What is your Spanking/Corporal Punishment turn on?

I have two things that massively turn me on. The first is photos of clothed women sitting down and pointing to their lap with bare or pantyhose clad legs. If there happens to be a flash of knicker, so much the better.

Although I'm straight, the second is the idea of being in a headmasters study, being ordered to either drop or remove my trousers and underwear, and going over his desk for the cane.

Any comments, what's yours ?

My avatar 😃!!!

Losing all my control being firmly held in place for spankings very hard and long, with no mercy, lasting till well after i can no longer beg or pleas understandably, as in my avatar. Unfortunately, it will not happen BUT my wife has been doing a good job of spanking me with “My Vermont bath brush” 😃!

I couldn't agree more regarding the images of a female preparing her lap for the spanking she is about to give. I would add hearing her demand. Pull down your pants now!

I consider myself fortunate that I have many, near limitless, things related to Corporal Punishment that ring bells.

The one that jumped out at me though when I read the question is the memory of mom saying we'd have to deal with something at bed time.

After my bath, I'd be in bed, in PJs, trying to read a book and listening, watching, for mom in the hall. Sure enough, she'd arrive, come and sit on the side of the bed and review with me what she'd promised would be dealt with at bed time. She'd never be angry. Quiet, firm, no nonsense as she told me how disappointed she was and how sorry she was but I needed a lesson. She'd ask if I knew I needed a lesson, I'd nod and she'd say, “Alright, I'll go and get the spanking brush and be right back,” or, worse, “Alright, I'm going to go and get the strap for you.” I don't know what was worse watching her walk out of my room to go and get a dreaded instrument of correction from her room, or seeing her come back into my room holding it saying. “time to get ready for your spanking Tommy. Please stand up,” or, “Push the covers aside and roll over for the strap now Tommy.”

I couldn't agree more regarding the images of a female preparing her lap for the spanking she is about to give. I would add hearing her demand. Pull down your pants now!

Nothing better in my book…

Being asked “do you want me to use the belt on your ass?” or “would you like to lay across my lap?”

For me it is far more complicated

Being “ told off for a miss deed , because I know I let someone down. ( hate letting people down)

Corner time, esp if this is with skirt tucked into waistband and knickers at knee height. Or troussers and knickers at knee height

The humiliation of knowing he is watching me, and commenting on how my misdeeds affects him and how my body is betraying me.

Than being told to bend over and hold onto my ankles as he comes and stands close behind me.

That hand , resting on my buttocks before that first slap.

So for me the turn on is not so much the physical pain. It is the process leading up to it that arouses me most

Love the mental image of your knickers at knee high 😄

It was the whole situation. I felt I was always in one of two states, recently spanked or soon to be spanked. It was never far away when I was home there was the paddle hanging on the kitchen tool wall or the hairbrush all was on the nightstand in the bedroom. When we were out together a little squeeze of my butt would give me a thrill, so would a lot of other seemingly innocuous little things. Being spanked was never completely out of my mind.

When the spankee has to stand in front of the spanker while the spanker takes down their pants and underwear. You get a nice eyeful of what the spankee got going on in the front and it adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

I am not at all interested in the BSDM thing, pain sex or ANY of that sort of thing. However, a gentle, light, bare-ass spanking given by a stern, knowing and mature woman, one of her hands doing the spanking and the other hand administering a hand job in front would really be a fun fantasy for me. If this should ever happen, I wouldn't hate it!

When the spankee has to stand in front of the spanker while the spanker takes down their pants and underwear. You get a nice eyeful of what the spankee got going on in the front and it adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

Eye contact is so important when it comes to spanking role play to remind the spankee that the spanker is in control of this whole situation/scenario 💗

I like a good spanking, I don’t want intense spankings but slow methodical start out hand being very verbal ,move to a leather paddle again not to intense but turn my butt bright red with lots of verbal involved,ultimately I want the spanker to be in control and let them decide how things go

Being spanked by a big buxom woman with a slipper on my bare bottom

Being treated like a naughty schoolboy sent to the headmistress for the cane

Again as in my avatar but it is the humility of being spanked by a woman with another woman helping hold me in place!

Would really want it to happen with other women and my wife watching and cheering them on to spank me harder and longer! I think the first time I would HATE IT!

BUT I would soon want, need and even beg for spankings like this often, VERY OFTEN😃

When the spankee has to stand in front of the spanker while the spanker takes down their pants and underwear. You get a nice eyeful of what the spankee got going on in the front and it adds that extra flavor of embarrassment😘

This might be the hottest and most interesting way I've ever heard this expressed. I spent 30 minutes talking to ChatGPT about it, and registered for this forum just to say as much. You must be one fascinating character to get to know..

@Real_Screamer Sounds more like a story your enemate made up.

I recently discussed with a submissive lady I know well how she is massively aroused when a gentleman spanker unbuttons his shirts cuff and rolls up his sleeves before spanking her. ...it is these little nuances that make us all so different.

For me, it's the reach back to cover her stinging butt when the swats really start to bite, and the panties around the knees or ankles, stretched out between flailing legs. I also love the visual of the twisting and struggle while OTK. Those three visuals are what do it for me.

As to your second idea @AS11 Been there, done that, a few times. Not my idea of fun. Headmaster was a sadist I think.

Now if I am doing the discipling, that's a whole other ballgame.

Having a penitent ( or not ) bottom on display for my attention. That really turns me on. The lifting of the dress, or pulling down the pants followed by removal of knickers to bare the trembling bottom.

For me,it is when she makes me stand in front of her and she unbuckles MY black leather belt and pulls the heavy belt through loops of my pants. Holding the buckle in her hand, she wraps the belt around her hand, leaving about 18 inches hanging loose. Next she demands me to remove my pants and underwear and bend over the back of the couch.

@AzureJuniperNYC Did it happen that your male spankees were erect? (I guess with females one cannot see excitement so easily…)

In real life I have always just been the spanker... and have had the pleasure of spanking many lovely pairs of female bare bum cheeks over my knee... but the thought of being spanked by an attractive woman (not a sexual partner, but a woman I undeniably find attractive) and have to stand in front of her, looking at her sexy skirted lap, legs and heels, as she scolds me, sensing the firm, no-nonsense tone in her voice, as she commands me to "pull down your pants"... I can not imagine how toe-curling embarrassing this is going to be (bare bottomed over her lap! she perhaps smirking and relishing in my discomfort, but determined to spank me soundly and have me kicking and howling over her knee... how will I ever be able to look her in her pretty face and in her pretty eyes ever again without both of us 'knowing' how she soundly spanked my bare ass to her delight that one time!... YIKES!!!)...(she will ALWAYS have that one up on me and neither of us will ever forget it.. and I will NEVER get to see her naked even though I so want to!!!)

I'm not saying she's the hottest woman on the planet, but when I see a determined, non-nonsense woman like Nikki Haley.. who is no doubt attractive, and fills out a skirt very nicely.. and sits in a chair so confidently and authoritatively with her long legs and high heels.... I can just imagine having to pull my pants down in front of her and go over her lap... and fantasize she's spanking me in front of several very attractive females... some a good 10 or 20 years younger than me... EMBARRASSING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (where do I sign up?)

Mthhiker ME TOO!!!!

Perhaps as much as once a month😃

OUCH!

@AS11

Although I'm straight, the second is the idea of being in a headmasters study, being ordered to either drop or remove my trousers and underwear, and going over his desk for the cane.

Same here, minus the clothes removal.

I was threatened with the cane at school from a fairly early age, but never actually got it, and despite my considerable adult experience, I still wonder exactly what it would have been like to bend over my HM's desk to get six of the best across the seat of my trousers.

My bottom's wriggling in my chair just thinking of it...

I mean, EVERY aspect of it is a turn on for me. I absolutely love all of it.

My favorite element of it though is the anticipation. From the moment of being told I’m going to get it, and all of the ritual and preparation I have to go through right up to the point where I am in position waiting for the first strike. Past that point, it becomes about being as submissive as I can and taking my punishment with grace like a good girl.

I am particularly attuned to the idea of acknowledging or being made to acknowledge that whatever is about to happen to me, is happening to me, or just happened to me was deserved. I have a very strong reaction to the word “punishment” in general and it will even make me turn my head when it’s used in normal conversation.

Pre-spanking it would be seeing stockings and garters or pantyhose covered legs on the lap/knee you were going over. A blouse partially open to see part of the bra, or no bra on. If spanked over the lap i was erect by swat 5.

Being told to bend over and then having my pants/panties pulled down. The whole preparation aspect, the waiting for the first blow to land. That whole anticipa ———- tion thing.

I love a good, hard spanking on the bottom from my husband because it feels good and arouses me because it is in a sensitive sexual part of my body. I wouldn't want to be hit anywhere else as it that wouldn't be sexual and would just be violent.

The favourite position is of course over the knee bare bottom with his hand coming down. I like the feel of his palm ✋ on my bottom it a intimate feeling of skin touching skin.

I have mostly relied on spanking illustrations that fed my imaginations. The depiction of a fully clothed older woman, Stern faced, Smirking, even a Nun, aka, the industrial matron, dowager, Governess, and not a sexual fantasy, but a power to face. Her dressed form, controlling the naked form of a young man, and his submission framed as he is pinioned, "ass up" over her knee, feet flying, palms flat on the floor. She looks down her nose; arrogant, pleased, yet so full of a contained, directed, sanctimonious outrage who's remedy, who's direction is served, with the flat of her hand snapping flatly, briskly across his upturned posterior. Nothing brutal. No cuts of the cane, no weal's of the strap, just the meaty flat of the hand slapping the same spot over and over. The unknown. Enough sting to be "stinging" and yet no idea of when this lesson of such high calling will end.

She lectures, she scolds, she questions, while that forearm and hand stay busy indifferent to the cadence of her speech and the reactions of a young man who is being undone, slap after slap, minute by minute. From initial kicking, to other muted struggles, and then towards being conquered, despite the redness of his masculine posterior it is still slapped. Crisply, sharply, with the same purpose as the first slap. Now, thighs spread in surrender, emphasizing, his diminutive presentation as his posterior rolled up and out for this rodeo looks even more helpless more proffered. She smirks and smiles in the lush feeling of her control, feeling a full fledged throbbing erection wedged against her thigh.

Now it's only a matter of minutes.

Ok I guess that does it for me.