Why does gyn excite men so much ?

This feeling started for me when my then-girlfriend had to undergo a complete physical for college, including a gynecological exam.

So in addition to what everyone said above, it is also a mandatory element for me.

When she came back in the dorm and told me that a doctor was male, I had a weird feeling of jelaousy and excitement rushing through my body. The feeling that some older stranger just saw your girl without clothes, and she just accepted that was just very new feeling to me.

For me personally, there is no effect when doctor is female.

I admit i like Adult Clips of "casting Auditions" where the Girl arrives for the interview . its a similar situation as they walk in fully dressed knowing what is going to happen , will there be embarrasment or visible signs of excitement , i think its the same as arriving for a Gyno exam the thought turns me on .

The feeling that some older stranger just saw your girl without clothes, and she just accepted that was just very new feeling to me.

For me personally, there is no effect when doctor is female.

Perfectly understandable. She's your girl and you expect to be the only man to be able to have access to her nude body. And while they're obviously not having sex, she still is displayed in an embarrassing and fully exposed position and he is doing some things to her that you presumably do -- feeling her breasts with his bare hands, inserting a finger or two in her vagina (albeit gloved) and one in her rectum, perhaps spreading her labia to inspect her clitoris. And she has no choice but to submit in order to attend this college (I'm assuming she is assigned a physician and has no option to choose a female doctor). I can see why many men feel jealousy regarding this dynamic. And I'm not even sure that jealousy is the right adjective, since you are not competing with the doctor for her affection. There must be another word for that feeling in the pit of your stomach that many men get knowing their wife/girlfriend is being exposed to another man in such fashion.

I've never gone to a gyno with a "wife" never married. But I have gone with several girlfriends. I personally enjoy seeing them in the stirrups for two reasons. The vulnerability aspect where their labia is fully displayed and then the doctor turns on the bright light as if the labia has center stage at a theater. But I also enjoy the speculum as well since it shows off the cervix. No matter how much you try to spread the labia seeing a cervix is usually difficult even with speculums. Not to mention I don't have stirrups in my play setup at home.

Family visits on a regular basis and I don't have a dedicated room that I can lock yet.

I would have thought the reason was fairly obvious?, the sight of a woman on her back , naked or semi-naked, with her legs spread wide open, nothing is more “inviting”?!!

It’s because of curiosity about what happens where boys and men are not allowed. It’s because it’s submitting to something most females would prefer not to be subjected to by anybody- let alone a stranger. It’s about penetration into secret places. It’s exciting to wonder about the patient’s vulnerability and personal thoughts in the moment. The blatant exposure and submission that most males will never experience in real life excites us.

I’ve never sat in on a gyno exam, but I had a girlfriend who would give me blow by blow commentary of her procedure during after-appointment lunches we shared. It would make us so hot that we couldn’t make it all of the way home before having raunchy vehicle sex.

The secreted away center of the human universe gets opened wide and put under the spotlight; what’s not exciting about that?

Pretty much all of it excites me. From the time their name gets called, then the urine sample, to them being asked to get undressed and then the exam. It definitely excites me more when they remove their socks too because nothing sexier than bare feet in stirrups. And just the thought of everything in general gets me going too.

To me it's really only sexy if the woman is also into medical play. That combines the embarrassment of the exam itself with the humiliation of enjoying it, and it's good for me to know that the woman is getting off on it as well. And the submission of it also.

I don't mean to speak out of turn since I'm not commenting as a guy which is what the original questions invokes. But I've observed plenty of men watching their wives and girlfriends go through a gynecological exam. They all approach things quite differently, but you can count on two things. Men are visual creatures when it comes to sex. They enjoy seeing as much as they enjoy doing. And secondarily men, whether they admit it or not, are quite turned on sexually by watching another man or woman touch their wife or girlfriend intimately, and it applies to the polar opposites of that aspect. In other words, some men are terribly jealous of a doctor touching their significant other, and some want as much of that as they can get, and in both cases, even the jealous ones, they are tuned in to the sexual aspects even though nothing overtly sexual is happening in the exam room. It simply lights up that sex regional of a man's brain like there is no tomorrow.

I like it because I know my wife like to have herself played with. I get enjoyment from seeing her getting enjoyment. I participate in lots of her examinations myself. I enjoy the female body.