Gay hookup sites all just talk and no action

In the good old days you could go on craigslist and meet guys and they would actually meet and you'd have a good time. Now it seems with all these pays sites the guys all just talk and no action. You get to the point of going to meet and then they just disappear. A lot are married. It's just not the same anymore.

I've met several guys in person via SilverDaddies.com.

It great site I would like to try it

Try sniffies.com which is an online cruising app for men, totally web-based, with a free and a Plus (paid) tier.

@JacobNC why it showing blocked?

@Gay_slave It works for me from the link I posted. If you’re getting a message that it’s blocked then it must be blocked by your network.

There's been a ton of discussion on the topic of online hook-up sites on Breeding.zone, a gay discussion forum. There's no doubt that online has changed how the gay community hooks up.

Some would argue that "in the good old days" there was no online and you went to a location where guys hung out looking for sex and had sex then and there. Flaking and ghosting are not a thing when meeting places are in person.

@JacobNC ok got it

I've met several guys in person via SilverDaddies.com.

Used this, and sext in chat.

Aren't most sex hookup sites - gay, lesbian, straight or other - mostly talk and no action? Not speaking fom experince here, just from what I've read.

Seems like especially in Chicago. Or guys too concerned about if someone has been vaccinated, tested and a recent physical examination. Going tonight to a gay bar that is 2 blocks from a college university that has a no limits back bar and free clothing check for New Year’s Eve. Hopefully can finally get some needed attention as there is no other way possible to release alone and balls ache

Used Craigslist and found a longterm gay fuck buddy. We are both on Silverdaddies now

I agree there's a lot of people online that don't do what they say and I've been stuck trying to meet someone and they now show Etc

I've used a couple of UK based ones, similar to you it's mostly married guys which I'm really not interested in unless it's clearly ENM.

Has anyone tried apps like Grindr or Tinder rather than sites?

For me yes, which is why I'm investing in a fuck machine asap.

I use silverdaddies.com which is a global site, good chat and limited free Cam. Love to Cam I call it Safe Sex LOL

I also use Sniffies.com which is locational to about 25 miles or so. Cam costs money, but your private chats are saved even for free accounts.

I have met several guys on each site.

Another free site is DoubleList.com.. its like a remake of CraigsList. Have met a couple there too.

Even with all the real meetups the basic problem is still a lot of fakes and players so be careful! Patience, Grasshopper..... and it works out!

I just got back from a cruise 3 weeks ago as a solo single sailing gay guy and tried using the apps but the one that worked was Grindr. He sent me a message and asked if he could come to my cabin later that day. He was my type of guy and I said yes. I brought an enema nozzle and had lube and got ready. It was the perfect hookup and it made the cruise the best one ever. I also have silverdaddies and have got some dates set up for the end of Nov in Palm Springs next month.

I have found several nice men on Adam4Adam, and many flakes. The successes made the site useful. I have a regular close by who loves my fist, and then my ass! Our first contact was on Adam4Adam.

I actually enjoy the sexual chats that come before blocking!

Met my Master on Grindr. Maybe it was low chance occasion, but still, it worked

I live in Kansas and Grindr has been full of spam a lot more recently. I got to say I have been using Scruff more.

Gay hookup sites were always an idea bound to fail. Sure, sometimes you can get laid that way, and it is easy. But it isn't supposed to be easy. The sites replaced gay bar culture and that is where hookups belong, where you can physically encounter another guy/guys. And don't underestimate how important pheromones are - Grindr can never give you that.

I think the issue is not with gay sites particularly but in general all hook up sites. The nose dive begun with introduction of smart phones and accelerated when mobile data became cheaper and free wifi available in many places. This opened flood gates of horny wankers or all ages accessing those sites.

Maybe it's conflict of opinions between old and not-so-old schools, but for me - a highly shy and socially axnxious person - hookup sites are literally life saviour