Expulsion in the presence of giver

I remember well when the girlfriend who lived with me wanted to watch me expel. At first, I was embarrassed. Then she just wanted to look in the potty to decide if I needed another enema. That escalated to her adding fingers in me to make me expel more. Also, she liked to watch my vagina. She said it looked like I was going to prolapse. That escalated even more because she wanted to watch me expel in the tub. Of course, this was after I was totally clean. She liked to watch me open up. I had one girlfriend actually from this site who liked to watch my facial expressions while I expelled.

My mother used to check to see if her job was successful. That was always very embarrassing for me.

My wife is behaving in a similar way to you today. When I protest, I sometimes face one or the other punishment enema.

Several years I went to a new enema nurse. After giving me the first enema she asked if she could stay with me in the bathroom while I expelled. She sat on the edge of the tub and just talked with me while I expelled. She didn't look at what came out, just talked with me during the time. I was fine with it.

Both my wife and Mother would leave me alone to expel my enema. The one girlfriend that knew that I took enemas would stay in the toilet with me after she gave me my enema and talk. My mother would make me sit on a chamber pot and not the toilet. After I had expelled the enema she would always want to see if the “thing“ had done its job. On the other hand, my wife just leaves me alone and I flush when I am through expelling the enema.

Several years I went to a new enema nurse. After giving me the first enema she asked if she could stay with me in the bathroom while I expelled. She sat on the edge of the tub and just talked with me while I expelled. She didn't look at what came out, just talked with me during the time. I was fine with it.

@Buttshotlover I would be fine with that too. 😃

Several years I went to a new enema nurse. After giving me the first enema she asked if she could stay with me in the bathroom while I expelled. She sat on the edge of the tub and just talked with me while I expelled. She didn't look at what came out, just talked with me during the time. I was fine with it.

Maybe it was her way of helping you to relax and expell more completely.

I would love to have the giver watching between my legs as I expel in the toilet. I would also love to be the same with receiver.

Here's my thoughts on this, and it touches a couple different areas.

To start with, when I've received an enema, I don't care one way or the other whether the giver wants to stay with me while I'm expelling. I have done it often enough that I have no embarrassment factor to worry about.

When I'm the giver, I LIKE to stay with the person who's expelling, but I'm absolutely willing to honor their wishes as far as me being there or not. The reasons why I like to be there are to make sure that they're ok, and as a receiver myself, empathize what they're going through by what I hear and see.

And finally, and here's one I thought first about a couple years ago…. to start with, we're supposed to hold enemas ‘as long as we can’ so that we get the best results, right ? And then we're embarrassed to go in front of our givers ( that's basically what this discussion is about ). So if your EnemaNurse / mom is with you where you're going to expell, aren't you indirectly holding it longer because you will be embarrassed about the sounds you're about to make?? So having your giver with you indirectly helps.

Enematically. Steve. Host Florida E-Fests

Most of the colon hydrotherapists I have been to have given a running commentary on what they see in the viewing glass, closed system, when releasing me. If that isn't an expulsion…..

I enjoy giving enemas and have stayed a few times for the expulsion. Once was during a kinkier play exam where the patient had requested it as at the same time she didn't want me to stay but also felt it would be very submissive if i stayed while she expelled in the toilet. So i stayed but left when she was done and let her clean herself in private.

Then another time (with everything being agreed upon prior to starting) it was part of an enema training BDSM type of play were an enema virgin took her first enema and then i sat her on the toilet, i told her firmly that i expected her to hold her enema for 5 minutes. Then i told her she could expel at any time she needed to but that i would be staying with her until 5 minutes had passed. I spent the next 5 minutes playing with her breasts as she sat on the toilet doing her best to hold her first enema. It was a really fun time, between playing with her breasts and knowing she just wanted to expel but being nervous about expelling in front of me.

She made it 5 minutes so i left her to do her thing. Fast forward a couple of weeks and we play again, again with everything agreed upon, i gave her a larger enema and told her this time i would leave at a mystery time, i again played with her breasts as she sat on the toilet ready for when she couldn't hold it anymore. I think it was 8 or 9 minutes (i had set a 10 minute timer on my phone so it would be fair) when i saw her face change and i heard the first trickle of expulsion, so i grabbed and held her breasts firmly and told her to relax and let it out. While i admit it didn't smell very good, but it was hot, holding her breasts, looking at her face and knowing the vulnerability and submission she shared and let me take part in. I would do it again

@Thursdays_child

You point about the ‘view tube’ on a closed system colonic machine is well taken. Be it noted that most of the open systems also have such a tube. Here is the one on an Angel of Water: https://ibb.co/56PTymy

However, viewing your poo going through the view tube is somehow different than looking at it in a toilet or commode. To me, seeing it in the machine, seems somehow more removed.

Not all therapists give a commentary.

Sean.

I have been to two ladies who gave open system colonics, one, Angel of Water and one LIBBE. Both appeared to have CCTV on the viewing section on the drain line. The somewhat up tight Angel lady re-appeared in the treatment room after about ten minutes to say "you really should be releasing now”.

The much more relaxed LIBBE lady, who had been popping in and out to check how I was getting on and bringing cups of herbal tea, smiled when I finally finished and said “that was a really good release."

Nothing will compare however with that still memorable day when the school nurse produced a large china chamber pottie, inspected the contents and then bore it away to the adjacent toilet. She was kind, efficient but so thorough and I've been a klysmo ever since!!

@Thursdays_child

I've not seen the CCTV, but on an Angel, the client can see the view tube directly in a mirror. In my sessions, the open system therapists seem less concerned with the properties of the released poo. There only concern seems to be that you are releasing it.

OTOH, closed system therapists look at what you are releasing a lot more carefully…. to the point that comments like “I see you had mushrooms (or corn) recently” are not uncommon. Frankly, I'm not a real fan of running commentaries on my poo.

Yes I have had last night's recipes!!!

I always love to be watched expel.

It turns me on.

If there are many better people.😃😃😁❤️

It certainly adds to the humiliation of the receiver in a punishment scenario to have to wait for permission to expel, usually preceded by a satisfying amount of begging, grunting, groaning, and “Please! I can't hold it any longer”

When we were kids growing up after getting an enema someone was always in the bathroom while we were expelling. Nudity was a fact of life and we never gave it a second thought, because we shared a bedroom until our mid to late teens. As teenagers, when my siblings and I were gave each other enemas after school, it was no different, we were together. Once I was married, it wasn’t uncommon for my wife and I to be together in the bathroom nude taking care of ourselves or each other.

Because of the pain meds and nerves I've needed some water to try to get things moving. With 2 broken arms assistance is needed for everything. God forbid I fall over right now.

So he hangs around to make sure all goes as it should. Quite the turn around for us. Sadly I'm worried about the pain, but this could be later transfered to a sexual scene.

I’m still old-fashioned, when I am gushing out an enema, fouling the air and making the most unladylike sounds, I prefer to be alone unless I really need support. My husband was a godsend during occasional headache attacks when I was lightheaded and dizzy and fearing that I might fall.

On one occasion I stayed in the bathroom with my older daughter because she wanted me to be there — what she “fondly” remembers as the 3am enemas when she was feeling too sick to be alone.

I've had nurses in the room while I'm either on the toilet, potty chair or bedpan after an enema.. Colon therapists have also been in the room watching/talking while getting rid of the remnants of a colonic.

Coming out of the military you kind of get used to pooping in the presence of others, oftentimes naked. It's a natural process and everybody does it, Poop happens.

Oh my I just hated it when my mom, aunt or sometimes my gran would stay in the bathroom while I was on the toilet waiting for me to expel my enema. They would be talking about how good of a enema they had just given me and it should start to work anytime.

I think it's far more intimate to be watched expelling by the one who administered the enema. It's a strong act of trust to be exposed and allow them to see that the enema has done its job. Especially if they deem that the submissive needs a second enema until they are clear.

If the enema is given in a loving scenario, I think it's important that the giver be present, and even close to the recipient the pooing starts.

In my preferred scenario, the enema is given with a bag and single balloon Foley, Fr 32 with a 30cc balloon inflated with about 50ml of water. The recipient takes the enema on the bed until the bag is empty, then gets up and walks to the toilet with the Foley still in place and sits down. I follow carrying the bag, still connected to the Foley.The giver can massage their tummy and then deflates the Foley and take hold of the recipient's hand. The enema will ensure, no matter how strong the embarrassment of the recipient, that the pooing will start very soon and there is absolutely nothing the recipient can do to halt it. I can think of few things more deeply embarrassing than being made to lose all bowel control in the intimate presence of another.

Of course, the giver will see, hear and smell everything. No secrets. Everything comes out.

I would like to make a suggestion which maybe my good enema lovers have not thought of . on the toilet when releasing it usually comes out in long streams . Please flush after each stream & it greatly reduces odors , not 100% but 90% . My dear RN taught me this & she is a wonderful kind giver of nice big soapy e 's

@Fitness_Life

There are a couple of reasons poo smells:

The expulsion of smelly gasses- there isn't much you can do about these gases. Some bidet toilet seats have an ‘odor exaction’ function which extracts smells with a small blower and that air is passed though an activated carbon filter. Years ago, American Standard marketed the Vent Away toilet that extracted smells:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oT6ZZGIotPg

I don't know if it's still available.

The easiest answer is a poo deodorant spay. There are a couple of supplies, including Squatty Potty.

The other reason poo smells is if the person is pooing into a bedpan or bedside commode ant the expelled poo lies exposed to the air. The solution is to put a couple of inches of water into the commode bucket so any poo is promptly submerged.

The combination of a poo deodorant spray and water in the commode pail works well.

All enemas I have received so far were in BDSM settings. So being watched when expelling, especially when done not sitting on toilet add hugely to the humiliation. And I have to admit, I find it preferable. I found it a bit weird and something missing with one giver, who after administering enema would just leave me alone to expel it.