Incriminating yourself by purchasing items in conjunction...

This seemed the most likely section of the forums to house this particular post, so here it goes. I was contemplating the other day how unnerving it can be to simply buy a bag of diapers out in the real world in front of real people (as opposed to the internet). This seems a topic that warrants a lot of discussion. While I will admit that I get the heebie-jeebies doing so and am completely anal about the circumstances under which I will, I started thinking more about other items purchased at the same time that may lend to something of a rather exposing story in the mind of the checker.

The memory that brought this to mind was a long time ago when I was dating a girl with whom was my first sexual partner. Enthusiastic as I was, one night before going to her house I stopped by the grocery store and grabbed some condoms, Vaseline (yes, I know, don't use with condoms) and something else that eludes me now-but was in the same realm of sorts. The checker looked at me when I set them down in front of him, grinned and asked if I was 'planning on having a good night'. I was a bit taken aback, but I laughed and said 'sure', then left.

I've never really received any unusual questions or statements while purchasing diapers, powders, lubes, enemas, etc. on their own, but I make an effort not to ever purchase them together. Especially disposable enemas and diapers (or suppositories for that matter). It would seem to me that if I were the checker I would see these items set on the belt and think, "Hmmm, what are they planning on doing tonight?"

I have a pretty extreme routine for purchasing most supplies anywhere that I feel helps keep my interests from getting questioned, not so much at the time, but for later instances. I will rarely buy anything from young females who look of the popular breed as they are talkers and usually not terribly open minded seeking to mock most things, that and I may chance encounter them at school. I won't purchase from young guys because who knows when I'll walk into a friend's house and see that person again, or the school thing again. I usually go late when there is nobody at the store and prefer an older lady for a checker. I find that older women are more empathetic and will usually assume the least whereas older men will just give you the cold stare of scrutiny.

Any anecdotes of others purchasing indulgent items in conjunction with one another? Any similar and well thought out game plans for purchasing items? I request that, should you choose to share, you not embellish some wild fantasy. I'm not seeking masturbatory material, simply a friendly banter about the realm of shopping to satisfy a need.

Thanks!

Well, I don't have any real exciting story with any big happenings. But I do know what you mean and the feelings you're talking about.

I have felt awkward at times buying diapers at the store. One time I remember well, I picked up a few things. It was in CVS, back when they still had there own brand of diapers with the plastic backing. I picked up the pack of diapers, and then went round to the baby isle to get the works, Johnson's baby power, baby oil, wipes, and Vaseline. It was kinda late, so there were only a few other customers roaming the store, I felt better this was so, but didn't give it a whole lot of thought. Not till I got to the checkout! No one was ahead of me, but the clerk turned out to be a very young somewhat cute girl. I cringed a bit, but laid the items out on the counter. She dutifully started ringing them up, in the mean time it seemed as if every one in the place made a dash for the checkout behind me. The clerk now raised and eyebrow, realizing the items she was ringing up. Now all these people are lined up behind me, or actually to the side of me, along the counter. I was kinda fisheyeing the lineup next to me, when another clerk interrupted the one who was helping me to ask a question of her. I now was feeling strange, and wanted her to finish up quick! But the conversation between the two clerks seems to go on and on. I could now hear the people behind me getting restless because they were waiting, they were all focused on me, her and what I had laid out on the counter, oh joy 😳 They were huffing and saying things under there breath. The clerk finely turns back to me, and says sorry. Lets see where was I oh, you just have the diapers left, she said with a big grin. She rung those up, bagged everything, and said you're all set for tonight. I handed over my money and just said thanks.

It was interesting! 😁

The only time anything has been said while I was purchasing diapers was at a Walgreen's and the cashier mentioned to another worker "My mom could use these." I really didn't care, or think much of it (it was said empathetically).

The original mention of condoms and such reminds me of a time when my girlfriend and I went to a store and bought a wrap blanket and some KB Oil. I don't think the cashiers had to guess what we had planned.

I went to rite aid today and bought some baby powder some wipes and some baby lotion..When she gave me the total i just said wow!!! It sure cost allott to wipe a babies but nowadays..And she said with a grin..."well you better hurry home ...your sweat pants are wet" I just said i know...thank god i have my diaper bag in the truck....

I wish that stores like Zellers were still seling baby cloth diapers and especially plastic panties. I would love to take a few pairs of different colored plastic panties and ask if these extra large toddler plastic panties would fit me just to see the look on her face and what she would say back 😮 😮 😮 😮 😮

I guess as you get older, you care less and less about people's reactions to your buying diapers at a store. At least that is the case with me. Of course I must admit I don't do it too often as most stores don't carry adult diapers that are of good quality. I but online most of the time.

I mostly wear cloth and plastic pants, but when I do buy disposables. I don't worry what the clerks think. At my age, I figure they see me as just another old fart replenishing his supply of Depends.

I've done that... bought adult diapers powder and ointment together... and I looked guilty

I tend to get the items at a store that has self checkout. Or purchase some of the clean up items (wipes, powder, enema supplies, etc) at one store and the diapers at another. I have found that I prefer the depends over any of the others.

It was heart stopping the first time I bought disposables way way back in the 70's or 80's - been a while. I used to cruise pharmacies hoping to find real plastic pants as I am a cloth diaper fan, and could only find nylon or rubberized incontinent pants. I always tried to be discrete. However, one day I stopped at a small pharmacy and found a box with an incontinent pant in it, so I decided to go up to the counter and by it. As I was handing it over, two boys, about age ten walked up behind me and saw what I was buying and started giggling like crazy. I paid quickly and left, however, in retrospect I wish I had moved just a bit slower, as in thinking back on the event, it was kinda fun being the big kid with diapers in front of the younger kids.

Part of it also "depends" on if the incrimination is desired, undesired- or in that delicious state of not really sure yet CHARGED with emotional potential.

Do also consider that there may be some of us that had life long medical needs/females that began menstruation EARLY and some yes- having kink entangled with medical needs or the opposite that makes buying "stuff" for our own use a palm sweaty red faced heart pounding hope no one sees me trip. One that may explain "Self Checkout" terminals a lot better. And perhaps? entering a zone where we DO take ownership of the experience on our terms. Or just relax and enjoy the ride's verbal safe opening moves.

Going from " I hope they forgot the last time I bought... to the skipped heartbeats of hearing our name or some knowing smile flashing between us.

As even if we're married and so not going to even think of it sexually beyond a fantasy - if that... with many "Incrimination's roller coaster " moments triggered by restocking x, y,&z routine stocked stuff in my linen closet or travel kit.

I've had many medical needs for things in the age/gender embarrassment potential even if- or because- being bought alone/with a list of other stuff made it appear Screamingly For ME TO USE! Henceforth abbv FMTU in keeping with a concept almost ready for broader sharings. Yeah- sometimes it simply is obvious FMTU and became moreso when I'd been on a coffee enema schedule that had me getting various stuff seemingly monthly- as a guy. Details another place and backlinked when I remember to share it. But, back to this thread.

Recently I hit a largish "Home Health Store" and asked if they had:

Packets of enema soap.

Adult small/medium washable incontinent undies or a pad suitable for mixed fecal/urinary leaking.

Belted hospital style pads/the belts for them.

I got 2 of the three - box of soap packets and a drab desitin white pair of fairly low crinkle plasticy overpants for cloth diapers. The part that made it all come together was the saleslady casually pulling out a cloth tape measure and asking if I was sure of my sizing or needed her to measure... Folks- I'm married and do not cheat on my wife sexually or even risk past innocent flirty chat- getting into such meatspace situations where it could become so. But...DAMN if it was not an emotionally crackly situation where I'd be hard pressed to declare it was not telepathy or just fantasies with places they could never go.

It was when she became chatty with me while looking in old stock for the belts- and let slip she liked the other brand of soap they usually carried and it would be back in stock maybe a few weeks from then. I may get more work in that area of the country. I may stop there again. But I got the full measure of awareness that our kinks even if driven by a medical need- or not- can be a multiplier on temptation or embarrassment alike.

As in : is it more or less an embarrassment if the clerk is or is not sexually hot to us?

T first it was hard and then as I realized that most don't care or notice what you are buying, it started to bother me less and less.

I have a delivery truck that show up in my front compound twice a month. Sargen Medical is all over the side of the truck and lists off all of the products they sell including in big bold lettering incontinence products and diapers for all sizes. They drop off four cases of Abriform M4s at every delivery including a bag of baby powder and diaper rash products from Swean. Security allows them past the gate and the neighbors have all seen the truck pull up to our house.

Everyone knows that either one of us is in diapers in our secured compound area. I have a rare old convertible Road Runner I drive every so often and many times I stop and talk with my neighbors on the street. I have caught some of the ladies looking at my lap area looking to see if it is me wearing the diapers. I sometimes oblige their curiosities by wearing short shorts and my diapers show in the leg openings. My wife loves the expressions on their faces when she know they see my diapers. She always leaves a couple of diapers in a bag on the back seat as well, you know changing supplies.