Just entered a d/s relationship!

The other day I was with my partner who I hadn't seen in a while. We had been having a good time and it ended up with them sat on my lap with them looking down at me. At some point the realisation that we had been sliding into a dominant and submissive relationship without realising happened which was exciting and slightly jarring. Deciding to talk about it the next day as it was late we went to sleep. Next day we spent hours looking into having a non sexual kink relationship as they're a sex repulsed ace and I identify as aegosexual.

We now have a shared document with body boundaries, affection boundaries, specific types of touch boundaries, what allowed and whats not within our powerplay, things we'd like to try and things to talk about section. This makes me so happy and we spent so long making sure that it was detailed enough with both soft and hard boundaries labelled.

I mostly just wanted to share because I'm so happy and ask if there's anything we may have missed? This is our first time in this kind of dynamic so I thought I'd ask more experienced people!

aegosexual

Not come across this term before so had to google the definition.

Does this mean you do not enjoy sex?

If you look at my profile you may realise why I am interested in learning more. X

@Secret_sub yes. When translated from the Latin it means sex without self. I masturbate, consume erotic media and have fantasies but the thought of actually having sex with someone else is no interest of mine. Dw about not knowing it, it falls under the asexuality umbrella and it took quite a while to find it!

Thank you. This might explain a thing or two. Have you always felt like that?

@Secret_sub yes however it took a long time to work out thats what I felt. It could also be to do with childhood trauma but either way that's how I now happily identify😃