Enemas, Medfet, BDSM, E-stim... do you get aroused talking about your kink?

@Assme

You should "open up" to your boyfriend... sounds like he is already receptive.... You could tell him you need some special help with something, and appear holding an enma bag filled and ready to go with your favorite nozzle! Or a bulb syringe, as a first step if you think the latter is too much... but risk it, and get fulfilled..😉

I like to be tied up and abused. Have my breasts and nipples tortured, and enjoy enemas, and stick things up my bum. Find myself excited by other girls' bare feet, show my own off shamelessly. Nope, nothing. Not exactly coffee break chat or something I would bring up at a site meeting either. It would be rude not to mention a tad strange for someone to have plopped in their ears. I share with those I am intimate with and like-minded people.

After some casual longing shared glances I have dropped off "I want to suck your toes, text me" notes. They usually pay out.

Talking about it definitely adds a lot of excitement!

I sure do get excited of talking about my fetishes.

@Assme, I agree with @Trebor45. Sounds like your boyfriend is very understanding and wouldn't judge you for any kink that he didn't share.

But also sounds like he is already very much in tune with you and telling him this last piece would only elevate your relationship.

Understandable that telling him this last part of your kink may be the hardest. No matter what you do, good luck and enjoy!

Absolutely. At times I find that the chat can be almost as arousing as the actual physical act. OOOOPS it just happened again !

@Assme like others have said you might want to have that conversation with your boyfriend. He seems open and receptive to trying new kinks the worst he will say no thanks. You might mention how nice it is to have everything cleaned out properly before play and see where it leads.

Remember your 1st solo enema ? I do because I was age 11. I was taking a shower and noticed Mom's translucent yellow enema bag hanging off the shower head. It had one of those rectal pipes on the end of the hose. I felt drawn too it and decided to try it out. After partially filling the bag I inserted the pipe and OH WHAT A FEELING !!! I NEVER LOOKED BACK AFTER THAT !!!

Funny, but no, even despite the fact someone can call me pervert. I like to demonstrate my deep knowledge of kinks, but it feels just like lecture in university, with little or no arousal ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I like to play with my patient. I also have a social circle to which I periodically show my patient, we discuss her and develop a new scenario for the examination!