kinks. So, i have to self spank using a long handle wooden bath brush. I will lay face down on the bed or in the diaper position for self spanking. The problem I have with self spanking is I find I tend to go easy on myself and don't really get the desired effect a real spanking should be. If the pain get to be to much. I either stop or lighten the swats.

I have been into self spanking for many years. I finally got my wife to agree to spank me but she never had the strength to make me cry. My ass must have gotten desensitized over the years. Since she passed, I have had to self spank. I will alternate between a paddle, a whip made from leather shoe laces, a belt, and a whip made from insulated wires. I have administered 100 blows from each on each butt cheek (yes that is 500 each) and still don't produce bruises or welts. I am swinging as hard as I can. I agree that DIY is nowhere near as good as having someone else do it for you.

Addressing the question of 'how do you punish yourself': Since my butt cheeks are so impervious to the pain of self-spanking, I created what I call "punishment pants". I have two versions.

The first is a pair of briefs that I turned inside out and glued bottle caps all over the butt area. I turned them right side out, put them on over my bare bottom, and covered them with a tight fitting pair of biker shorts. Sitting on them for several hours will not only tenderize your butt but will leave a beautiful pattern on your cheeks.

The second version is the same as the first but with thumb tacks instead of bottle caps. I pushed the tacks through from the back and held them in place with duct tape. This version is more intense and will usually cause pin-prick bleeding.

I would love to chat with a female who self spanks and or does self punishment , maybe get some tips Thanks

I remember self-spanking when I was home alone as a teenager. I got one of my dad's leather slippers (the ones he used to spank my bare bottom with) and spanked my own bare bottom with it, but I could never do it anywhere near as hard as my dad did.