Playdocs: medfet or dominance?

I mostly identify as a patient, but I have done exams in the past. I think for me its about being able to deliver an exam the patient really enjoys from a physical or touch perspective. As someone who enjoys being auscultated and palpated, the sensory aspect is attractive to me, so I try to provide that for the patient in a way they enjoy and consent to. Certainly being able to dictate when the patient has to remove clothes or when and how I perform certain exams can be nice, but I would not classify myself at all as "dominant".

I always want the play doctor to be dominant or strict with me.

My doctor growing up was very kind with me but made it very clear he was in charge when he was examining me and wanting to see what he needed. Even the other doctors I saw while I was growing up had the same attitude where they were nice but firm/sensitive in what needed to be done.

I've had lots of play exams and there's only been two who have been very strict with me and really made me feel submissive and they were probably my favorite and most memorable exams. But at the same time, I enjoy all of the exams I've had.

For me as a patient I prefer a dominant Doctor, a thing doesn't exclude the other. I mean that in this kind of role play, under the psychological aspect, a certain kind of dom/sub relationship is created.

From my point of view medfet and dom/sub relationship is inevitable in some way.

It doesn't always work that way. We get lots of patients with altered mental status (AMS) from a variety of causes, but i have found in my practice that compliance and cooperation seem to be a response connection to honesty, openness.

With diseases that are impacting memory (whether it be Alzheimer’s, prion diseases/CJD, dementia, etc.) or cancer with brain involvement, I’ve found that sometimes the best thing to do is meet them wherever there brain currently is and go along for the ride. Trying to reason with them or force them to accept reality causes them more anxiety, doing more harm than good. By just going along for the ride, they are calmer, leading to cooperation and achieve the desired outcome (whether it be take medicine, eat, drink, go back to their room or bed, etc.)

It requires quick thinking and reaction, but the more conversations I have with people who have memory diseases, the easier it gets to just make it up as I go along. One of my all time favorites: we were staying with my in-laws, helping with my husband’s grandfather, who had terminal cancer. At 1:30 in the morning, I hear grandpa up and moving around. I go check on him. He tells me he wants to check out, doesn’t like this place anymore. Without missing a beat I respond, “I’m so sorry to hear that you aren’t happy with your room. In order to check out, I’m going to need your room key.” He thought about that for a second and said, “Well, I’m not sure where my room key is.” In the most sincere manner I told him, “Oh that’s unfortunate. You can’t check out without turning in your room key. How about you go back to bed? I’ll bet you’ll be able to find your room key after you get some more sleep.” He decided that was a good idea and went back to bed. Slept til 7:30 am, and never asked about checking out again. I guess he changed his mind about the quality of the accomodations. LOL.

I think it can be both. Depending. Doctor in control. Patient being submitting or enjoying depending on joy level. Just a game ot being fully exposed with no secrets so to speak

To me playing the gyno doctor is predominately about the inherent power and dominance. It’s about being given the authority and power that the woman will comply to get naked for an exam, and then her giving me control to examine and explore the most private and personal parts of her body. The medical scenario becomes the perfect premise for the female to be submissive and succumb to the doctor investigating her anatomy.

If I was the play doc, I think it’s 2/3rds medical oriented and 1/3 power dynamic. Patient wise, I feel it’s more 50/50.

What is a big turn on for me in medical play is the proceduralism, using medical equipment, and the sensory components. The times I’ve been a play doc, being able to give a play patient this kind of experience is fun. I really like when both the patient and I get to explore our particular interests within med-fet. I love getting to listen extensively to their heartbeat, while maybe they get a really in depth abdominal exam or rectal exam, etc. I am not a domineering type of person, but going through an exam where my touch and what I do is turning the patient on is more of my type of power dyanamic. I am aware ultimately I am in control of when they get their sexuality gratification, and being able to do things like palpate their femoral arteries while they are naked really adds to that for me, since I know it’s giving them tingles and a little frustration that they are getting turned out but can’t do anything about it.

As a play patient, the power dynamic is more salient. I am definitely more submissive in nature, and being naked in front of the play doc, getting touched by them in a way I don’t have specific control over, etc. is fun for me. Personally, I really love play doctor being in control of when orgasm, and how they are building up to that throughout the exam. The medical aspects are super important to me, as is the procedural is of it all, but the power dynamic as a patient is more obvious.