Daddies are hard to find

I'm new here and i've been wondering in general, we have a lot of mommies, but what about those who want daddies? where are they hiding?

Uhh what are you talkin about man? its almost all guys who are dominant, i dont even know of one mommie here but there are a few dommy daddys just look around the site youll fnd em

Most Dommy Mommies tend to be either wives or gf's playing the role or professional dominatrices. While still straight, the fear of a Daddy taking me is very inticing and sexually naughty to me.

I understand what they mean, except I see a lot of people looking for mommys. I don't see many looking for little girls. Maybe I'm not looking in the right place or not looking hard enough. I'd love a cyber daddy though.

Daddies are difficult to find because the 'vocal' majority of males with an interest in diapers wish to be on the receiving end. Those who are willing to give often desire to wear diapers while they play the dominant role, which for many creates conflict within the power exchange. A top in diapers is not a very convincing top - but that's my take.

I do agree with xDx to the extent that a classic D/s Daddy/daughter dynamic is in play. It is possible for Daddy to wear, though, without his ab girl knowing. But a Daddy who wets and soils is going to lack credibility -- especially if potty-training or reward/punishment treatment is called for.

I am a straight adult baby girl Daddy/adult toddler diaperboy switch. I have never found a Mommy in over twenty-five years of trying. I found an adult baby girl readily once I began searching in earnest somewhat recently. In my searching, I see many more available Daddies than Mommies. Just my experience.

I love being a Daddy. It warms my heart and excites me like nothing else. I find I need it as much as my ab girl does. I love it.

It's an interesting subject. I think I can say with confidence that I identify as a 'daddy-dom' in that I want to ageplay with a little but also to do things like discipline and punishment depending on the scene being played out.

That said, I am also a diaper fetishist. That is to say, I get sexual pleasure from wearing and enjoy wearing from time to time. I am thoroughly convinced the two scenes should never meet unless there is a desire in the sub to switch (I'd make a rubbish submissive as I'd try to 'top from bellow'). I definitely do not want a 'mommy' nor do I want to wear with a little or wear whilst playing daddy/dom (in fact, I wouldn't be able to). For me, it's a solo activity. My desire to wear diminishes substantially when I am talking to and playing with littles, even if it's just online.

If this is anything like the BDSM scene, I have found that in order of decreasing abundance of people with profiles on websites: male subs, female subs, male Doms, female Dommmes... I would not be surprised if it is the same in diaper/age play: baby boys, baby girls, Daddys, Mommies. Its just the way it is. Always more men here than women, and thus the abundance of male subs. As for finding daddys, mommies etc. I would also say that men are far less choosy than women are.

as for "real" yep many people want to pretend but wont actually meet or commit.

Anyway... hope everyone finds what they are looking for!

I've noticed more daddies but It's hard finding local ones

I agree that Daddies are hard to find. I'm a baby girl and have had a daddy in the past but I found that he also wanted to switch and be little too. Its kinda hard when that happens cuz I always thought of him as just daddy. I know the idea I have in my head of how I want my daddy but haven't been able to find a daddy. Plus it seems like there are more guys want to be little and more mommies out there than daddies. I also know I wouldn't be able to slip into the role of mommy cuz I am definitely more of a sub than ever being able to be a domme.

I'm a DL Daddy and IMO I find Daddies to be more like a dime a dozen and baby girls are just impossible to find.

Cvbaby, if you write me with some ideas for a fantasy I would like to consider an on going story with each of us submitting sequential segments. I'm really afraid that I might say or do something which you don't like so please try to expand your likes and dislikes on your profile or in a pm.

Hi - just read your post - and would love to be your daddy if you would like me to be and would enjoy your little girlish needs and help you to understand and enjoy the pleasure of being treated like a princess with frilly outfits and - hmmm all things - thank you and hope to hear from you sometime hope this gets through as like you i don' have enough points either - but if we watch out for each other we might be able to help as you seem to beautifully wonderful and into the same fun as me meantime take care of yourself and be wonderful IanC

I am a real daddy . but i tell you it's hard for an older man to fine a younger lady that wants to play with an older men .

@cvbaby: Hello. I am grateful for your posts. Your contributions are worthwhile. Glad you're here.

I just wanted to address a point you made regarding Mommies and Daddies. The comment that follows is not in any way a criticism of you; it is merely an observation you might find helpful -- perhaps even liberating. I hope what follows makes sense. My comments are directed to ab/dl men and Mommies, but they apply with equal force and vigor to other relations and dynamics, including those between ab/dl women and Daddies.

Being a Mommy to an adult-baby boy or male diaper-lover can (and in certain cases should) have absolutely nothing to do with dominance or submission. I have repeatedly encountered, without my consent and much to my sorrowful disadvantagement, a prevalent misconception amongst women, sometimes unfortunately translated into mistreatment, that a man who wants to be diapered must be a slave, a masochist, a submissive, or a bottom. Sometimes, that causes major problems for those of us diapered fellows who want, au fond, truly nurturing and purely erotic diapering simpliciter from a Mommy. (I have enjoyed some forms of submissive diaperplay -- especially diaper-pail play -- but those are adscititious to my diaper fetish and to my being at heart an adult-toddler and diaper-lover. Being a submissive adult diaperboy for a Dommy Mommy has its moments, but it is worlds away from the fons et origo of my diaper fetish, the primacy of which I would never allow any woman to try to displace -- and especially not forcibly.) Speaking strictly personally, being diapered by a truly loving Mommy would be for me a transformative identifactive, therapeutic, and peak experience -- not just erotically, but emotionally and spiritually. It would be the fulfillment of my deepest need and my lifelong dream. That does not mean I would find it the only means of intimacy. It would be ultimately satisfying, but so would be being a Daddy and diapering the woman I loved, and so would be making love as equal partners, seeking that unique union and special synergy that soulmates share in romantic love. In my nearly thirty years of experience, I have discovered that though Dommy Mommies are legion, the nurturing Mommy is not only a rara avis but probably a fata morgana. (I hold out hope despite all evidence to the contrary.) So please know that a woman can diaper a man without punishment, pain, humiliation, insertion, spanking, or other behaviors or treatments a Mistress, a sadist, a Dommy Mommy, or a top woman might inflict. One doesn't have to be a Domme to be a diaper Mommy. Perhaps, in that light, you might view being a diaper Mommy differently -- say if you have latent (or patent) maternal instincts and love the idea of being nurturing, but don't enjoy the idea of being dominant. Perhaps not. It's just an observation.

Switches can make excellent Daddies, but it's fine if an ab/dl woman is not comfortable being a Mommy. I understand that; I respect that; and I honor that. I just wanted you to hear from an adult-toddler and lifelong diaper-lover who has always sought, alpha and omega, a committed, long-term, monogamous romantic relationship with a woman that includes, but by no means is limited to, her being a truly loving Mommy who will change my wet, messy diapers in a nurturing way and who will enjoy stimulating and caring for me during diaper-change; and, if she desires, my being her nurturing (or, if it is healthy for her, her Dominant) Daddy who will enjoy changing her wet, messy diapers in a nurturing, caring, and stimulating way. I love being a Daddy to adult-baby and adult-toddler girls and to adult female diaper-lovers. I also enjoy being a Dominant Daddy to adult female diapersubs (and occasionally, in a secondary way, being a submissive adult diaperboy to a Dommy Mommy), but only in a relationship built on mutual trust, respect, affection, and love. Just one man's perspective.

I mean to respond helpfully to what you wrote and not to hijack this or any other thread. Sorry this post is so long. I hope what I've written is in some wise inspiring. Feel free to write me privately should you wish to do so. I am always happy to be a diaper Daddy to, for, and with the right adult woman. I will always want and need a diaper Mommy, but being a Daddy is eminently satisfying, enriching, and fulfilling in se. I wish you and all diapered men and women all the best. May all our dreams come true. Peace and love.

P.S.: I just gave you your first karma point. Hope you receive many more. -- df

Anybody looking for a Daddy should post in the classifieds. I am certain they will get a choice of Daddies anxious to take care of them.

Lots of "daddies" around, just hard to find the right one! Keep trying! It will be worth the search when it happens for you

Yes I do agree that the right daddy is hard to find,but when you find him(and I think I have)it is well worth the wait,

I have found thru my experience that the Daddy thing is not for me, I find it very distracting.

Oddly (?) In my area, daddies or partners of any kind are difficult to find. I find that a lot of men younger than I are receptive to the idea but that isn't something I'm interested in for any kind of play.

Some into BDSM can become famliar and help with your lil' fantasies. It's happened with my thoughts. As I read more about little girl fantasies, my caretaking tendencies come out. Which is interesting, because I so enjoy a spanking bare female bottom.

In smaller towns, it can be harder to connect. So you might look a little wider, and travel to visit or move.

Not hiding been here all along you just havent look hard enough ill be your daddy if you want

VERY hard. But im not going to give up or give in to being "normal". HOW boring is normal. Ewwww! Actually ive been looking for more a husband/wife that might be interested in hosting a little...which makes my search even harder. Not to many mommies want a little in HER space. But there are a few..so i;ll just keep lookin. 😃

I have recently discovered that I really enjoy being a Daddy.

It's difficult to find daughters too. I am not into "little" play but would love to find a young lady who is capable of playing a 10-14 year old at times and is a good, submissive woman the rest of the time. Thought I might have found someone close to me once in another site but she never responded. Ah, the search goes on...☺

As you can see by my s/n I AM enema daddy. I have played many, many times with women who like to be "daddy's little girl" for a while and be loved, pampered, bathed, spanked and of course, rectal temps and enemas. being a strict but loving daddy comes natural to me as I have very nurturing instinct and love to talk to my "little girl" in the 3rd person. eg: "now angel, I know that you are not a bad girl but sometimes daddy's good girl acts naughty and needs a spanking but always remember, daddy loves you"

what depresses me lately is in modern society everyone seems so damn AFRAID and suspicious of everyone else. common sense procedures like chatting on line first, then by phone, then meeting in a safe, public place before intimate play together should be enough to assure both party's safety. I have also found so much dishonesty on line (men pretending to be female) that I will only "chat" for a short time before talking by phone. bottom line is, I refuse to act too afraid to live but I find that I am increasingly alone and have pretty much given up although I am open to real possibilities should they present themselves. honesty and common sense should prevail.

I'm a daddy...

Hello sort of New here but I'm a Daddy

I am Gay and prefer the connection of another male... For men, daddies are even harder to find :-(

I am a Daddy by instinct. For me that means a combination of control and discipline, with care and development. My MedFet interests merge into that and are inseparable. That is quite natural to me. Sometimes there is a focus on 'domestic' and sometimes more on 'clinical' but that transition should be natural and seamless.