Straight, bi, gay sexual preference vs one's romantic preference

I’m emotionally and sexually heterosexual with a twist.

Because I’m a girly, girl, I want to touch and inspect women’s genitalia and breasts.

I don’t necessarily have to have sex or have to have an orgasm. I just want to touch a beautiful woman, dominate her, and inspect her whole body. In return I’ll allow her to cum.

I have this craving about twice a year. The rest of the time I’m D’s s.

3 of 5 partners I had in Ukraine (all was found through gay dating site), were married family men - romantically entangled with their spouses, but as they confess, they prefer to have sex with other men. And from what I saw, it was pretty common.

I have enjoyed sex with men and women since I was in Jr. High School. I love male genitalia and the feeling of being penetrated by a man. My first sex was with a group of boys, before I ever enjoyed the thrill of making love to a woman. I continued having men use me for their pleasure, but I was never attracted to a man in real life or imagination. Women have always had attractions and feeling of love.

But sex with women is more complicated than sex with men. I don't have to buy dinner or say I love you to have a satisfying encounter. Now I have a GF who knows my desires. At my age, my little penis never gets hard and can't penetrate anyone! My GF loves my mouth and hands, and my interest in men for sex. I think my wife suspected I liked men to use me like a girl, but she never knew for sure. She was always supportive and even didn't react to my regular "recreational" enemas and was happy to stimulate my ass.

My GF loves me to make love to her without penetration. We have hired escort for her and I was happy to see her enjoy a real penis. She cums many times from me, and from a real penis. We have talked about my having a men use me. She has guided escorts from her vagina to my ass and enjoys seeing me used by a man.

I am still romantic with women and continue to enjoy men like a girl! I am glad I have a GF who accepts my desires and have sex with men whenever safe and possible.

I enjoyed reading your ideas. Thank you for your honesty!

I think in this day and age that we get too carried away with labels. I love the old phrase that Popeye used. "I am what I am."

I do love Nurse Phillips term "Heteroromantic". I don't think that I have ever heard that before. I don't consider myself "Bi" but I have played with other women.

"I am what I am!"

I develop close, loving relationships emotionally and physically with other women. I don't find myself attracted to guys physically. I like to feel desirable and put out sometimes, less and less the older I get. It is more of an attraction to personality or playfulness, like with my husband. He also has a huge shlong that is rather enjoyable, along with lots of ideas and creative interests. Never a dull moment.

@ddell2 Nice reply and comment! Same here!

I am romantically attracted to women and sexually but only sexually attracted to men.

My desire for romantic, sexual and emotional are only with females. Being a MtF transgender, I believe that labels me as lesbian. So what I'm lesbian, I love everything about a female body including genitals.

I like to play with anyone that shares my interest it’s all good why limit your options.

I guess I must be a lesbian too @TG-Liz . 😃 No disrespect meant to ladies who swing that way. I love you all.

I am romantically and sexually attracted to woman. I'm not attracted to men, but I do lust after cocks. Cocks turn me on. I love watching a man being ass fucked, especially if the bottom is hard. I like balls too, especially low hangers. With men it is just purely sexual lust, not romantic.

I think what often can confuse us is that we are culturally conditioned to expect to fall into distinct categories (e.g., straight, LGBTQ+... and to me the "+" is "ad infinitum"). I.e., on the human sexuality spectrum, there is infinite variations of expression of sexuality and romance and __________?

i do not think choice has much to do with it? We may have an inkling here or there as to why we are the way we are, but most of it (i believe) is a mystery. i think it's a lot easier to discover the what than the why behind our desires and needs. i think it's particularly hard to study, because, at the end of the day, it's individual. Sure, we may all fall into larger categories, but one only has to spend a day reading posts on Zity to figure out one persons idea of sex is very different from another's.

i think discussions like this are great, because they demonstrate our vast diversity.

For me? i land pretty strongly on gay, bottom, sub side of the multidimensional sexual spectrum. i think guys often, straight or otherwise, express their romantic needs/desires through "just" sex. I.e., in my experience, (again, i know i a speaking in gross generalities) if i groped my former wife in passing, she'd be upset and feel objectified. As a (now) single gay guy, if a guy gropes me is tantamount to a marriage proposal (kidding). But seriously, my lust need/desire and romantic desire/need have a very thin barrier betwixt them. i've been being assertively plowed by a hook up Top (i.e., virtual stranger), Who had a way about Him and Who was fucking and touching me in such ways that i literally had to bite my mattress to keep from babbling how much i love and adore Him.

It's complicated lol.

I’m definitely bisexual but lean towards the ladies. I love just about every kink and that in years past pushed me to men.