First time watching opposite sex masturbate in person

Age 27. Post pregnancy scare he was afraid to come in me even with a condom on. I don’t know if this really counts, but when he got close he would pull out and finish himself. Sometimes I would lend a hand but I loved watching and hearing the desperation in his movements/moans from a different angle.

I was very late to puberty (16 almost) and had earned the nickname BD in Jr High (BD stood for "Baby Dick" - an unfortunate benefit of gym showers). As a result, I ended up at the "loser table" at lunch and the library - consigned to friendship with the other freaks, geeks, nerds, and losers throughout Jr High and High School.

Despite the labels, we had the same hormones (well, eventually), urges, curiosity, and societal peer pressure of any other teens - it just never occurred to parents, teachers, or non-loser peers that we did - which probably went a long way toward enabling us.

The result was probably as much or more physical and sexual exploration as the popular kids. We spent a lot of time in one friend or another's basement watching science fiction and playing games. Spin the bottle progressed to truth-or-dare to "strip spin the bottle" to role play games ultimately resulting in some form of nudity and light bondage (you are now the king's - or queen's prisoner strip him or her and tie them up!)

Anyway, I was 15 and had just started to sprout pubic hair. I was hanging out over at Ellen's house - I guess she was an early "goth girl" - always wore black and scarves - it was just the two of us that day. Ẁe had seen each other in varied states of nudity before, but alwlays as part of group games, never alone. That afternoon, she wanted to play truth-or-dare. We used to roll dice - even was truth and odd was dare. The first time I rolled for a truth, Ellen asked me if I'd ever seen a girl come. I said no, she rolled and I had her do something stupid, then I rolled truth again and she asked if I wanted to see her come. I said yes and she stood up, stripped down to her panties and told me to just watch. She rubbed her hands over body, pinched her nipples several times, and rubbed her hand over her crotch - all while standing about 5 feet away with her eyes closed.

Eventually she slid her hand inside her panties and said "I'm so wet." With that she slid her panties off and continued to finger her clit while never breaking eye contact. After a minute or so, she sat on the couch and spread her knees, telling me to kneel in front of her. She then proceeded to masturbate vigorously, then slowly, then vigorously - spreading her labia to give me a view of her hole and then going back to masturbating. I was mesmerized and can still picture it today.

I remember that she tensed up & cried out loudly when she came - and I almost panicked, thinking that she had hurt herself, grabbing her saying "are you okay? What's wrong? Are you okay?" She called me an idiot and said that's what it's like when a girl comes. She asked me if I liked what I saw. Later, she had me return the favor - which was a new experience for me (but evidently not for her). The first time I ever came was masturbating for Ellen.

We never had intercourse, but over the next couple of years all of us at the loser table explored our sexuality, experimented, and learned. And the cool kids/bullies never had any idea.

I clearly remember the first time I demonstrated my ejaculatory skills with my now wife of 45+ years. We were BOTH a bit older (30-ish) when we met; owned our own homes; well established in careers and neither of us previously married. We met on a blind date arranged by mutual friends. After about three dates, I was “in love” and knew she was “THE ONE”. Add to that, in my eyes, this gal had the sexiest feminine hiney on the planet. Nice and full, long deep crack with just the right amount of wiggle — the sight of which always made me instantly hard — which she noticed! Early on, I was forced to tell her that seeing her butt really stirred my manhood. From there on, she always wore sexy pants to accentuate her glorious backside! Instant erections occurred just seeing it. I really wanted to fondle it, but early in the relationship, she did not want me touching it. After a few more dates, she shocked me when she asked to see my cock in its “excited” state. I quickly unzipped and out popped my “best 6-inches”. She said she wanted to see it shoot, so I told her she WAS FREE TO RUB IT! But, she said no. She wasn’t ready to do that. So I asked her to pull down her pants so I could see her sexy bare hiney. She instantly said that was a fair trade, so down came her tight pants revealing an incredibly wholesome set of naked womanly buttocks….right in front of my eyes! A couple of strokes on my throbbing erection and out shot three or four long ropes, one of which splattered her hiney - just a couple feet in front of me! When that HOT load hit her hiney she said — I had hit the bullseye! I even got to clean up her bottom and, from then on, that part of her anatomy was never “off limits” for grabbing, kissing, etc.! In the few remaining months before we got married, she freely gave me BJs and I freely fondled her luscious bottom while locking lips, and grinding my raging cock along her covered crotch. Incredibly, we managed to hold off on having actual intercourse until a week before we got married. And….THAT was a truly wonderful experience as I firmly grabbed her incredible buttocks while slowly penetrating her for the first time — deeply thrusting my manhood inside! In no time, my excited penis was rhythmically depositing a massive load into her warm, tight and receptive womanly parts! What GREAT memories!

Never got to enjoy that. 😞

I was about 12 and we had a baby sitter who was a pretty high school girl who lived down the street. I woke up and went downstairs to get a drink of water and walked in on her masturbating. She had her pants unzipped, was frantically rubbing herself and was just starting her climax. She had her eyes closed and was softly moaning. Because her eyes were closed she didn’t see me, so I ducked back into the other room. I then discreetly peeked out and watched as she licked her fingers and zipped up her pants. I crept back upstairs but realized I was still thirsty so I loudly went back downstairs so she would be sure to hear me this time. When I came into the kitchen, I realized that she was out on the back patio smoking a cigarette. I had no idea she smoked and for some reason, this turned me on too so I got my drink of water, went back to bed and masturbated twice. I had been masturbating for about a year at that point but didn’t know that this was something that girls did too until that night.

I clearly remember the first time I demonstrated my ejaculatory skills with my now wife.....................In no time, my excited penis was rhythmically depositing a massive load into her warm, tight and receptive womanly parts! What GREAT memories!

Great story and that got me playing with my cock. Thanks!

I’ve used a journal to note what I ate, how I felt after, and any symptoms that came up. It really helped me spot patterns and figure out what works for my gut.

I've had moments like that too, where just the setup or context is enough to trigger something unexpected. The mind really is powerful. I’ve noticed that watching stuff like phim sex hentai can sometimes spark similar feelings or reactions, even without anything physical happening. It’s all connected to how our brain processes stimulation and memory.

My wife and I hadn't had sex for several days after an argument. I happened to walk into the bedroom and saw my wife lying on the bed with her lower body naked and legs spread, massaging her clitoris with two fingers. She was already so close to orgasm that she couldn't stop and seconds later, she had a violent orgasm with spasms and moans.

When I was in high school I had sex with a girl I was dating and we were in this big bed after we had sex, and she must have thought I was asleep because she started masturbating quietly but I was awake and didn't let her know (I wish I had), but the next day I finally got the nerve to ask about what she was doing and she said she hadn't "finished" during sex and I was surprised but that was my learning curve and I made her show me how I could help in the future or if she wanted to do it herself while I watched or left the room if she didn't.

I've never watched a female solo masturbate to climax, live and in person, as the OP asked about. I would LOVE to!!! But, unfortunately, the situation has never presented itself. I have fantasized about it many, many times, but that's another topic.

I have however watched a few different women rub their clitorises and pleasure themselves while we had sex. That is really hot too!!! They usually preferred the combination of the pounding of PIV simultaneously with their clit stimulated, or a couple of times during anal sex. They always just took it upon themselves to supply the pleasure at the exact moment they wanted it, and I was more than happy to watch.

I've also had a couple of girlfriends that would rub and play with their nipples and breasts while I went down on them while using my hands and fingers for other tasks.

I suppose I first saw that when I was eleven but I was doing the wanking.

Its all in chapter ED36 of my sexual life history story !

It was my late wife....She was fourteen...I was sixteen...She was completely naked...and not only did she rub her clit..she used a coke bottle on herself...Me? I came in my pants.

There was a funny incident. It was in the winter of 2018. I was a student. I was 21 years old. I rented an apartment for a while (because I got kicked out of the dorm) and a friend from the dorm came to spend the night with me. We had one room. Also a bed. I was in a relationship, so there was no intimacy or innuendo. I remember we went to bed. And she couldn't fall asleep for a long time. Which kept me from falling asleep too. And then she abruptly got up and sat down at the computer desk. Right in front of the bed. I asked, "What happened?" She replied that nothing and that she just couldn't fall asleep, so she would sit on the computer for a while and then she ordered me to sleep. Well, I tried to fall asleep, but I got curious. I pretended to fall asleep. I started breathing deeply like a sleeping person. And then in the dark I saw her masturbating very furiously... I started peeking with my eyes closed. I got wildly excited. She came very quickly. Then she went to the toilet. came back and went to bed.

My first time was with a girlfriend after having vaginal sex. She kindly let me have my ordinary orgasm, then when I had puled out she began masturbating. She told me that she had never had an orgasm from vaginal sex and had to masturbate to have one. Her clitoris was large and protruded nicely. She also said that only she knew how to "work" her clitoris to achieve the desired result. Which she proceeded to do and enjoy. Glad she had a good time with herself. We all need enjoyment!.

I am 78 and still waiting, don't think I will ever see it.

@brett720 you realize she most likely wanted you but didn’t want to let you know as you had friend zoned her

Scary and made me nervous

@brett720 you realize she most likely wanted you but didn’t want to let you know as you had friend zoned her

@Nurse_Phillips I was also oblivious to girls wanting me (only realizing after it was too late). We need coaching! What should he have done or said in this situation?

@Horace I'm not sure. I think the OP didn’t want a sexual relationship with her

The first time I actually watched I was a little older nineteen or so. The first time I learned about it I was just starting highschool. I was with a girl just hanging out we were laying in her bed just talking. I don't even remember about what. She ended up taking my hand and putting it down her pants, eventually her pants and panties were down and she was using my hand to masturbate herself while teaching me how to do it. She used my hand to give herself a orgasm and at the same time teach me how to do it. She was a good teacher, I haven't forgotten what she thought me. I still think about her from time to time, she was a very good friend.

@Ccc That is so hot!!! After reading your post, I now think all of my friends are terrible!

I've never seen a woman masturbate 😅

As I stated in my below posting #49, mutual asturbation with another is enjoyable! Seeing and hearing each others visual and vocal expressions is indescribable! In each others presence is by far a beautiful experience, but by phone or cam is super also! Would love to chat with others about this!! Message me!

Can't remember the first time but me and some friends did occasionally masturbate together. We also tried oral sex on each other.

I was about 35 years old and was dating a 26 year old girl. We were screwing from the first date onward. She was not shy with her body and I enjoyed conversations with her about all kinds of things. She mentioned that she had never had an orgasm with her Ex husband and he was wham bam and gone so when he left she would get her Vibrator out and finish herself off. I asked her if she still had it and she showed it to me. I asked her to demonstrate how she got herself off and much to my amazement she Had no hesitation about showing me. While she had her vibrator playing on all her external parts she was also rubbing her clit with the windshield wiper motion until her clit got pronounced and then she started inserting her vibrator in and out of her pussy while continuing to wipe that clit profusely. She got off and after her orgasm she waited a minute or two and STARTED again! This was a huge turn on for me and soon she had "cum " again. This was the first time I had been with a girl who was open enough to masturbate in front of me. So to make a long story short, I married her and that was 36 years ago. She is not shy about pleasing herself and does it often by herself or in front of me. If I ever touch my Penis she immediately takes over the job and blows it or fucks it down. Usually a combination of both. I finally jacked off in front of her a few years ago after having her blow me for 30 minutes or so and I was having trouble getting off. I was always shy about playing with myself in front of anyone and still am. But I do fondle myself around my wife now.......and she usually takes over. She has many many toys and I noticed she can fuck herself a lot better than I can. I DO enjoy watching her operate! I love it that she's not shy.

You're a lucky man Dicey. My wife is now not interested in sex but I had zero problems masturbating in front of her. Finally she will ask "Do you want help with that?" and she will masturbate me. We've been married for 53 years but before we were married I'd drop her of at home a night. Before she left I'd take her into the back yard and get her to lower her pants and lift her bra. I'd kneel in front of her and masturbate a load. at the wonderful sight.