How Could a Person NOT Discover Anal Pleasure?

My first orgasm was an anal orgasm. I was washing it and it felt really good and I just kept doing it until I felt one of the most amazing sensations I ever felt. Most of my early orgasms were anal ones until I found out that “men jerk off” and then I stopped doing it for awhile.

One of my girlfriends while giving me a blowjob started licking my balls and grazed me with her tongue. Though I'd played with my asshole before, the surprise and the way her tongue felt made me cum on the spot. It was really awkward.

She was pretty cool about it though, she wanted to try it too. I honestly was pretty grossed out, but she did it to me, right?

@Strategierist, the first time a guy asked me to return the favor was really off-putting to me too. It was really empowering though when I found I could make him cum without even jerking him off.

BTW: I only knew one other person who's first orgasms were anal ones.

Ah ah!! It's like a man who don't believe that women can't have orgasm!!

I never feel pleasure with my anus, I tried sometimes, and fantasize about anal sex, I have feeling about my sphincter contraction during orgasm, but feeling that at my anus.

I suppose it's about psychology problem and stuff..

Its also about the fact that wike people think of people as being like a car and mass produced we aren't. We are similar in many ways but every person is unique and different. You can't say something g works for everyone beyond d stuff like eating being good if you're hungry.