Rimming unwashed hole

My first gf surprised me one day when we were having sex by rimming me. It shocked me, as I was pretty innocent and had never even considered rimming - didn't even know it was a thing. Needless to say, I learned to love it. And she loved doing it. It didn't matter how clean it was back there. In fact, I think she preferred it unwashed. She was a very submissive girl, and got me into bondage and some other activities. But I'm wondering if rimming and submission go hand in hand.

Ha! My first experience with rimming was exactly as you described. I remember being shocked, disgusted, then in pure bliss, all within about 3 seconds. That girlfriend was wonderful and introduced me to many new sexual activities.

...Awww, fondly reminiscing 😊...

We had one or two sessions, including that first one, that was unwashed. However, most of our rimming was after swimming and/ or washing. To be honest, the thought of doing it with a dirty hole gives me a strong ick feeling. Giving or receiving. However, we didn't have any dom/ sub in our relationship. Rimming or otherwise.

Had done it previously with two girlfriends both who were unprepared but seemed to enjoy it! Both had some extra goodies hanging in there so I didn’t dwell there long!! Gave one a bath to clean things up and continued on - I enjoyed giving as much as she did receiving my playful tongue !

I've been doing it since I was in my teens and never a disappointment bam.

But I'm wondering if rimming and submission go hand in hand.

Not for me. my favorite part of a Mans anatomy is His ass (i'm gay, total bottom with some sub)... but not the hole part.

i experience and perceive any form of penetration as "Top/Dom," and to me, rimming is a form of penetration. It affects me as penetration both physically and psychologically. For me, it's psychologically seductive, maybe since my hole i my primary sex organ? Butt When a Man goes there, it feels like He is showing desire to open and penetrate me, which both feel "Top/Dom" to me and not something i would every want to do with another. Obviously, my feelings are not universal. i know a lot of bottoms and subs who do rim... but doing so contradicts something in me, doesn't feel bottom or sub for me.