Plug discomfort

Im trying to get myself to wear plugs for longer and longer periods of time. Especially at work. But am having trouble pushing past the distraction and discomfort. I really want to be able to have it in most of the day like a good sissy, but it is hard to still get things done. Any suggestions?

Try a different plug! It took me a few tries before I found my favorite! The first time I put in it was there for 6 hours!

I agree with Ozzy. Keep looking for the right plug that fits your ass. I went through several plugs for years and finally found one that works for me. Called the “worlds most comfortable butt plug” from Mrsleather. The “snug Plug” looks similar and the njoy 2.0 is marvelous. I now wear my WMCBP just about every night sleeping with it in me and many times during the day for hours on end. Also size is important. I have settled on the “medium” for long term wear but each plug sizes differently. As an after thought, don't rule out getting a plug harness. They work good too. Enjoy the search. I am still always looking for a new and better sensation LOL.

Like the guys before me rightly said - need to find the plug that suits you. For long term wear during daily activities you want a plug that is really comfy - usually has long and slender neck, pronounced head and base that is rather "longish" shape instead of round. For the materials I'd go with glass, stainless steel or really soft silicone. Size should be smaller rather than bigger. Check out squarepeg egg plugs.

Happy plugging!

Hold it in with the handyman's secret weapon: duct tape

Thanks for the feedback. Do you find that it should be a little uncomfortable/distracting

I wake up with mine wondering if it’s in or not. So no. its very comfy.

Keep on searching for a nice and comfortable plug is part of this joyful journey

I have a homemade heated plug which relaxes the anus and colon making for an easier relaxing hold and other benefits

Thanks for the feedback. Do you find that it should be a little uncomfortable/distracting

A little uncomfortable no, Distracting? Absolutely but because of it feeling so good being in there, not because of any discomfort. While I have tolerated some plugs in the past that have been slightly uncomfortable I kept looking and trying more out until I finally found the perfect plugs for me.

It's all been said before. My experience, smaller metal ones with a defined narrow shank are good for all day wear. Wider necks need tape or other mechanical support to hold in place.

I started my exploration with an Njoy plug. It was very comfortable, and I still feel it is a good design, but maybe not the best for long term wear. I have since tried a variety of silicone plugs and have settled on the Snug Plug 2 as @EasyEntry mentioned. It has a great profile for comfortable all day wear. Large head, slim neck, T-shaped handle.

One recommendation I would share: after using lube to insert the plug, add a little more lube around the handle and the neck where it enters your pucker. Keeping the handle slippery will reduce rubbing and chaffing between the cheeks. When I wear my plug all day I keep a little container of lube with me and occasionally go to the restroom and reapply some lube to the handle.

It should be comfortable to wear, not painful. Yes, it is a pleasant distraction when you think about it, but there are certainly times I forget it’s there until I move in a way that reminds me. I think my enjoyment is 75% having a naughty secret and 25% physically arousing stimulation.

I have a plug like ozzy's, but with a different handle choice, mine is flat and round and fits snug between the cheecks. I have a med, large, and extra large and by far my medium is the most comfy for long term wear. Like Ozzy, I can sleep with it and wake up and wonder. However, long term wear at work or out and about, I struggle with distraction. If I'm at home working then it's no problem. It's more of a psychological thing for me. What is weird, is I wear cock rings all day, everyday but the distraction is different I suppose.

You'll find the right one, but it is a trial by error thing for sure. Hey, but it's a fun journey!!

Good luck! 😃

I think it would be hard for me to wear a butt plug at work ( pun intended LOL) I would be just too distracted and wanting to put my hard-on in a co-workers butt. Plus, I would be worried it would slip out of my butt at the wrong time.

I my hole is small should I try butt plug?

If you feel the inclination to do so, then you should.

But of course, start small, with small narrow plugs that can be slipped up into you with little discomfort. And keep it in for short periods at first until you get used to it. Then you can go to progressively larger sized plugs.

That is how I started. My gf once cut my interior anal muscles with a sharp fingernail when we were first together. It hurt like hell, but of course healed.

Even so, so 50 years later I can still feel the scar inside. Therefore when I started with plugs back in the 1980s, I ended up making my own out of heavily varnished wood. This because those for sale in sex shops, were really too wide for me. They really hurt.

But, starting with a ridiculously small and thin home-made plug (so small I now have to laugh how dainty it looked) I increased the size over time until I could accommodate store bought plugs.

You will probably be able to use plugs, but start out small and be patient. Don't rush things. And by that I am talking about periods measured in months.

And just like in any training regimen, keep at it regularly.

so what can i use for small things like in home made?

I carved my first ones out of hardwood. But you will need some hand tools to do so. I started out with wooden rods I carved and sanded into shapes I was looking for.

Then varnished with several coats of high gloss varnish.

This is kind of like the Goldilock’s story.

Your daily wear plug needs to be large enough to provide sensual satisfaction while not being too small to slide out.

This is kind of like the Goldilock’s story.

Your daily wear plug needs to be large enough to provide sensual satisfaction while not being too small to slide out.

Out of all the dozens of plugs I've purchased over the years, only one (1) fits that description. It is in metal, has a thin stem, but a fairly large bulbous head.

And to be sturdy enough not to break the stem when inserted and moving around, metal is the only choice. Plastic, glass and wood are not strong enough and/or the stem has a high risk of breaking when the plug is inserted. I've had that happen with a plastic/silicon plug, the flange broke right off at the thinnest point. Wood is most certainly too brittle when the stem is thin and glass is out of the question entirely. I've dropped a glass plug on a rug on a tiled bathroom floor and it chipped a large part right off. Haven't really trused glass for plugs since.

That leaves only metal plugs by default for long time wear without danger of them slipping out.

I feel very comfortable and confident with my borosilicate glass plugs. They are extremely strong. I’ve dropped them on a tile floor without breaking them. I don’t recommend that, butt shit happens. Stainless steel is also good butt there just aren’t as many wonderful shapes.

Use a different plug or use some more lube

Does it feel like it is holding something back or is it to tight. If its the first one use an enema before using the plug . If it feels like it is squeezing your inards try a smaller plug

AHH part of the appeal is the distraction and discomfort. It is for me and other pluger girls I know. Gets us all squirmy and like you say, distracted.

I don't see a problem. Maybe you just do not enjoy using a plug for a long period of time. It is not everyone's thing. Get used to it or stop doing it.

I don't know of hard-set rules for being a Sissy. You are creating your personal expectations. There is nothing wrong with altering them to be a little less harsh on yourself.

You should be comfortable and enjoying your identity choice. If you are not, it may be a hint to make some changes, allow yourself a bit of latitude.

Obviously a comfortable plug is key. I am also new to the biz plug game and have so far plugged my hole for max 2 hours. On Monday I took the plunge after a doctors visit with rectal exam to extend the feeling by plugging before going to work. Kept it in until going to bed.

I can relate to your feelings, I had some discomfort, feeling like cramping sphincter and drying lube. Yesterday I tried again, plugged at 8a and didn’t unplug (besides visiting the toilet) until today 8pm. Yesterday was already more comfortable but in situations where I was a bit tens I felt also a rather uncomfortable feeling in my ass.

What did the trick was sleeping plugged. This morning it felt like m plug belonged into my hole as a natural addition.

So, relax, lube up a lot and relax again. And enjoy!!!

Well I had an interesting 1st of October, the previous evening I had been experimenting with a smallish silicon plug.

Inserted it, but i LOST it...Panic stations...did a good b/m early in the morning, but i felt around and did know what

to do so waited.

Went up to E/D and was told to go up to the hospital, finally a Junior DR came with a box of things to look. My X-ray had

been negative...so she began searching with firstly a smaller light thing on a tube, still nothing got out the bigger longer

one and still couldn't locate the plug if it was still there... Told to go home and wait and see, now 3rd of October, nothing so

it must of gone out with the b/m...

I learnt a huge lesson for a 72 year old man.

I've tried to use a plug for hours in a row but it didn't work. I feel like pooping, when the plug is in the rectum. The other day I went to a supermarket using a plug, the feeling was that I needed to take it out of my anus, all the time. On the way back, as soon as I got in the car I took the plug out.

I had to try different models and types before i found those that i like.

First try, a cheap jelly (PVC) plug. Caused some burning sensations when used --> ended in the trash

Then came a latex slip with condom and anal dildo. The plug was constantly slipping out and caused discomfort. Was to big for the first anal toy. I removed the plug and used the slip so.

After this try, i bought a smaller suction plug with a very flexible base. That one tried to slip deeper into me and took a lot of concentration to prevent an embarassing situation at the medical center.

After some timout i found the "fun factory" "Bootie" products. They are now availabe in different sizes, made of medical silicon and a stable base. Since then my toy chest expanded to strapon dildos as those have a stable base. To prevent the slip out i need to put on some tight clothes - latex catsuit or lycra body - to enjoy the constant stimulation.

Inflatable plug and ballon made of latex joined the other toys.

To enjoy some vibrations i added a "Magic Wand" style one that i can press on the base of the different plugs.

I concur. Anything that is not high-quality silicone becomes much, much more uncomfortable over time. I think using lots of lube and even using a 'lube shooter' or syringe first is best but it's difficult since it tends to leak.

Hello Posters,

Try the PlusOne set. They’re each very comfortable (newbie to veteran), stay put and have a nice weight to them. You’ll be safe in pretty much any activity from golfing to har work to skiing…first hand knowledge. The set of three run $18 and they’re high quality.

Any questions feel free to message me.

Enjoy,

SF

Look up the b-Vibe Snug Plug. They offer many different sizes to work your way up. The only thing I don’t love about them is the thin neck — they don’t keep you very stretched open when wearing even the larger sizes. I’ve worn the snug plug size 4 for 24+ hours and it’s very comfortable. Coming out, it can be a bit painful as again it doesn’t keep the anus stretched very wide. The shape also transitions a bit abruptly from the full diameter down to the nose and the neck. They could be tapered a bit more, but they definitely offer a great sensation of fullness when inserted. I’d recommend sizing one down from your usual plug when getting your first one to see how you do with it. The exterior is silicone and fairly pliable, but quite firm. There’s not a whole lot of give like on some other (eg Bad Dragon, especially in softer compositions) products. They also work well for retaining enemas. I’ve gone out to a friends house with the size 4 holding 2L of coffee, which was quite exhilarating.

@SFBull I also have the plus one set and I wear the large one up to 48h. I feel I am ready for more so have ordered larger similar ones but with less of a handle as I feel the outside part of the plug to be uncomfortable at times. And I have ordered a topped toys gape keeper for long term wear.