Simultaneous orgasms - does that happen for you and your partner?

When you have sex with your girlfriend ( boyfriend), are you able to orgasm at the same time ?

YES😃 Many years ago I used to be able to time it right once in a while to make that happen. When it did it was like nothing else I've ever experienced. For just a short period it was like being in another world.

We had gotten to that point over 4 years ago. But with my sub's health issues that doesn't happen.

Gosh do I miss that.

Yes! Timing, experience and a bit of luck is everything. I have found out that this is achieved a lot more easily during lesbian sex :-)

During sex, a gal I was going with would reach around and finger my butt causing me to cum in an instant. She did this whenever she had had enough or wanted us to simultaneously orgasm. Similarly, I did the same with her.

Some women (IMHO) fake orgasm about the same time their partner finishes to make their male partner feel studly!! Or simply to finishe up and get it over with if they are just fulfilling their marital duties. My wife used to clamp her legs around me and/or say something to encourage me to keep going after I ejaculated so she could get hers; and, when younger, I could sustain a erection for a while to help finish her off. I do remember some tremendous times we orgasmed at the same time, but if we didn't we kept going or found other ways to complete and satisfy the other. We almost always made sure we both got our rocks off!!

After thought to my previous post. Coming together is a nice coincidence - but not necessary.

@Lora_C made the statement or rule:

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When you fuck someone always – always take responsibility for you ‘getting yours’ and don’t leave it up to the one you are with to ‘do it for you’.

Good advice!!

Yes, it happens. When I'm about to climax and feel she's getting close as well, I control it so we climax at the same time - it's a nice bonding experience! Sometimes it's even the other way around when I feel she's getting close and I'm not yet, I speed up to achieve the same. Other than that it's not a big focus for me, I just take it as it comes. There are plenty of good options to ensure both climaxing separately.

Nope. I bring her to orgasm first, then proceed with mine.

I always give my partner two or three orgasms before I enter her. Usually she will have one or two more before I finish in her.

Sometimes but I’ve usually cum several times before he enters me

Yes. Often but not always, and it’s wonderful when it happens every time a pleasure.

Other times I bring her to an orgasm before coming inside her or we masturbate. But shared simultaneous orgasms are the best.

When I'm about to climax and feel she's getting close as well, I control it so we climax at the same time - it's a nice bonding experience!

@LittleDevil that is what my sub would do for me. Then we could cum together. It wasn't that often simultaneous, but when it was it was great.

Sometimes when my wife and I are masturbating together, or my secret buddy and I are masturbating together, we can achieve simultaneous orgasms. But, it is not the norm. In both situations, my partner and I are very vocal when we orgasm, and hearing them cum quite often sends me over the edge!

Quite often, when my secret buddy orgasms, he shoots his cum all over my penis as I'm stroking myself, and I use his cum as lube. The feeling of his cum on my penis is absolutely exquisite!

Yes, have no problem with that. I almost always try to bring her to the edge of orgasm with foreplay before I enter her and that usually leads to multiple orgasms for her and a very intense orgasm for me

Forty-five years ago, yes, with the most amazing lady who took me by the hand and showed me what ladies need. More recently it is my lady first and then, perhaps, me. BUT it is still SOOO good!

Well yes, but when we do this: I lie on my back, knees up. My husband is underneath my legs on his side and enters me (forming a sort of “tee” position). I will then apply my Hitachi Wand to my clitoris and it doesn't take me long to orgasm. My contractions set my husband off and he orgasms almost immediately. It's a win-win.

It's hard to be simultaneous. I used to have a gf who would keep asking me whether I came….just constantly repeating herself. I ended up completely losing my focus…and my hard on ! I think that the idea of being in sync with your partner, is more of a wish list thing, than a reality. If you're both enjoying each other, then who cares ? Even if you don't orgasm, at least you enjoyed it. Sex shouldn't be a contest.

Often.

It’s all about being with/harmony your lover. Perhaps a teensy bit of control is thrown in too.

Yes, but not always. Usually I delay mine as she can have a few belters before I finish the session off. But on occasions we do cum together. I agree with the “being in tune” with your lover sentiments expressed earlier. It is by no means automatic.

When I was younger, I came fairly quickly, and most women I had relationships with needed clitoral or sometimes g-spot stimulation to orgasm. So simultaneous orgasms were rare. So I always made sure to give my partner at least one orgasm with my mouth and/ or fingers before I entered her with my penis.

My wife can cum with oral or manual stimulation, but to be blunt, prefers to be fucked hard and fast with PIV. So, for years and years, we used to always cum together. Even if I went down on her and gave her one or two O's before sex, she could still cum again with me inside her.

Now, we're starting to get older and things aren't what they used to be. She's not nearly as wet, and I'm not nearly as hard. It now takes a lot more time and effort for me to orgasm, and she is just as quick as ever. So unfortunately, now we rarely cum together, but we do still have fun trying.

Great to read the posts here. So, when I came before my partner I'd feel like I wasn't pleasing her enough or sexy enough to get her off..

Great to read the posts here. So, when I came before my partner I'd feel like I wasn't pleasing her enough or sexy enough to get her off..

@reddevil I adopted the philosophy of being responsible for my own orgasm and not making my lover take on that responsibility. It takes the pressure to perform away and we can enjoy the sex for what it should be between friends and lovers. 🌹

Simultaneous orgasms are not the norm for us but they are absolutely incredible moments in our lives when the do happen to occur. I really enjoy experiencing her orgasm with the sight and sound of her ecstasy and feel of her convulsing vagina squeezing my penis, bringing me to climax shortly after hers. Should I orgasm before her, her orgasm will be the result of me fingering her or licking her.

During some mixed parties in the Far East, a couple of the ladyboys had total control of their ejaculations and could come at will. Sometimes 2 or 3 times in succession within a very short time. Simultaneous ejaculation was a matter of choice. They waited until their partner (boy or girl) came and they let loose at the same time.

My husband and I almost always orgasm at the same time. After all the years of him fucking me I am very aware of his specific behavior in the end game before he begins to ejaculate. My orgasm usually starts a second or so before he pushes in deep and stops moving as he begins ejaculating. If I am being fucked by someone other than my husband, I am much less likely to orgasm when he spurts.

Dita

It seems a strange thing,but yes, whoever I am with, I seem to cum at the same time as they do. Maybe because we’re both at it, and the release seems to depend upon the other achieving orgasm that triggers my own.

Ah yes, those were the days….

Many times.

Orgasm at the same time has always been my goal during sex. I generally can't hold back anymore when she starts to “hit the high note”, and when she reaches climax, I almost always shoot the sauce, no matter if I'm inside her or anywhere close. It's a huge turn-on for me…