How do you tell your sub he/ she is in for a spanking?If you are a sub, do you try fighting back or accept?

I want to hear your opinions on this one. Personally, sometimes I just say “I’m getting the belt” and heading to the wardrobe to get it if we are home. My sub immediately starts trying to take the belt from my hands and beg me not to proceed with her punishment. However, some other times if I’m tired I tell her that she will get her spanking tomorrow morning. After breakfast, I would just say, “go lay on your tummy and wait for me”. She doesn’t protest about this one, because she had enough time to accept that it will happen.

My wife always leaves the paddle on the breakfast bar in the morning to signify a spanking is due at some in the day.

Upon seeing the paddle I have to prepare myself by stripping off and remaining naked until she is ready.

This made me giggle “ if your a sub, do you try fighting back, or accept”. I made the mistake of having a little protest about an owed punishment, with my first Dom. Oh boy, I think that was the fastest most affective lesson I have ever learn’t in my life. Years later, I realised that I was topping from the bottom, or at least trying too.

As a sub I would not dream of protesting if my Dom thought I needed or deserved a spanking

@Secret_sub I couldn’t agree with you more. In fact no reason is ever required for a spanking. My protest was I hadn’t earned a punishment, the Dom had made a mistake. My delivery of the protest however was not my best subby moment.

The only time that i protested by saying “ But I have been a good boy” my wife responded “Yes you have BUT I am still going to spank you because I can and I want to!”

All of my defense was instantly Gone and I gladly accepted my spanking !!

When I am told Get your bath brush, you need a spanking, you have forgotten who is in charge, What happens to bad little boys who talk back , Have you forgotten that YOU are to always be submissive to me? I usually must answer (very meekly )Yes MISTRESS please keep me spanked and submissive😃!!

I do not have a spouse and like alone. However, I have meet a local man that comes over a few times a year to give me a spanking. Usually, I call him and tell him we need to have father / son conversation and shortly into the conversation, He is asking questions about my boy behaviors and attitude and usually after this phone call, we set a date within 5-7 sevens days to meet. Sometimes, I have gone to his place and other times, he comes to my place. The last time, he came to my place (back in September), he called me about 15 minutes out from my house and told me to be in the corner in the living room when he arrived, dressed by shoes , socks and watch off. I was to leave the bathbrush on the coffee table and leave the door unlocked for him to get in. He is a nonsense father figure and I complied and waited for his arrival which seemed like an eternity, since I did not have my watch on. I arrived turned me arrive and began lecturing me about my attitude and behavior issues, then picked up the bathbrush and escorted me by right ear upstairs to the bedroom to spanked. While I did complain about being to big to spanked and tried to make excuses that do not deter the pending spanking but a good mouthsoaping for backtalk and I was bare ass naked over his knee in no time getting blistered with bathbrush.

I try to make a point to accept and submit to all of my punishments, so that I can get the most out of them. Whether or not I think it’s fair in that moment is not important because I chose to put my girlfriend in charge of my discipline and I love and trust her.

Besides 95% of the time I realize I fucked up and understand that I need something to happen to me so I can learn to not do what I did again. I always feel like I deserve it.

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When my wife needs to be disciplined, I usually give her an "appointment card" (like the appointment cards that doctors' and dentists' offices give to patients).

The card says...

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You have an appointment

with your Husband...

at __[TIME]__

on __[DATE]__

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On the other side of the card it says...

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Special Instructions:

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If circumstances allow, and I feel that she needs to be punished immediately, I simply say, "You have an appointment with me in 15 minutes in my workshop!"... or, "... in our bedroom!"... or wherever I intend to discipline her. I also share any special instructions with her... like (for example), "Strip totally naked and fetch the razor strop and condition it with mink oil before I arrive to whip you!"

She knows better than to argue or procrastinate or resist... the only acceptable response is, "Yes Sir.", and I expect obedience.

My husband and I are relatively new to this lifestyle, but we’re both beginning to really enjoy it.

He admitted to me that he’d like me to treat him as a little/baby girl, and I’m exploring my domme side.

One thing I must admit I enjoy a lot is punishing him when he hasn’t done anything wrong. Sometimes I just tell him that he’s been naughty and to come over to me to have his bottom smacked.

If he protests I tell him his punishment is doubled for arguing. It’s deliciously unfair.

If he protests I tell him his punishment is doubled for arguing.

That is so delicious when playing. If for serious discipline its also a really good tool. I never was the type to argue or protest because the vast majority of the time I know I've earned it. But there have been times where I'm emotionally not in control and would protest the type of punishment or the degree of it. My girlfriend would do the exact same thing. She would find ways to double down. It definitely works! I do not argue or protest in any way anymore. The last time this happened I already knew I was getting the cane for something and she had told me ahead of time how many I was getting (which she doesn't always do) and I had argued. She was very calm and didn't warn me that I was making it worse for myself lol. When we got home I got caned, but as soon as we reached the number she had already prescribed, she then told me I had to do it all over again because of my attitude.