Orgasms in age play

I'm curious how other age players incorporate genital stimulation/orgasm into their play, or if they do at all. I'm definitely a sexual age player, but also like to feel embarrassment and naughtiness around "private parts" when I'm in that headspace (of course, not generally), which means I like to experience these things much differently than I do when I'm not “playing”. A couple of examples are being masturbated over a lap as part of a spanking, perhaps while being scolded, or by a nurse or doctor as part of an intimate exam.

Hey, there. I am new but am very into age play and I also read your post in the asexual thread.

For me, I am a sexual age player as well. Some of this will be a little off of the specific topic, so I hope that is okay. Firstly, I particularly seek intimate relationships which are based on age play. Within those I am open to being played with (masturbated), while in that headspace, but would not be comfortable being the active partner with someone else. As in doing something sexual to them. I tend to be very passive sexually, and would be more comfortable in a kink-only relationship than a sexual one. It is also very possible that I would masturbate on my own after a spanking or an enema or something along those lines. As in following something stimulating but not strictly sexual.

When I'm engaging in diaper play, I really love being made to orgasm during a diaper change. Erections happen often when I'm being cleaned with wipes, when my temperature is taken rectally, or when powder is rubbed in. It's _so_ nice when my caregiver makes that erection go away 😉

In my mind, giving or receiving handjobs is not really sexual. It's just a nice form of intimacy one can share among friends.

I like incorporating this, some of the ideas is

Being masturbated “so you can sleep better “ or “because you’re such a good boy “.

Or the caregiver experimenting on me whenever he/she wants, whether I like it or not - maybe until my poor peepee is soar and red and I cry because it stopped being pleasant long ago.

Or the caregiver instructing/coaching me to masturbate.

Or laying with my head in caregiver’s lap, being bottle fed while putting my hand into the wet diaper and masturbates. Maybe while being comforted after a spanking that made me cry for mercy.