Afraid to ask husband to play doctor

As a man I can't imagine any other man with any testosterone in his body at all not enjoy hearing his wife's secret fantasies. I have the medfet in my marriage but wife understands and plays along, and she enjoys the benifit

I will second that, Dr Saxman!

I'll third that!

What have you got to lose?

Most guys would love to play doctor, especially when they are the doctor.

Is that mean you are willing????

You just got to be honest, I told my ex very early on & she excepted & indulged but at the same time enjoyed. If you can't be honest & open with the one you love there's something wrong.

You can't lose anything by asking him. Most guys I think have this fantasy. Let him know that it's a fantasy of yours, maybe bring him with you to the doctor some time or something.

If he agrees, buy a speculum and let him use it on you. I can't speak for him but I would bet that it'll be a huge turn on.

If you have a good relationship with your husband im sure you will find by talking to him hes receptive

Most guys would leap at the chance, I'm sure he will too. He'll probably enjoy it himself, but if he enjoys giving you pleasure - which I'm sure he does - then he'll want to do it even if it's not his particular fantasy.

To reply to Tasha: A casual boyfriend might freak out if you bring up the subject, or he might enjoy it. But if you find one you think you want to spend the rest of your life with, you need to tell him early. If he can't handle it, he is not the one for you. You can't spend your whole life hiding who you are, and it would be a tragedy to spend the rest of your life unfulfilled. If fact, that may be a way to weed out the competition. Tell him. If he can't get into it, move on. When you find the one who embraces your fantasy, he's a keeper.

This is my first post, so kinda nervy! I've been with my husband since I was very young and we've grown up together, and while I've mentioned my fetishes before, I don't think he knows the extent that I'd be interested in exploring, and I'm not confident enough to explain them to him although he is quite open minded 😢

A difficult subject to bring up for sure since it cannot be taken back, however if your man is open minded as you say and you've been together so long you might find he loves the idea.

At worst I doubt he would think differently about you after all this time, it might even encourage him to tell you something he's been thinking about too!

Buy a stethoscope and some gloves rent a vid concerning the subject get a digital thermometer wear a nurse uniform and just listen for the heart beat and lung function

very soft gentle touches

Write a scenario/story you want to play out, including the characters, and what could happen during the medical session.

Eg. You are the shy nervous patient, or dominant patient, smartass annoying patient, etc.. he is a gentle doctor, or a sadistic, an old country doc who makes housecall, etc..

Then write out the things you wanted done: the stetoscope feels cold under my breast, your face in full concentration as you listen. Your fingers massaging my breasts for lumps and pinched my nipples. I winced because it hurts a little. Then you palpate my tummy (and so on). Then at last you move to the end of the table n insruct me to scoot down n put my feet on the stirrups. Your hands gently part my knees and push them apart. I shudder and feel so weak, it makes me wet.You take a careful look on me down there. Then you parted my pink lips that are already turning red with your cold fingers....

Don't give 100% details. Leave some room for imagination. Then email it to your husband. Most guys have a tiny bits of medfet in them and want to pkay doctor. You just have to ignite the pilot flame in the gas stove, so to speak.

Good luck!

Ahhh, but tasha, they might be into it or at least willing to give it a try because you like it. There is nothing better then to have a partner that likes what you do...

Just go for it! he will understand

Why the hell dont i have a woman who wants all this..................

Talk to him about it. My wife wasn't into playing doctor and we talked about it and little by little she's coming around and getting more open to the idea.

I would definitely talk to him about it. I think there is a good chance that he would be glad to hear it. I know I would! If you can't share your fantasies with your husband then who can you share them with? The crew at Zity Biz?

Does anyone know or recall what Dr Brian (or doctorbrian) was saying on this topic back in 2009? It seems the posts have gone now, but his(?) approach to the subject and suggestions were obviously well regarded by those who saw them (see #10, #11, #19, and #57).

Maybe the Cosmo magazine references or articles would still be traceable on the web.

I'm trying to get communication with my wife about kinky play flowing properly and would like to learn from whatever doctorbrian/Dr Brian said. My wife used to read Cosmopolitan magazine, so I thought that could be a useful starting point.