I feel that too many lie about gender here!

I am all male no lie

Fuzzybeans said...

..."what about the sissy's here too? i can understand people who want and need sex changes but not those who live in fantasy worlds and want to step in and out... surely the folk who desire to be female agree??? it's not something you toy with and step in and out of willy nilly..."

Yes I think there are many wannabee's on all diaper sites. The internet allows one to live the illusion of being someone they wish they could be. I think having the option to check off M or F and other options would be great for everyone involved. I love dressing like a girl since just before puberty. I LOVE the idea of having girl parts, but I think guys have the advantage regarding diapers and sexual sensation. The diaper wraps around my really big "clit" and gets soooo turned on! Girls are too hidden for the padding to touch. But, girls do have the advantage of multiple orgasms... ooooopsss... Tangent!!! LOL

I'm voting for being honest and having more clickable choices!

As far as fuzzybeans quoted comment above, part of the beauty of being human is our imagination and ability to enjoy what we fantasize about.

I think honesty is important on a site like this where people are exchanging experiences that are really private.um,does that make sense?.

Misrepresenting yourself on this site or elsewhere to the point of lying about your gender is truly sad, as well as inauthentic. Certainly, you can choose what you want to share about yourself, just as it's your prerogative to share or not share your ideas and opinions on certain topics. One of the reasons I value this site is what I feel to be the honesty of the members. Also, it's obvious that members appreciate the posts of others. Sincerity is important to most people, I believe.

I just usually take people for their word. But after reading this thread I may be a little more careful.

I can honestly say that in general, the folks here at Zity are by far way more open and honest about who they are, their interests, lifestyle choices, and likes/dislikes than most, if not all other sites in this class on the net. This is partly due in fact to two different things I believe which are, 1) We are open and accepting for the most part on all accounts, so most feel no reason to hide behind a gender selection reassignment. And 2) because we have one hell of a great mod team who is constantly looking out for this sort of thing. If we have a question or concern about a members gender we address it quickly and quietly. If we have no doubt as to your gender and that a member is swapping genders, again it's addressed quickly, and action to correct it is taken immediately, which means the member is often times banned as well as his IP address. Problem solved wouldn't you say?

Hope this helps?

Mashie

Well if i catch boys saying they are girls i grab their willy and cut it off for them . Now they are girls like they say they are lol. and if a girl says shes a boy and shes not? i super glue a penis into them . yeah im mean that way lol.

I cannot see the point of not letting everyone know your gender. A lot of us wish to meet like minded individuals, and to find that you have been 'conversing' on the Internet thinking that someone is who they are not is just a waste of time for everyone concerned. Also, if they can lie about this, can you trust them in future conversations?

I fully believe in letting people know your proper gender. While this was not for a

"hook up" A few years ago a woman contacted me on IM messenger. She knew I was gay, but said she was seriously looking for a place to order a double balloon (X)nozzle. I directed her to Klystra, we chatted some more, she ordered, and let me know when she received the order and thanked me very much for my help. Her husband even contacted me to thank me for helping her.

She was from CO, and I've lost contact with her. (if you are out there "DD" contact

me.) The whole (hole) thing was, SHE was honest from the beginning.

Dan

I agree , no offense guys, but I only play with females and I have been fooled a couple of times. not cool.

I am male and although my screen name is thumper,taken from the movie Bambii,my real hope in I joinrd this group was to meet a feamle who would hopefully plas mommy.big sister,aunty to my toddler baby. I do like to be both boy and sissy toddler and war cloth diapers and mostly white,yellow and pink plastic panties,mostly because thet look more babyish and i like to sometimes wear short baby dresses to show off my bulky diapers and plastic panties. I also love to be talked to and tased as a baby/toddler in baby talk. i never deceived anyone.

*looks down*... Definitely a girl here! Haha!

I appreciate the situation though... I would be very annoyed if I was speaking to a guy pretending to be a girl, or vice versa...

I am not bothered if people are straight, gay, bi, transgender, just please don't lie!

Besides, it is only naughty girls and boys who lie... 😉

Ideally, it would be great for me to be able to morph back and forth between male and female. I'm still fairly young, so maybe I'll live long enough for our technology to grant us that capability (like in Ghost in The Shell - my favorite anime).

I'd hope so for you too. That would be the ultimate in role playing.

I remember reading a novel way back, sci-fi of course,where it was possible to change genders. It was called 'Triton' (or also 'Trouble on Trition, An Ambiguous Heterotopia' - 1976) by Samuel R. Delaney. This was no space opera at all, but at times a story exploring sexual and personal relationships set in different planetary cultural systems. For sci-fi it was at times rather arousing, with all the gender ambiguity.

Ive been here for only a few days now i have been in other chat rooms like diaper space and abdl homestead, my origianal goal was to meet a girl who likes the same thing, i have learned since then there is little possibillity that its going to happen so id know that to look for a girl id need to speak to girls, very annoying if that girl i think will meet up with me turns out to be a guy, since them ive been looking for anybody my age it will still annoy me if someone lies about there gender. dont know why anybody would lie about there gender what goals do they have, whats the point

I've always gone by the motto that the Cam and Voice (Instant Messenger Services) never lies. As such someone who is reluctant to chat via these methods, in my opinion needs to be treated with caution.

Via type alone you cannot be sure and yes I have been caught out in the past, but fortunately I wasn't daft enough to divulge any personal information.

If people have things to hide and are not who they say they are, its a shame that they are being deceitful in order to gain friendships. They to say the least must be Bonkers to think they will get away with it, long term. Be sure your sins will find you out lol.

I wouldn't lie, same as i wouldn't lie about being in a relationship if i wasn't. I value honest - ok, sometimes i can be "too honest"/say too much - but i'd rather have it that way than the other.

I am most definitely 100% female and I know some people will back me up on this. As for impostors.....why ruin it for the rest of us. You only make yourselves look like fools! You will be caught eventually!!!!

A major prob with lying about gender is that it distorts what us guys learn about gals.

That's because unquestionably nearly all lying is guys pretending to be gals. As result the rest of us guys conclude that girls are as aggressive and crude as we. That makes us even more clueless about how girls react than we are already.

That said, I have been pleasantly surprised by the intensity and consistency of most of the females here....or maybe I am just easily fooled.

Like the old 4chan saying goes:

"The Internet. Where men are men, women are men, and where children are FBI agents."