Just because you like it up your ass...

Once had a gal who loved asholes. She took complete contol all with TLC and worked that hole as if was here best friend. Mostly tender rimiming, licking, and a tongue that never stopped, also a gentle finger or two in and out plus a spincer check and a gentle massauge that made me cum. Best of all she took her time to make sure everythin was done properly. That was as close to heaven I'll ever get.

@Mike45-Thanks for the karma. I do hate to see women and men miss out on this pleasure. Such a shame to waste years without when you can have the years enjoying our naughty kinks!

@jeromejin- I really hope it works out with the gf because she doesn't know what she could be enjoying. And just because you are a "perv" doesn't mean you are not perfectly normal. It just means that you do not stick to the routines that other people do. Routine sex gets boring and that is when relationships start getting rocky and slipping away. Being a perv just keeps life fun and exciting! Hang in there and keep doing it your way.

EQueen, you always put things into the right prospective. Your husbands one lucky guy. 😉

@Mike45-Thanks and yes, I do know how lucky I am, also, in having him. He is a sweetheart to me in every way. The only complaint I have ever had about him is that I have never talked him into spanking me. He says that he won't hurt me. I explained that he could never hurt me, but he still won't do it. LOL....I keep trying. He lets me spank his butt and enjoys it but will not reciprocate on this one matter.

I am a straight man who loves to have things up his ass and to be spanked. Of my lovers, three women have pleased me with anal penetration, and enjoyed doing it to me. One is my wife. She's a lot of fun and I love her with all my heart. But she won't use any kind of sex toys on my ass. She knows I have a collection and that I want her to wear a strap-on dildo and fuck me. But I've pretty much given up on getting her to fulfill this, my fondest desire. We have argued about it and I have given up trying to convince her. She finds the idea repulsive, which is strange because she likes licking my anus and fingering it (or both at the same time!) and is ok with spanking me. Many, many times I have bent over for her or gotten on all fours facedown and ass up and enjoyed as she attacked my ass with her mouth and hands. We laugh and talk "dirty" and get really wild. It's totally fulfilling, especially when she takes me all the way to orgasm. But I still want to be fucked by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo, a woman who enjoys doing that to a man.

I do anal very rarely but when I do it, I love it.the fact that it isn't frequent makes it a special treat. I clean myself out thotoughly so there's never any surprises.

What could be wrong and who would care what you put up your ass

I am not surprised to hear negative tholughts about this. but i have only positive things to say,a lot of my girlfriends prefer it anally because there is no danger of pregnancy and "loss of virginity" lol but they like it it seems harmless and what we do in our bedrooms is our business! just my 2 cents -Linda

I was not sure why I liked it I just knew I did enjoy anal rectal stimulation. I was in college in an animal science class and the topic was collecting seman from different animals. the prof told us about postrate massage and that it was used in many different programs. From that time on I knew it was very natural. I feel bad for those that are too narrow mainded to understand.

I believe that if you like something it is your right and you should not be judged. I enjoy playing with the female anal area and I enjoy receiving it as well. Not everyone has receives the same mental stimuli and I think that it is not just thee actual physical touch that produces a turn on, it is also what your feel mentally as well. Studies have proven that desire first begin with your thoughts.

All of my friends and acquaintances used to question my sanity, recently they stopped questioning!

My first anal experience was back when I was in my early twenties. I was visiting a friend on a hot summer afternoon and we decided to skinny dip in his pool. His live-in girl friend came home unexpectedly when we were in the pool. It was no big deal since we had all been naked together often at the beach. This was a little different. She joined us and several drinks together loosened us up and we had a bit of an orgy, entering both her pussy and ass. I was deep inside her as she lay on her back when he came up behind me. I felt his hand on my ass and the his finger in me. The next thing I knew, he was sliding his cock into my ass as I was in her. I was surprised but it felt so good. I could feel him throbbing as he came in me and I did the same in her. It was great and needless to say, he was the first of many.

I will have to say that I have never been looked at or accused of being a pervert just because I am anal erotic. BUT I have been extremely careful who I share this information with. The people I have told have all been sex partners so the information was appropriate and all of my partners have been fine with it and shared in the anal eroticism. So it really comes down to the situation with who you share the information with as to what kind of reaction you get.

Let me say this first. I LOVE HAVING SEX! I do not differentiate between male and female. I have been with both genders who enjoy both giving and receiving anal and oral sex and loved it all. I prefer receiving the real thing as opposed to a dildo or strap-on but its all great. What is really fantastic is receiving both anal and oral at the same time. To me, anal sex is a preference.....if you like it, do it and forget labels.

Me and the guys at work discuss a lot of things but I have never talked about my preferences on sexual things. But it must just be something about me that they always call me a pervert and I always respond back thank you thank you. If they only knew!

I think the greatest sin (if there really is such a thing) is not having fun with these beautiful bodies we were born with. I love things up my ass. I'm not gay. Probably bi. Why should anyone care?

All forms of having something up my ass when I ejaculate produces the best orgasm I can have.

The only people who know that I like anal sex are the people who have fucked me so no problem. And they can call me what they like as long as they fuck my ass. But let’s stop labeling so much. Who gives a shit who fucks who?

I'm a 67-y/o completely straight Switch male and I've been anal-oriented since at least 15 when I started using my mom's enema/douche nozzles on myself. That later progressed to larger and larger nozzles, plugs and inflatable catheters and larger longer enemas. Every GF or wife I've had has been delighted to play in my rear with whatever she liked and a couple loved "tormenting" me (D/s enemas with me as sub) with very large long held enemas and plugs, sometimes overnight. Not one ever even suggested I might be anything other than straight and women-loving. We just had fun and still do solo for now. Fun is healthy and fun. Don't worry about anyone else's labels. We didn't.

Eric

I had this unfortunate humiliating experience during one relationship with a woman, G. I had yet to admit that I enjoyed having my ass played with as I was easing into that territory. Initially I would massage G often because she liked the sensation and I loved looking at her naked body, as it was quite new to me. I would take my time massaging her bottom, purposely spreading her cheeks as I did it so I could look at her anus. Though I didn’t touch it yet.

One evening I got the courage to start rimming her gently but as soon as my tongue touched her anus she recoiled and sat up with a horrified look on her face. G said WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOURE DOING? I tried explaining I found all of her body sexy and even in such a private place. But she was just disgusted. She actually said- You must want to eat my shit if you’re doing that to me. I was shocked, I have no scat interest btw. No amount of explaining helped. G thought anything anal was perverted and her ass became totally off limits. This was the beginning of the end of the relationship. I could tell that G felt different about me from that point on. We eventually broke up. Needless to say, she never even saw my anus, let alone touched or played with it.

Here’s the kicker- the week she moved out we were barely talking but I finally had to ask her. ‘Why are you do hostile about anything sexual related to your anus?’ She said I’M AFRAID I MIGHT LIKE IT.

Richard, you are very fortunate. Imagine the angst in your life if you two had stayed together.

I am a straight male but do enjoy having my girlfriend play with me anally. We have done rimming, fingers toys and pegging. It does make me cum more intense with prostrate stimulation. Would love another women to join us in such play.

...................Here’s the kicker - the week she moved out we were barely talking but I finally had to ask her. ‘Why are you do hostile about anything sexual related to your anus?’ She said I’M AFRAID I MIGHT LIKE IT.

So she was afraid of being gay? Or just that she didn't want to risk learning to enjoy something that she already thought was disgusting? Or something else?

Eric

I’ve never had that problem. If I was straight, maybe I would get a different response.

I'm a straight male but I like to play with a girls bottom. Call me kinky

@ericmacson She was a lot more uptight than I realized. I think she had a very romantic view of sex, very pretty, like flowers and lace and perfume and sunsets, that sort of thing. I think the more naughty, raw, real, physical side of sex was scary and disgusting for her. Obviously. At least she acknowledged that she might like it.

More men and women like anal penetration than just us on Zity. Read Mens Health, Comos and other mainstream magazines. Lots of articles if you search.

Agree with @gwhap

You can read articles about anal sex, anal play, and rimming in Cosmo, Marie Claire, Womens Health Magazine, plus on a lot of online sites. Pretty common the past several years.

And it’s all good! 😀

I like penetrating an ass, not necessarily my own!