Gay men. Do you think that sex between men is natural?

I have spoken with many homosexual men, and they, like me, realized as soon as we started our first gay act with a man , that it was the most natural act we could ever experience. How do you feel , as active gay men, that the sex you experience is totally normal.

I am not really homosexual man because I consider myself nonbinery, but yes, its more natural for me than sex with women

If you mean “Does homosexuality happen in nature?”, then I can refer you to the book Biological Exuberance by Bruce Bagemihl which has this description:

Homosexuality in its myriad forms has been scientifically documented in more than 450 species of mammals, birds, reptiles, insects, and other animals worldwide. Biological Exuberance is the first comprehensive account of the subject, bringing together accurate, accessible, and nonsensationalized information.

If you mean how it feels while having sex with a partner, then how could it not? Celebrating who you are with a physical expression of intimacy is one of the most natural things you can do once you shed any fears and insecurities you have.

I mean it's also false to think that something has to be natural to be good, worthwhile, acceptable or safe. Eyeglasses are unnatural. Airplanes are unnatural.

But that being said, homosexuality is absolutely natural. We see it in many mammals. In fact it's been hypothesized that in humans, men who have older brothers have a tendency to be gay for evolutionary reasons. This hypothesis states that, since there's already older brothers to pass along the parents' genes, it can be just as advantageous from a survival perspective to have a brother who does not reproduce and who can thus help raise the children of a brother that dies. No real point to bringing that up, I just think it's cool.

I mean it's also false to think that something has to be natural to be good, worthwhile, acceptable or safe. Eyeglasses are unnatural. Airplanes are unnatural.

But that being said, homosexuality is absolutely natural. We see it in many mammals. In fact it's been hypothesized that in humans, men who have older brothers have a tendency to be gay for evolutionary reasons. This hypothesis states that, since there's already older brothers to pass along the parents' genes, it can be just as advantageous from a survival perspective to have a brother who does not reproduce and who can thus help raise the children of a brother that dies. No real point to bringing that up, I just think it's cool.

Do you have any references to those hypothesis? Those are interesting.

For me, having sex with men is a completely natural act. I've done it all my life and I don't think of it as something unnatural.

Gay sex is natural. Some men are oriented that way only. Some are oriented both ways. Some are oriented to women only, but enjoy with a man anyway.

Ditto for Lesbian sex. Ditto ...

What is important is that sex acts of any kind occur with full consent. Adults with adults.

As for minors, same or very similar age consenting experimentation. I do not have a problem with that.

I am bisexual and do enjoy sex with other men.

I think the question is not precise, at best. What does it mean 'natural'?

If 'natural' is something resulting from evolution, then homosexual sex is not natural.

However, if 'natural' means something that can be done without help of drugs, medical procedures and does not harm you short and long term, then homosexual sex is natural.

Speaking for me personally, when I finally had my first ever sexual experience (with a man) everything came completely naturally to me. I knew what I wanted to do and did it. I've never considered it unnatural to eye up and fancy/dream of other men, and fully realise that other people are doing similar, with either the same or opposite sex, because it's natural to them too!

My first sex play was with a group of boys in 6th grade. We loved to be naked together and explore our bodies with our fingers. Later with our mouths - after the older brother of one gave us instruction. He also was the first with a functioning cock to use our little holes. For me, it was a wonderful experience and just felt good! Now, many, many years later, I still find sex with men to be enjoyable and natural. I love women too. But sex with men is less complicated than sex with women. Both are natural, and without any negative feelings.

I have been romantic only with women, but I must say I enjoy being with a man is less stressful. There is no pressure to perform! We accept each other without stress. Sex with other men can take many forms and positions and be enjoyed. It is easier to discuss what I like, and find out what a man likes than with a woman. The bottom line for me is sex is only part of a relationship. With a woman, the relationship is important, with a man less so. Both are enjoyable parts of life and should be enjoyed.