Dodgy doctors

Has anyone here ever been examined by a doctor, and later learned that he, or she, has been branded in the media as a 'dodgy doctor' eg one who takes sexual advantage of their position? Indeed has anyone ever considered that the examination was unusual or a bit too intimate?

Doctors, male or female, ought to be "professional" but they are human beings with human feelings aren't they? Their professionalism (and possible juridical complications) tells them how to hide their sexual feelings for their patients. Putting this in mind when you are being examined, can make you enjoy the exam more. 😃

Hi

My wife was gynecologically examined by a doctor from Asia who turned out later to be illegally registered and very unqualified. He had her nude and she suspects he secretly took photos.

I've never had a doctor be anything but professional during exams or treatments. However I have been to a number of chiropractors, and colon therapists who although did not engage in sex with me, definitely enhanced the sensual experience for me. This has taken the form of lengthy prostate massage or performing a colonic in a sensual manner.

No, but i know someone whos been to one. (It was in a small town in PA where there was only one gynecologist) apparently the doctor would prescribe the longest possible treatments with frequent checkups, and mumble sexest remarks while treating the patents.

When I was a teenager, my boyfriend came to me and told me he had this burning when he urinated, and thought I should go to the doctor just in case. I was pissed that he was suggesting that I had given him something, but decided I would go just in case he was not tellling me the whole story (like that he had cheated and was afraid he might have given something to me)

I looked up a gyno in the phone book, because I had never been to one. I was quite nervous and inexperienced. I remember asking if I could keep my socks on!

Had I known better, I would have protested when he started the exam without the nurse in the room (who I later found out was his wife) He asked a lot of personal questions like, how often I had sex, how large was my boyfriend's penis, and if I had even had an orgasm. I was embarrased but told him no, at which point he started rubbing my clitoris with his thumb? I don't know why I didn't yell or get up... I was paralyzed. I knew this weird but I was too scared to say anything. All I was thinking was that I never had an orgasm and I wasn't about to let the first one be on a table in a doctor's office with this old man!! (old to a 17 year old)

He finally quit, then asked me to roll over and gave me 2 shots, one in each of my butt cheeks then told me to make an appointment with the nurse to come back for a second exam after the tests came back. I had no intention of coming back. Thay actually called my house when I didn't show up.

Seveal years later I was working at Sears, and I saw them shopping. Made me sick to my stomach. Also very angry at myself for allowing it to happen.

Medical play between consenting adults is fun, but this was a whole other ball game. I'm 54 now and I sometimes wonder if he's still around.

There was always something creepy about my male pediatrician. I cant put my finger on it but he always seemed sorta odd. I had a friend who also had gone to him when she was younger and she felt the same way as I did about him.

I had a gynecologist who lost his license because of making sexual advances toward patients. He did once make a "dodgy" comment to me - before doing an internal, he said it wouldn't hurt and made the comment of something to the effect of "you might even like it". I'm sure I blushed, given my medical fetish interest lol.

Girlneedsdoctor: i know how you feel. mine is the same way, i went to her when i first started getting depressed and she told me it was nothing. as you can probably guess, she was wrong six years later and im still in the same position.

My first pediatrician was a bit weird too. she had us strip completely after the age of 10. *shudder* but no good dodgy docs on this end.

Vvthewolfvv. I'm sorry to hear that. Its frustrating when a person in power doesn't listen or dismisses your feelings or opinions too quickly.

Yes, I have been examined by a ‘dodgy doctor.’ It happened some years ago when I was in my late thirties. I had had a sudden numbing in my left arm and left leg which subsided rather quickly. After seeing my GP about it the next day he sent me to a neurologist to make sure there was nothing seriously wrong - there wasn’t, fortunately and I’ve not ever had a recurrence.

The neurologist turned out to be a man some thirty years older than I was. The appointment was late in the day and there was no nurse present. After a few preliminary questions he instructed me to take off all my clothes but for my under shorts, which were the ‘jockey brief’ style, so that left me practically naked.

At first he wanted me to walk around for him, then stand on each leg alternately to check balance, then touch my nose with my index fingers with my eyes closed - all pretty routine stuff. Then he instructed me to lay on the exam table which was in the center of the rather large room, giving him easy access to me from all sides. He then proceeded to touch me essentially all over with different instruments and with his fingers. He had me close my eyes and tell him where I was being touched and whether it felt like something hard, soft, or his fingers. He went over me thoroughly, touching here and there, asking if I felt it and if so how it felt. He spent what seemed a long time touching, and even tickling my feet, especially the soles. I found myself wishing that he had been a woman doctor! Me, being heterosexual would have enjoyed that a lot more than I actually did at the time.

In addition to my feet he touched me all around my legs and chest and tummy - even my underarms were examined, and quite a lot of what he did tickled, something I dearly love having done in a sexual situation. Again - if only he had been a she!

This whole exam seemed rather strange to me at the time but I’d never before been to a neurologist so figured that it was the normal method of examining a patient who had had an ‘event’ as he called it. He did not require me to remove my underpants and didn’t touch me in the genital area although he did ask if I had suffered any numbness there.

Several years after that I heard on the local news that this doctor had been sanctioned my the medical board and I think had his licence to practice revoked due to complaints from several patients that he had unnecessarily fondled them during examinations. I don’t remember if the complaints were from males or females, or both or either. But on retrospect I now realize that he probably went beyond what was necessary when he spent so long tickling and touching me. The fact that he let me keep my undies on leads me to think that maybe I just didn’t turn him on sufficiently to take the chance that I might complain. Or maybe he was also hetero and the exam was actually ‘normal.’ It didn’t feel that way though.

Now, I keep thinking how much I would enjoy such an exam with a female doc and with me being naked!

Spit202,

You may be missing the fact that some women prefer women 😶

Sorry that was mean.

Jackie

Hi Hugh, on this point i have to say, yes, i do believe i have encountered "dodgy doctors" as you put it in the past. On a couple of occasions I've had experiences at the doctor that had me wondering for a time afterwards.

I don't know if my Doctor was "Dodgy" but I know he was out of line and many have posted that pediatricians are creepy. I came from a small town with limited doctors...I lived in upstate New York and my Doctor was Dr. G (I won't give out his real name). But my Mom took me to see him ever since I was a baby. My Mom loved this doctor, but he would refuse to have my mom come inside the exam room. The nurse would call me in, I would have to undress to my t-shirt and undies...the nurse would weigh and measure my height, take my blood pressure and take my temperature anally. Then she would leave, then doc would come in about 5 mins. later. The doc then would look into my ears, eyes, nose throat. Then he would have my lay down and he would palpate my chest and work his hands down to my lower stomach. He would then take his hands and place them underneath my waistband of my underwear and feel around my pubic area...and then he would remove my undies...then have me spread my legs some...feeling my testicles, then taking some oval balls and placing them up against my balls (later I find out its the tanner staging). Then we would slowly palpate the shaft of my penis...and then hold the base of my penis and feel the head of my dick...at this time I would always be hard..and then he would flick and feel or rub my frenum until I reach orgasm...since I was like 7-8 years old at the time, I would have a dry orgasm.

This continued for many, many years...when I reached puberty and I started to produce sperm. At that time, he brought my Mom into the exam room and spoke to her and I about puberty and gave my Mom some booklets about puberty and he would do the normal exam but pointed out to my Mom my development and told my Mom to inspect me from time to time.

This went on for several more years until my last visit when I was 18 and moved away.

Not a dodgy doctor, but a dodgy nurse once!

It's when I'd been having issues with irritation around my old circumcision scars (I've posted the whole story before). I went into the doctors to collect a prescription for my hay fever tablets when I met the nurse who'd been in on one of my visits with the doctor.

She asked me how I was doing and, had me follow her into her small office as she said she was pleased that things were getting better. Somehow, and I really dont know how it happened, I ended up undressing and letting her have a very detailed examination "just to prove everything's okay".

Http://www.nypost.com/seven/08312009/news/regionalnews/perv_doctor_hit_with_nys_biggest_bail_187278.htm

That is an enormous bail amount - yikes.

Thanks for posting user264. Schistosomiasis is right, there is a big difference in being a play doctor with someone who is willing, and taking advantage of someone who is not.

You're welcome Kimberly. It is great to see you. 😃

Nope, I have never heard of that term dodgy doctor untill now.