Enema vs. sex: what is more intimate?

I have to agree with Chelle, as to this day I feel administering an enema to a lady is the most bonding experience.

Sex is fabulous but when a woman trusts you enough to allow you to place her naked body across your lap, and pour or pump fluid into her, it has the most amazing effect on both parties.

Hi all, I'm sure my experiences are quite different than most so is my opinion on this topic. I don't think that just 'sex' is a fair comparison. Anal sex is way more intimate than vaginal sex in-my-humble-opinion.

I started taking enemas at 14, I had my first sexual intercourse at 16, the third time I had sex it was anal which I found more comfortable than vaginal sex at that time. For years I always thought I was strange in that area until a fellow I met on line explained to me that the enemas I had been using since I was 14 got my anal area used to being expanded - this made anal penetration easy and enjoyable. Eventually after continuing on with vaginal sex it became very enjoyable but I always still craved anal sex. My late husband loved anal sex as do I still. So for me anal sex is more intimate - still is to this day.

BJ

I would say enemas are more intimate than just sex especially these days when it’s more common for casual “hook up”

Enema use is a “odd thing “ I think for most of the general public unless ordered by a doctor

Erotic enemas are sex. If it's just an enema given to a child or parent for health reasons, it could be, and probably is, whether it's welcomed/appreciated or not, intimate. But not sex. Sex could be intimate, or a substitution for intimacy.

Erotic enemas are sex. If it's just an enema given to a child or parent for health reasons, it could be, and probably is, whether it's welcomed/appreciated or not, intimate. But not sex. Sex could be intimate, or a substitution for intimacy I'm generalizing.

@BigJane Your story is cool, not many women like anal sex, even fewer who talk about it.

Sex is always good but Enemas are by far the ultimate experience. As a male, the exquisite "internal pains" that only an enema can give as it continues to fill your bowels is almost beyond imagination and when given by someone who well knows what you are experiencing, by simply gently holding your balls will bring you to an orgasm, draining every last drop of your hot cum, totally exhausting you.

From the aspect of being naked, both sex or enemas have similar degrees of nudity but the communications needed is greater for an enema, the time required is way more if several enemas are given or taken, and the trust required for allowing someone to give you an enema is greater. I don't think that anyone that has learned to mesh the cramping and fullness of an enema with the act of achieving a sexual climax would fail to realize the benefit of having a large enema coincidental to a sexual climax. Sex is certainly great, and when you associate an enema with greater sexual satisfaction it is hard not to realize if you have the time a few enemas can take things to a new level. That being the case intimacy is chosen for the reasons of satisfaction and the enema tips the scale decisively.

Our sensory systems all contribute to satisfaction, seeing, hearing, touch, warmth, taste, and smell may seem equal but the interleaving of muscle and nerve tissue in the perineal area easily makes the feelings from the anus, and rectum blend with those from the genitals. The final straw is that when the rectum is full the rectal wall sends more nerve signals and applies pressure to the genital structures since they are all inside the pelvic floor area. It is not hard to duplicate those feelings, it is impossible, a vibrator or something in the rectum is not bad, but will not safely create the pressure to squeeze those other structures. When you climax it has been reported that the pressure in the rectum hits about fifty millimeters of mercury, I'd bet the pressure with a full enema in those spaces is twice that during a climax. I know that when my wife is giving me an enema with the bag three feet above me that I have heard air pushed from my rectum go up into the bag when I climax.

So intimacy on a scale of 1 to 10 is one part, satisfaction on a scale of 1 to 10 is another, the two must be somewhat intertwined but they are different.

Enemas are way more intimate than sex because with an enema - you are in complete control of someone else having a bowel movement. The whole ordeal can be very personal and embarrassing

Never had an enema (yet!) but I'd imagine I would find it more intimate than sex. Anything where the genital and anal region is the focus... those moments are beyond intimate for me.

As to plain sex, my experiences have ranged from exciting to boring. At least with guys I haven't had much that I would call intimate but maybe I haven't met the right person yet. The only exception is with the two young men who have been my patients, but that wasn't sex, because my clothes remained on because I'm the doctor. I mean, maybe they considered it sex but I was just being a naughty doctor, not having sex 😇

Despite my reservations and the embarrassment factor, I DO want to try an enema one day, especially after chatting with certain women friends here on Zity. I think with the right woman it would be so so so intimate.

I was given enemas long before I had sex for the first time, long before I could be sexually active.

Nevertheless, I felt great embarrassment when I had to hold out my butthole to Mom in anticipation of her treatments.

It wasn't until my twenties, during my military service, that I received my first enemas after a 10-year break; this time from a sexual partner.

She insisted on thoroughly rinsing out each other before every sex. Offering my ass to her for the first time so that she could insert a rubber enema tube deep into me for a 2 liter enema initially took a lot of effort. That only went away after a while. She, on the other hand, had no fear of contact, quite the opposite. She couldn't wait for me to get busy with her asshole.

With my wife, I have no problems giving her my ass for enemas when she asks. I know she's into it...

In 40 years of being together, my husband and I have had moments of incredible intimacy that I never dreamed of during our wedding night when both of us, we sometimes joke, were babes in the woods sexually. Actually, we discovered that wasn’t so terrible. As newlyweds, we had wonderfully memorable moments learning!!

At the same time, when two people vow to love and care for each other in sickness and in health, there are also levels of intimacy that neither of us on our wedding night could ever think of happening in our lives.

Hence, when I was critically injured two months into our marriage and needed home nursing and TLC, including my husband learning to give me enemas because the pain meds were making my insides miserable, we discovered a level of intimacy that, looking back, strengthened our love for each other. I know this would sound weird to a lot of women, especially, but an enema bag and the right person giving can result in intimate experiences beyond measure.

Now, whether that’s as good as or better than great sex, I’ll leave that up to you! Every body is different.

At the same time, when two people vow to love and care for each other in sickness and in health, there are also levels of intimacy that neither of us on our wedding night could ever think of happening in our lives.

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Now, whether that’s as good as or better than great sex, I’ll leave that up to you! Every body is different.

🌹It certainly strengthens bonds, and makes intimacy more special.

Never had an enema (yet!) but I'd imagine I would find it more intimate than sex. Anything where the genital and anal region is the focus... those moments are beyond intimate for me.

As to plain sex, my experiences have ranged from exciting to boring. At least with guys I haven't had much that I would call intimate but maybe I haven't met the right person yet. The only exception is with the two young men who have been my patients, but that wasn't sex, because my clothes remained on because I'm the doctor. I mean, maybe they considered it sex but I was just being a naughty doctor, not having sex 😇

Despite my reservations and the embarrassment factor, I DO want to try an enema one day, especially after chatting with certain women friends here on Zity. I think with the right woman it would be so so so intimate.

Maybe you will give it a try and see what will happened!! Surely it will not be a pleasure for everyone, but certainly a great experience!!

Milker feel your pain as had prostate surgery 3 yrs ago but no longer ejaculate, but love enemas, get prostate spot massage, and anal O.