Gay men. Do you think that sex between men is natural?

I have spoken with many homosexual men, and they, like me, realized as soon as we started our first gay act with a man , that it was the most natural act we could ever experience. How do you feel , as active gay men, that the sex you experience is totally normal.

I am not really homosexual man because I consider myself nonbinery, but yes, its more natural for me than sex with women

If you mean “Does homosexuality happen in nature?”, then I can refer you to the book Biological Exuberance by Bruce Bagemihl which has this description:

Homosexuality in its myriad forms has been scientifically documented in more than 450 species of mammals, birds, reptiles, insects, and other animals worldwide. Biological Exuberance is the first comprehensive account of the subject, bringing together accurate, accessible, and nonsensationalized information.

If you mean how it feels while having sex with a partner, then how could it not? Celebrating who you are with a physical expression of intimacy is one of the most natural things you can do once you shed any fears and insecurities you have.

For me, having sex with men is a completely natural act. I've done it all my life and I don't think of it as something unnatural.

Gay sex is natural. Some men are oriented that way only. Some are oriented both ways. Some are oriented to women only, but enjoy with a man anyway.

Ditto for Lesbian sex. Ditto ...

What is important is that sex acts of any kind occur with full consent. Adults with adults.

As for minors, same or very similar age consenting experimentation. I do not have a problem with that.

I am bisexual and do enjoy sex with other men.

I think the question is not precise, at best. What does it mean 'natural'?

If 'natural' is something resulting from evolution, then homosexual sex is not natural.

However, if 'natural' means something that can be done without help of drugs, medical procedures and does not harm you short and long term, then homosexual sex is natural.

Speaking for me personally, when I finally had my first ever sexual experience (with a man) everything came completely naturally to me. I knew what I wanted to do and did it. I've never considered it unnatural to eye up and fancy/dream of other men, and fully realise that other people are doing similar, with either the same or opposite sex, because it's natural to them too!

My first sex play was with a group of boys in 6th grade. We loved to be naked together and explore our bodies with our fingers. Later with our mouths - after the older brother of one gave us instruction. He also was the first with a functioning cock to use our little holes. For me, it was a wonderful experience and just felt good! Now, many, many years later, I still find sex with men to be enjoyable and natural. I love women too. But sex with men is less complicated than sex with women. Both are natural, and without any negative feelings.

I have been romantic only with women, but I must say I enjoy being with a man is less stressful. There is no pressure to perform! We accept each other without stress. Sex with other men can take many forms and positions and be enjoyed. It is easier to discuss what I like, and find out what a man likes than with a woman. The bottom line for me is sex is only part of a relationship. With a woman, the relationship is important, with a man less so. Both are enjoyable parts of life and should be enjoyed.

It just seems to be normal. What can one add. I have been with gay men and "straight" men and we all do the the same thing and all share the same sexual excitement. In most cases men know what pleases us and exhibiting it with another man is just natural. Sex between men is nothing new. Unfortunately the puritanical direction that the U.S. is taking has just made it a hot topic.

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If 'natural' is something resulting from evolution, then homosexual sex is not natural.

There's a book named Biological Exuberance https://www.amazon.com/Biological-Exuberance-Homosexuality-Natural-Diversity/dp/0312192398 that has the following description

Homosexuality in its myriad forms has been scientifically documented in more than 450 species of mammals, birds, reptiles, insects, and other animals worldwide. Biological Exuberance is the first comprehensive account of the subject, bringing together accurate, accessible, and nonsensationalized information. Drawing upon a rich body of zoological research spanning more than two centuries, Bruce Bagemihl shows that animals engage in all types of nonreproductive sexual behavior. Sexual and gender expression in the animal world displays exuberant variety, including same-sex courtship, pair-bonding, sex, and co-parenting—even instances of lifelong homosexual bonding in species that do not have lifelong heterosexual bonding.

The book will not be a titillating read, it's just a listing of different reports where scientists observed homosexual behaviors in animals. They were usually doing another type of study so the sexual behavior wasn't the point of their research but they noted it in their observations.

Based on having read that book, I'm not sure I agree with your statement that homosexuality isn't natural because it doesn't come from evolution, I think that it does express itself in many species and variations of evolution.

Yes, I will say that it is natural and a man knows what a man wants, needs, and desires. When I first went for a male massage, he didn't ask me anything but read and took signs from how my body reacted to his touch. And that was my start to being who I am now. When I kissed a man for the first time, he didn't ask, he gave me a deep and passionate kiss that just melted me into his arms. It was just natural. And when I finally gave up my virgin ass, I had no guilt or shame but loved how he made me feel and it felt pure and natural.

Strange question for LGBT group, but "Yes". I wouldn't tell things like "accurate knowledge of male body, comparing with female", "many animal speices have homosexual behavior" and so on.

All of us have their own things that arouses us, so why not to have sex with representatives of the same sex, if it makes us happy?

Sex between animals of the same gender (human and non human) is absolutely natural.

Sex isn't only for reproduction. It is used by a lot of species as a means of showing affection, bribe, counseling, bonding, or just because it feels good (also masturbation). This can and is shared between members of the same gender.

The idea that it isn't, is (in my opinion) a result of bigotry by various religious groups / organizations.

Of course it is. If you carry this question all the way down to its root, bare essence, to what "nature" really is, then you are hit with the axiomatic truth that anything not expressly prevented by the laws of nature (i.e. physically impossible to do) is not only permissible but compulsory upon nature (i.e., it WILL happen in reality and is statistically and realistically inevitable). Everything else is just social mores, mostly foisted on us by religion. So, CAN a man have sex with another man? If the answer is "yes" - and I guarantee that it is - then sex between men is 100% natural. That is the naked reality. Every other explanation as to why "yes" is just trying to convince and make a case. No convincing is needed for me fuck your dad.

I agree. Once the line is crossed, it is natural, and for me, sought! I am only romantic with women - I love breasts and pussy! But, women are much more work to get to bed than a man in my anus! And I don't have to buy dinner, or lie to say "I love you!"

As a bisexual married man I absolutely love sex with another man. I don’t mess around with other women to avoid the emotional connection but sex with a man is just that, pure sex.

My specific interest is getting fucked or sucking cock or being sucked. So yes I believe sex between men is perfectly natural. I first got fucked by a same age buddy when around 12, loved it and been interested in pleasing my ass ever sinse. Don’t get me wrong I love sex with my wife and I like helping her have an orgasm but there is always something missing. Once I discovered butt plugs I was definitely addicted to having one in my ass and anal sex as often as I could get it.

Now at my age the wife isn’t interested in sex often so I have a regular man friend who is in the same situation. We meet often and have the most amazing sex, both oral and anal. I can also see where women can enjoy sex with each other as well. Our bodies are meant to be enjoyed and pleasing each other is perfectly understandable.

I'm not gay, but I think there's a specific reason why women have a G-spot and men have a prostate, which can be stimulated via the rectum by another man's penis.

For me, it's normal when two men have sex and enjoy it, whether they're gay or not—it doesn't matter... feelings are what count.

It's completely natural. It's nature's way of keeping us out of the gene pool and from passing along genetic disorders. In the animal kingdom at large, not all individuals mate and males have been observed frolicking! Society needs to get on board with it!

I've had my say on this already, but think that JakeNewYork has hit the nail on the head; he's explained it concisely!