Is this embarrassing for you? enema in front of the opposite sex?

I love being humiliated and embarrassed ! It feels good before your appointment and after, you are sittin there with just a gown on and in comes the nurse. She takes your temp and your BP Then my Doctor comes in....and then she begins the exam. It is hard not imagining them naked. I have a rough time not getting an erection. butt sometimes it feels good to be helpless with a woman telling you what to do ! She keeps harping at me to go get a colonoscopy. No wonder they put you to sleep !

I got enemas, catheters, rectal exams, penis exams very often, and I mean from a female doc with a female technician or student or assistant present.

But its not more embarrassing as if they were males. For me the point is, I hate it not to be alone with doctor.

Intimate exam for me done by a female? ok sure. Preparation in that are done by a male? ok.

But to get treated for a testicle exam / proctological exam WITH a chaperone/co-worker in same room, no please not, go away.

Or short: When I mess up, when I fool myself, ok fine, equal if infront of male or female, BUT please let no third person see that scene ^^

I got enemas, catheters, rectal exams, penis exams very often, and I mean from a female doc with a female technician or student or assistant present.

But its not more embarrassing as if they were males. For me the point is, I hate it not to be alone with doctor.

Intimate exam for me done by a female? ok sure. Preparation in that are done by a male? ok.

But to get treated for a testicle exam / proctological exam WITH a chaperone/co-worker in same room, no please not, go away.

Or short: When I mess up, when I fool myself, ok fine, equal if infront of male or female, BUT please let no third person see that scene ^^

No chaperones! Only 'workers'!

Lol yes I forgot, there are no chaperones on writing desk, only high trained special forces to imitate a female voyeur at male`s exam 😉

Not worth the long-winded response I typed out previously. No, I am not. It is an enema; no big deal. Grow up.

I'm 77 years old, I'm not embarrassed by anything. Although I would much have a woman perform an enema or catherizatiin etc than a male.

I was given a enema by a male nurse practitioner before and it was so embarrassing I was close to crying. He gave me 2 enemas in a row actually and I thought that the 2nd would be better but it was just as embarrassing. He kept trying to make small talk but I could hardly nod my head.

When I was 15, I had an enema administered by two female nurses. Strictly speaking, one administered the enema while the other, older, supervised her. The younger one was a student nurse, one or two years older than me. I was very embarrassed and humiliated by this. I thought one nurse, the older one, would administer the enema. It wouldn't be embarrassing for me.

I had to take off my pajama bottoms and assume a knee-to-chest position in front of a girl of about the same age. I thought she would just prepare the enema equipment, but she performed the procedure. I don't know how I would react to two older nurses.

This enema was also an experience for me because it was the first time I'd used a douche. At home, my mother would give me an enema with a rubber bulb, using it repeatedly. Here I was waiting for an infusion of over a liter of water. The water is pushing my intestines apart as we breathe rapidly. At the same time, she was aware that this girl could see my naked buttocks and genitals.

I have recieved enemas from two female nurses. The first was age 17 in hospital which I have previously described here in a couple of posts. Many years later I had a enema friend for a couple of years, a retired nurse who enjoyed giving me an occasional enema at her home. At one point it looked as if another nursing friend of hers who was much much younger might watch or join in. It never happened but the humiliation would have been exquisite!

I have recieved enemas from two female nurses. The first was age 17 in hospital which I have previously described here in a couple of posts. Many years later I had a enema friend for a couple of years, a retired nurse who enjoyed giving me an occasional enema at her home. At one point it looked as if another nursing friend of hers who was much much younger might watch or join in. It never happened but the humiliation would have been exquisite!

As i mentioned in another thread, you are a gastronome ( as me too !! ) - but willing thought's are mostly not comparable with that, what really can happen !! - but it is OK, otherwise our phantasies would slowly die !!

For the record, I have never had an enema. Only a suppository by a nurse my one time in the hospital for a tonsillectomy (over 50 years ago). Of course, there are the big cleanouts for colonoscopies later in life, but that's a whole other thing.

arzthelfer2000 - I agree with you! I once had a physical where the PA asked about doing the hernia/DRE check. I said sure, but she wanted a "chaperone" in the exam room. Not happy about it, but I consented. She was one of the lab workers. What was so dumb about it was I was asked to hold up a damn sheet between me and chaperone. You'd think the chaperone would've held it up. It felt so dumb and embarrassing! Was a little flustered, even forgetting to turn my head to cough! Yikes. Luckily I did not see the chaperone on the way out or doing the blood work. The PA ended up being the wife of my current PCP!

As I mentioned in another post, I received a warmed Fleet enema from a male nurse during a hospital stay earlier this year. I would not have been embarrassed if the only people in the room were my nurse and I, but another nurse (female) was also in the room. My impression was that he was demonstrating the procedure for her.