Enemas ARE Romantic!

Hi Everyone!

My name is Naughty Nurse, and I am Naughty Doc's wife. I just signed up for the forum, because Doc asked me to get involved with the online community.

I read the postings about enemas being totally non-romantic, and I really disagree.

Now, please consider that Doc and I have been together for over ten years, and so I cannot speak for people who give enemas to acquaintances, or strangers (maybe even clients), but in my life, enemas are usually a very romantic activity.

When Doc gives me a treatment, whether for health reasons, for punishment, or for fun, he is taking wonderful personal care of me. He pays attention to my entire body, even the parts "society" doesn't want to know about. Just this feeling of closeness and ultimate intimacy is enough to make me feel romantic. He makes me feel cared for and really loved, and I get the "warm fuzzies."

Besides that, enemas, and anal attention in general, tend to make me aroused. The major muscle groups between a woman's legs are all interconnected. Therefore, when my anus is stimulated, my vagina gets indirectly stimulated. Kind of in the same way that when my clit is stimulated, my vagina wants attention too! So generally, after a good series of enemas, I feel pretty romantic and sexy, and our sessions most often end with intercourse.

There are slight variations, and after my treatment, things will feel different based on what kind of an enema it was.

If it was for health reasons, I usually feel a lot better, and more energetic. Combine that with the "fuzzies" and I am usually ready for some romantic time together, with lots of cuddles at the very least.

If it was for punishment, Doc holds me and forgives me, and tells me he loves me. Once again, I get a lot of romantic feelings. We most often will make love afterwards.

If it was for fun - then there is really no other feeling to have but happiness and love! We just enjoy each other's bodies, and laugh about everything. These enemas are obviously quite sexy in nature, and it always ends in love-making.

On the other hand, when I give Doc a treatment, I get to be the "caretaker" which already makes me feel pretty loving and romantic. He becomes my little patient, and I work really hard to make sure he is having a good time. As a result, I also have a good time. And as I explained above, if we are having fun, then we are happy and feeling romantic.

On top of all these emotional and physiological factors, there is also something to be said about enemas being so taboo. Our treatments are quite private and almost entirely secret. Sharing such a special "secret" is something that makes us feel closer and more romantic.

I know that sometimes people feel so ashamed of their "dirty" parts, that they can't really enjoy enemas, or any sort of anal play. Or maybe they don't have someone loving and trusted to play with. At this point in my life, and my relationship, I don't fit into those categories anymore. However, I can understand both those points of view, as I myself had to start out many years ago with no experience, and work my way up to feeling confident enough in my body to let myself really enjoy anal play. It always helps to be with someone who is gentle and understanding.

In MY fantasies, I am a Princess, and MY Prince doesn't always ride in on a white charger. Sometimes he worships me and my body. Sometimes he stomps in wearing boots and leathers and flogs me until I am sore. Sometimes he plays Doctor, and we have an enema-tastic time. And all of these pleasures can exist within one bedroom.

Thank you naughty nurse

you said it as well as can be--sure works for me

alas--wish my lady were like you------

badger

Sounds like fun is had by all!

Jimbeaux

B R A V O !

When you distill that all down, you have the essense of a very happy marriage!

Thanks for your female insight. Wish more wives/girl friends were as enthusiastic and romantic about enemas as you. A truly Naughty, but Nice Nurse.

Don't all men wish for this experience?

Thanks for sharing with us! Thant gives us hope!

Now that's what I call enema heaven.My first wife and I shared many of the same experiances.There were times I just could'nt wait to get home after work knowing what was to come,yes come we did as we would share enemas back and forth.The night would fly by so fast until the wee hours of the morning.The pleasures of enemas by two loving people is truly the biggest high ever.Let the good times flow.w/m 72yrs/W.MA

Yes, I agree, done the right way, enemas are very romantic. 😃

GN

I enjoy having my wife administer them to me. I prefer to make the first couple of expulsions in private however.

I was with a girl once and was going down on her (please bare with me, I am not trying to be crude). While I was down there I lapped her butt hole and she bucked like crazy. She never was licked there before; but because it was a tender area on her she went wild. She loved it.

We broke up before we could get to the enema stage (she turned out to be quite the psychotic and I had to end it); however judging from her first rim job I think she would have been into it and it would have been part of our love making.

It was definitely fun and erotic as far as we got with anal play, and she was quickly over her inhibitions once she was licked down there.

Hope this adds to your inquiry.

I agree enemas can be very sensual and romantic, one can only hope to meet a woman who feels the way you do to share in the romance of it all

It seems to me that a couple of enemas and then rimming would make the experience squeaky cleaner!

The answer is simple, at least in Freudian psychology. Background---We are all inhibited about our bowels, a necessary part of living as a social animal. Disease is spread via contact with the contents of the colon, so over the eons we had to learn to control our bowels and go privately outside the village etc. Next having a BM is pleasant, disease is spread via contact with the contents of the colon, most diseases have as a part of their course problems with moving the bowels--- a conflict, since nature also makes it feel good to move the bowels. From toddlerhood on, all of us are dealing with this.

Enter Momma, Momma loves us, including our stinky bms, she cleans them up until she teaches us to go outside the village or in a potty. So we trust someone with our bowels, our mother.

How do you get your beloved to let you give them an enema? Simple get them to trust you as they trusted their mother at age two, to take care of them. If they trust you this much, and know you love them as Momma did, approach it rationally.

If they are sick an enema will make them feel better, and you love them and want them to feel better. If they are not sick, say grouchy, pms etc., you want them to feel better---and they will after an enema, you love them and want them to feel better. Enemas induce a very real euphoria whether you are sick when having one or not: you love them and want them to be euphoric.

It is a matter of trust. Every person who has had a good well given enema, feels better for having had it whether there was a physical need or not, and everyone feels better after moving their bowels.

If your mate doesn't trust you, feel they can let this ultimate guard down, there is a problem. It may be that they are not that deeply bonded to you. More likely is that in modern society, with its lack of intimate love, they are highly inhibited about BMs and feel negative about themselves because of this.

A hard barrier to break, this comes from abuse during toilet training. Children lovingly toilet trained love enemas. Children abused during this process tend to hate them and hate anyone who admits enjoying an enema, or having a BM. This is a serious problem, one that dominates our society. People go from cradle to grave afraid to be loved as they are. Learning to love enemas is a major way o reverse this.

So if you have a positively toilet trained mate, once the first enema is given, there will be more. If you mate was abused during those early years---and they won't know this. Memories of this period of life are not permanant. No child abused at 1-3 over this will remember it, it will show in their reactions, and they may try to rationalize thier hatred of BMs and enemas, but they cannot because they don't know why they feel so emotional about them

---a serious problem in our society, because some abused children grow up to be policepersons, legislators or judges making themselves caretakers of the public good. If they find people that do not hate having BMs they will prosecute them because in their subconcious they equate having a BM as an act of evil, a crime! These people make having a BM a crime, like the rule that you cannot have a BM at a rest area in Georgia from 11PM to 7AM, someone put through orders to close all rest rooms during this hour and force people to hold it till morning!

Fortunately most people in power are there because they feel positive about themselves---ie feel positive about their BMs as well. For them an enema is good, and people who give them enemas are good. On finding a underling seeking out and destroying people who have BMs or enemas, these leaders tend to quietly transfer these enforcers to the Everglades on alligator patrol or some other more appropriate position, but they don't always get them before they harm other normal people, as the person who got BMs to be illegal in Georgia during the evening hours for travelers.

Normal people like having BMs, once they know what the feeling of having enemas is like, will like having enemas and want to repeat the process if it is done rationally: in a healthful way, gently and lovingly.

Your significant other is one of these two types, abused in toilet training or not. If they were not abused, once you have their trust, they will want enemas. If they were abused, you have a much harder row to hoe.

Good luck

@lifeknox - great answer!

@veryclean - I am re-posting my comments from the "embarrassment" posting. I hope it helps.

All I want to add is that in any relationship, you must communicate your boundaries, and negotiate the way you want your "play" to go. And if a couple sets up those boundaries, and agrees to them, they must not be broken.

However - if any of you are into BDSM, the way Doc and I are, you will find that some ladies (and even some men) will start out saying "NO!", but can eventually be persuaded otherwise.

For example - you have a submissive, but shy, partner. You introduce enemas, and she/he is willing to try, but doesn't want you in the bathroom - totally understandable!

Your task - start slow and easy, then get more intense. The first few times, let her/him be alone. Then you can re-negotiate the boundaries - say, leaving the door open. After that works, move on to insisting your presence, but be sure to offer rewards. Say, if she/he behaves/cooperates, you will give them "X" that they really like.

It's all about working towards both of your enjoyment. It took Doc and I years to work out our boundaries to ensure our mutual enjoyment! Take your time, communicate, negotiate, and it should work out for the best!

In addition to being romantic, I think enemas are even more intimate than strait sex.

Lifeknox,

I second MissNaughtyNurse's positive assessment of your reply. (Her reply is great, too.)

I'm not sure about the "everyone" part. People are so different that absolutes are almost guaranteed to have exceptions.

People who are not afraid of BM's, who are not ashamed and enjoy healthy functioning of their bodies won't mind digging a hole at the rest stop in Georgia at night, squatting, dumping and covering their holes.

Of course that wouldn't be so nice if a squad car suddenly turned on their spotlights!

Wishing happy and satisfying BMs to all (and enemas to help those in need.)

Miss naughty nurse you really have a feel for what klismos are and feel. Your words will help many people to better accept and enjoy relationships. Play on!

I wish more women had your outlook. But it seems as tho you both have a wonderful lifestyle and take care of each other well. Thats great you met and are married. Most people never get the chance. I agree wholeheartedly that enemas are romantic. The fantasy fiction and plain fantasies I've had over the years involving enemas are all ectremely romantic. Its a heightened sense of pleasure for sure. Thanx NN for sharing

Early in our marriage I was very sick. A home health nurse showed my husband how to give me an enema. We did not realize it at the time but the nurse's lesson later blossomed into an intimate act of caring between us that we have shared over the years.I imagine most people these days would not think of their spouse giving them an enema as being romantic. And I admit getting a tube in my bottom from a bulging enema bag when I'm feeling lousy and my insides are tied up has not always felt the epitome of romance. On the other hand, there have been deep feelings of caring and closeness between us during an enema, both taking and giving, that we treasure.

Vicky (post #23) Your heartfelt description of romantic enemas was a pleasure to read. I was so happy to hear of the closeness between you and your hubby, and expect you will enjoy a long and "romantic" wedded life with the fortunate guy. Thanks for the post.

Because enemas are arousing, erotic, and a close and intimate experience, they can be used as a form of foreplay for any activity. There have even been posts of people having sex while receiving or holding an enema. I have done it, and it is a great enhancement.

One of the first women that I ever gave an enema to made the comment: "You know, I have had sex with several men, but I have never let anyone give me an enema before. This is so much more intimate than sex. I mean to give up control of your bowels to someone is the ultimate". I think that set the tone for my giving to females from then on. She was right. Many women would never think of submitting to an enema so I think that in a way it is very romantic in that you are trusting your partner with something so personal.

Yes they are!!!

Like, BarryB, a fellow Mississippian says "yes, the ARE!!!' At least for me....

A tough week! My office lost a major client. We have an important presentation at a conference coming up in May and my boss is driving me crazy. Sometimes my GI system is not happy in these situations. Plus I was having a rare attack of the blahs this week -- and a headache. Thursday night I told my husband I was just going to have soup for dinner and go to bed. "Maybe you should take an enema," he asked. Totally without thinking I said I didn't feel like doing it myself, would he help me? Well, even though I agreed to wait until the game was over on TV, what occurred after that was a mini life changer. Maybe it was suddenly my anticipation. My body needed a little cleansing and a psychological lift. And what an added benefit from a little romance. Actually, much more than little!! Friday turned out to be a wonderful day. I was back in the groove. ???

A beautiful story of your life, Miss naughty.

Thank you for your fresh calibrating perspective.

. . . . My body needed a little cleansing and a psychological lift. And what an added benefit from a little romance. Actually, much more than little!! Friday turned out to be a wonderful day. I was back in the groove. ???

SOMETHING was in the groove! 😁 😁 😁

Among a couple who are in a really close relationship enemas are simply the most intimate and romantic thing that they can share. Often the opening to very close and really delightful further activities. We both love them!

Hello Miss Naughty Nurse and many thanks for your input. You are absolutely correct by saying Enemas ARE Romantic. I agree with you totally. My husband and I are very close and married for 35 years. We accept each other as human beings and love each other unconditionally. We have arrived or had arrived years ago to the place where there is nothing hidden between us. Nothing taboo or shameful but very erotic and exciting. Just him and I in private! At this point in our lives there is nothing held back and nothing left to the imagination. I love his passionate kisses while sitting on the toilet or on my exam table expelling my enema. I'm a show off and I love to have him watch me! And I love his gentleness as he cleans me like a baby. This is passion and love in a way that is up near heaven I believe. Enemas ARE Romantc. I'm married to a Doc also, a real one. As I said and as you have said, this is intimate and behind closed doors private between us. It's soothing to the spirit to be able to communicate with people who have similar marital and sexual desires and pass times. We are very careful and never involve anyone but us. We are also human and very deep in love. Someday we will look back at our lives to see what fun we had by being two trusting people in love. That's a helluva lot better than thinking, "dammit, I wish we would have done that when we had the chance" We won't let that happen. In any life, no one is promised five minutes from right now. To all the lovers out there, put away your inhibitions and have fun, really get to know your lovers. Romantic Enemas would be a great way to start a really strong bonding and binding relationship and love. Hey give it a go tonight! How about a nice dinner, some lingerie, maybe stockings and high heels, a few drinks of your choice and the enema equipment. Make things intimate, talk lovers talk during the entire ordeal. Fill her slow and gentle and massage her swollen belly. When she's ready, walk her to the toilet, set her down and kneel in front of your goddess. Kiss her in a way you have never kissed her before as she empties her body there in front of you. You clean her after she's finished and anoint her body with a bit of baby powder. Then you talk about the beauty that had just taken place. This will change your life!

Thank You Miss Naughty Nurse!

Gynedoll, thank you for your touching explanation of your relationship with your hubby. You are both Blessed people.