Palpating for the Prostate--what do you look for?

You will know when she finds it - and your life will never be the same again. It adds a dimension to male pleasure that you will not believe you have been missing.

My wife had same problem, but we purchased a protate massager, it foumd my prostate no problem

Hello Sleuth,

I have my yearly prostate exam done by a lady practioner. Her fingers are also small so she has me bend way over the exam table to reach inside my rectum. She says that being bent over helps push the prostate lower in the recum where she can reach it. Have your husband also "bear" down slightly as that will help as well. When I'm bent over and bearing down the LNP has no trouble feeling it and I have NO trouble feeling her 😁 😁

Thats how my doc does it too! But, if you havent had arecent BM, would they give you an enema so they could feel the prostate

You can look at any anatomy site. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate

Diamond,

Whenever I've had a prostate exam, that's the position the doctor puts me in, and when I was a corpsman, that's the position I put my patients in. Only once did I ever have it checked in another position (the Sims) and that was when I was about 10 and the ER doc was trying to rule out appendicitis.

It's really the best method to check it.

Recently, I had my first BJ combined with prostatic massage. When I came, I thought my head was going to explode! 😁

Well, I asked my wife to find my prostate. Initially she didn't want to do that. After several months, she agreed and inserted her finger in. However, she was not able to find my prostate.

She tried very hard and we let it go finally.

Anyone can share your experience how to get to that spot?

Braveboy02,

In an earlier post you said you are trained in Internal Medicine. You can't help her find your prostate?

I recommend wearing a rubber glove makes it less painful.

I gave my husband his first prostate massage the other night, along with a blow job. i can't believe how hard and long he came, i could barely hold it in my mouth.

i prefaced our prostate experience with his first enema, or should i say, enemas. i started by filling his bowels with a mineral oil concoction, that i warmed slightly in the microwave (be careful when doing this as liquids can heat unevenly and become hotter than you want them to -- its best to shake the bottle and test it before inserting into your loved one). i followed up with a regular fleets enema, and then a warm water rinse.

finding his prostate was not difficult. using a prostate toy, like a vibrating massager, may make it even easier.

My wife tried finding it with me on my back, my legs lifted up. Her lubed finger went into my rectum, Was not sure she could find.

My wife then found it right away by using this position: I got on my knees and elbows. She sat behind me, put lube on glove . Placed pad of her lubed finger against my anus. I “beared down “/ pushed out and took slow breaths. She slowly pushed finger all the way in, “ aiming down “ towards belly button. End of my prostate in rectum about 1.5”. She said other end about 2.5” inches in. I knew when she found it! A tingling at end of penis. She confirmed is was “size of a walnut, consistency of a plum.”

She swept her finger back and forth across prostate. Pressed down gently also and palpated. Prostate fluid slowly drips out. After a few mins, it drips with a bit thinner consistency . When I squeezed , much more came out. I could feel it going thru my urethra.

After about 10 mins, she began to reach under with other hand and begin to stroke my penis.

Unbelievable feeling, I actually began to buck a bit. “ When I told her I was about to cum, she pushed down a bit more on prostate . And sped up the stroking. Prostate fluid covered her hand and made a squishing sound.

I literally began moaning loudly. Good thing had a hand towel down under me as I spurted a much higher volume of seman than normal. Best orgasm .

We do this quite often now.

Easiest to find with the legs to torso angle at 90* or greater, also have enough sex play before so you are very aroused as the prostate will swell and get much more noticeable when you are aroused.

This works best for us. After a series of enemas and a rest of about half an hour, I lay on my back. I grab my legs and pull them up to my chest as far as possible. My wife positions herself between my legs facing me. We are both totally naked. With my ass exposed and accessible to her satisfaction, she will lubricate my rectum and both her hands. I am watching and we never lose eye contact through this entire process. She then gently holds my scrotum and the base of my cock with her left hand. With her right hand, facing palm up, she will slowly insert her index finger into my rectum. As my muscles relax to accept her finger, she advances until her finger is totally inside my body. Still with her palm up, she slowly curves her finger inside me. With a slightly curved finger, she slowly begins to fuck my ass. She can feel my cock twitch with her left hand every time she finds my prostate. For us, it is very important we never lose eye contact with one another. By doing so, it bonds us physically and mentally. As others have mentioned, a lovingly given prostate massage by a partner can be incredible. I would go as far to say, the massage, combined with the sensation of milking, is one of the best feelings a man can experience in his lifetime.

Just recently I have shared my medical fetish with my wife. She now regularly plays the part. My favorite is when she sets between my legs and gives me a long and detailed prostate exam while slowly jerking me off. Nothing competes with her fingers finding the right place!!

My husband will say nothing competes with my FIST/hand finding the right place.

Having all the fingers inside allows you to stroke the entire gland and structures around it which includes going farther inside to also stroke the pair of seminal vesicles which he says feels even better than the prostate.

My husband loves that. He gets loads of pleasure and just has to lie there.

Also it may be easier “ for 1st time” to stand beside bed, bend over and put your chest down on bed, you reach back and separate your cheeks ( so she can clearly see your anus). Take some deep breaths and relax anus. You can also bear down. Make sure her finger is well lubed with KY gel. As she inserts her finger, Have her point it down a bit . “Aim” at belly button. Curl finger slightly down and feel for walnut size soft lump. Have her gently sweep finger back and forth on prostate. If feels ok. , have her palpate it. You should begin to drip some clear prostate fluid after a few mins. She could reach under with other hand and give you a hand job. You will probably have a very nice orgasm!

This is exactly how my wife does it to me.