Is this embarrassing for you? enema in front of the opposite sex?

Hello from Germany again :-D

1. what would men/male patients do in that situation getting an enema before computer tomography? would you be embarrassed infront of these 2 female assistants?

2. and how would you women/female patients react if those 2 medical assistants were both male and those men give you that enema?

we speak about real exam.

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Gosh, as a male, the notion of lying there naked and having to accept an enema prep for a procedure to follow would have me most upset. Being prepped by the women would only intensify my embarrassment knowing that they saw me undressing and then observed me having to position for the enema!

Well I'm actually hoping my GI orders an MRI defecography after my next appointment.

From what I read it involves some type of gel that is supposed to simulate stool instilled into the rectum. Then an adult diaper to complete the test which ends with expelling said gel as if you were having a BM while still in the MRI with the tech/radiologist watching.

It's to help diagnose a real problem but most would not look forward to it as much as me. Not very concerned with who or what gender they are watching or prepping me.

Wouldn't bother me at all, I'd actually enjoy it!

@Nick321

I understand, do you think they would remember that situation as intense as you feel it? Or do they just their job 10 times a day? Is it possible that you could get erected? And would you wish, 2 males have prepped you for this exam?

@Joe467

I heard about that defecography, would be horror for me. and more if the helpers/assistants were male. but I am glad to do this infront of other women. So you are not concerned to get an erection infront of them? and you would not wish, that 2 males would prep you?

@mike45

Enjoy it, okay, and is there a chance you get erected in front of them? What would you answer? Say sorry?

Thanks for answers.

I would be embarrassed if two men prepared me with enemas. It was already embarrassing when my father and brothers saw me receiving enemas, a stranger applying it must be much worse.

@Anne20

Yes I understand, had that situation sometimes in Germany. its better when I get examined by female. Would you ask if one of the male helpers would leave the room, or what what you do?

@CFNFpatientin I wouldn't have the courage to ask if I could leave the room, because he's there doing his job.

I feel it you are embarrassed if there were 2 males examining you, that why I chose this picture, it shows very good how we feel or would feel when we get 2* opposite genders in a intimate exam.

I also did not send him away, but after the rectal exam. I felt dirty cause 2 males examined my anus in hospitl.

I would be embarrassed regardless of their gender. However, it would definitely be more embarrassing if they were females. Usually with my anxiety and nerves, I shrivel and shrink up. However, anytime I am required to be naked, an erection is always possible.

I actually received an enema from two or three male nurses when I was about 6 years old, although one of them was a student, but still. My appendix was extremely close to burst and I had terrible stomach pain, and they couldn’t understand why, I believe they thought I was badly constipated. I remember lying down on my stomach on the medical table, bare butt and some lube between my cheeks, bawling my eyes out as they inserted the nozzle up my bum. I felt so exposed and I was so embarrassed and really didn’t like it, and I thought it hurt. My mum and dad were there with me, witnessing it all, trying to calm me down. I think they had to hold me down too, since I was struggling so much against getting it. Then I received the enema anyways. And a few hours before that, I had already received a really embarrassing suppository, for the same reasons I think, or maybe as a pain killer, I can’t remember exactly.

I had a barium enema radiology procedure many years ago prior to hernia surgery because they didn't know what was causing the abdominal pain. Two women did the procedure and I was nude except for a flimsy gown on the table under the x ray machine while they took the pictures. I didn't find it embarrassing at all.

I am so glad that many of you say its moire embarrassing when more than 1 helper is in the room. but i have the priovilege as women, cvause there are more nurses than male assistans. i think its harder for you boys, cause more nurses are there. thats why I also asked how other females would ract if that enema on my picture is done by 2 males, hehe.

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@BenDover

Why is it more shame when there 2 are assistants? even if it were 2 males?

My female primary care physician always brought a female chaperone into the exam room for the rectal and genital portions of my exam. When I was instructed to undress, I was given a paper sheet to cover my lap. When the exam started, I stood in front of the doctor and handed the sheet to the chaperone, who used it to shield her view of my intimate anatomy while the doctor examined me. On my last visit with her, however, I placed the paper sheet on the exam table. I was not instructed to correct my omission, so the chaperone witnessed the entire examination. I guess it appealed to my CFNM fantasies, and having my anus penetrated with a second woman watching was definitely exciting. I'm sure I have some exhibitionist tendencies.

You get sheets? in germany or maybe whole europa not. i never heard that. i am alway naked without sheet at my gynocologist (male), and I was naked infroint of 2 males while my rectal proctologist exam happened. I also know that male patient get naked in front of 3-4 nurses/assistants in hospital, also without sheet. every time I have a chaperoine at gyn/procto, she stands right between my legs. 100% full view on the spot. big difference to US, wow.

@CFNFpatientin Maybe I should visit Germany, LOL. Of course the Germans have always been more relaxed about nudity than Americans, who are particularly prudish.

I did get a balloon barium enema with a female technician present, but it was a male nurse who administered it. I was fine with it, and I got to watch my colon fill up on the computer monitor. I wore a hospital gown for the test, but it didn't cover much given all the positions I was instructed to assume.

FYI I have never had an enema.

But this topic is interesting to me in terms of the interpersonal dynamics in medical procedures, basically anything involving disrobing and intimate exams.

For me I think it’s less about gender and more about my personal interaction with that specific medical professional or chaperone. But I admit that in the moment I’m mainly concerned with my health, whereas in the hours & days afterwards the memory of it may become more arousing.

I have received my enemas mainly from people of the opposite sex, mainly at home. The only times a male was present was in the hospital.

I particularly remember when I was a teenager and received a barium enema: my stepmother, the doctor (m), the nurse (f), and the technician (m) were present.

In general, however, I don't feel more or less embarrassed depending on gender. In fact, I probably feel more comfortable with females.

When I was far younger I was somewhat embarrassed by 'nudity' in general - I think some of it was remaining 'Christian Guilt'.

After being in the hospital - nude for the world and good lord to see - I don't care who sees me naked - But, I do follow 'societal' guidelines to accommodate others that embarrass to the 'societal drumbeat'...

Enemas are not 'embarrassing' to me and neither is my butt plug usage and / or 'other' fetish related 'social flaws' - But(t?), I know that many people are 'offended' or too socially immature to accept such things.

Que Sera, Sera...

Why is it more shame when there 2 are assistants? even if it were 2 males?

The more eyes seeing my intimate exposure and embarrassing situation, the more anxiety and embarrassment I feel. I feel twice as judged.

@GraceT

sure in that moment I think about my health, but it would be very embarrassing if those 2 nurses were male assistants. in germany it happens often, gyno is allowed to examine me, 2 doctors can examine my anus, and so on. but most of time there are nurses I think 90-95% female. and thats the point, our males have that extra anger infrontz of 2 nurses. hard things can happen ^^ I think 1 person is enough if yoiu have to strip. thats more perspnal. if I am the only naked, its strange, with 2 males or 2 females.

@BenDover

100% right, the more eyes...... the third person is the witness if something embarrassing is happening to you, maybe get wet, maybe fart, maybe males get erected.

I never had a enema just a suppository from a female nurse. I have had a female nurse put in a catheter with a female nurse assistant Watching.I can’t say I was embarrassed they see this everyday. I myself would rather have a female nurse then a Male nurse same as a doctor