Simultaneous orgasms - does that happen for you and your partner?

Amplifying my previous post, I don't think having simultaneous orgasms makes them any better. It did happen occasionally. But I didn't want the responsibility of holding off or speeding up to time orgasms at the same time. That kind of pressure takes away from the pleasure. If either of us came before the other we were there with them when the other got theirs - no matter how they or we did it.

When in a long term relationship I know we did many times, seems when I feel the hot flood of his cum it triggers mine, had a guy tell me that while in 69 he had two fingers in me and when he came I clamped down hard , so it seems it doesn't matter where a guy cums, it triggers my own .. 🐾

I’m very thankful having experienced it many times. First of all, it’s a very nice thing to experience the climax together and at the same time. Simultaneous orgasm is also the culmination of a shared feeling, a community. You only have this one feeling with your partner at this moment.

You don't have to leave a simultaneous orgasm to chance. But it takes practice. Remind me of younger years or one-night stands where you're mostly preoccupied with yourself. It wasn't clear and important to me then. In a longer relationship, however, high points that are experienced together occur much more frequently. On the one hand, this can be due to age, but on the other hand it can also be due to the fact that you know your partner better and are more attentive and perhaps also more appreciative of her or his feelings.

Some say sex just gets better over time. Achieving the climax together always includes paying attention to and responding not only to one's own feelings, but also to the needs of one's sex partner.