First doctor play

Hi everyone, I am going to do my first examination on my first patient what should I do to him?

Prostate massage, semen sample, catheter what else?

I’d highly recommend that you talk about it in advance. A play exam is something that you do “with” someone, not “to” someone. Now, I’m sure that some folks like the element of surprise and the unknown, but at a minimum there should be a discussion about boundaries and limitations. Doing so keeps it a positive experience for everyone involved.

I’ve even heard of play docs who incorporate it into the “health history paperwork”, which makes sense.

Definitely contact the patient and set boundaries. Find out what he likes/doesn't like as well as what you are willing to do.

As a patient, I like it when the doctor takes his time building up to the genital/rectal exams. Rectal temp, stethoscope and abdominal palpation can be incredibly erotic.

And while looking in my ears, eyes and throat aren't necessarily sexual, it adds to the realism and builds excitement.

Don't be afraid to prolong the experience by examining your patient in multiple positions. "I checked your prostate with you leaning over the table, but I'd like to check it again, this time with you on all-fours."

Have fun and keep it safe and consensual!

He likes to be humiliated, being useless and gettin restraint. But this sounds more of BDSM

An M&M enema.

As someone already stated, discuss with your prospective play patient about what they want in their play exam and what is off limits. Consent is super important. I also don't think you need to spend tons of money to have a decent medical play set up.

Essential basics: Stethoscope, BP cuff, reflex hammer, a rectal and oral thermometer, exam gloves, penlight, paperclip (for neuro testing), some form of cloth or flexible tape measure, and lubricant.

Extras that are nice, but not super necessary: inexpensive otoscope, wartenberg pinwheel.

Things that will require some training: urethral sounds, anoscopes

I also highly suggest just going onto you tube to learn how to do a basic examination. I think the best play docs I've had knew how to do a basic exam really well and could then build in the more kinky aspects around it. We all understand play doctors aren't professionals, but if you are half way decent with an exam, it really does go a long way.

I know this is an older thread, but aside from basic exam skills, setting boundaries, and consent I had a few thoughts for the general good:

- Get to know your play partner a little bit as a human being. Admittedly, exam play is a very sexual experience for most of us, but I think it helps to build some trust and comfort level if each of you at least as a basic level of familiarity. I’m not saying you each have to know the other’s darkest secrets (unless it’s med-fet, then lol), but make some effort to be personable.

- To build off my first comment, get an idea of their experience level from a fetish or sexual standpoint. For a younger, new person to medical play or just learning about themselves sexually, it could be a very overwhelming experience at first. Not saying it will, but the play doctor really be considerate that a newbie may have very intense feelings they’ve never had to process before. Giving some space to check in with the patient or moments that the patient can decompress if needed and communicate their headspace would be good.

- Additionally, medical play may be a person’s first time engaging sexually with someone of the same gender. Keep in mind they may be just curious about their sexuality, in the closet, or maybe they don’t care either way and just enjoy fetish play. I think a good play doctor should acknowledge this can be a big thing for some folks and give the patient an opportunity to talk about how they feel about it leading into the exam. Again, check in with the patient during the exam periodically how they are doing and be willing to adjust things accordingly.

When I saw patients I sent them a list of the proceedures i offered. Listening to their chest Papation of their abdomin Rectal temperature Rectal prostate exam. Genital exam etc. What could be called a "pic & mix" They would then return it so i knew what proceedures they wanted and willing to take. I would then offer an i formal zoom chat to discuss everything This allowed the person to get to know you and feel more comfortable, which worked both ways. This gave a very clear indication of what the patient wanted and expected as part of their medical examination Plus the fact you have it in writing from the patient. This saves any misunderstanding and the liklihood of being accused of assault, which nobody wants to experience 🙄