Crying during a spanking

I think the process of getting the person ready for the spanking is really more arousing. Making them strip in front of you and assume a on all fours position. In this position the entire body is exposed

When I do hear crying happen during a spanking I am giving it usually causes me to spank a bit harder and faster to make that crying warranted!

Hi BottomFromTheTop,

Like you when I was younger before I hit puberty being nude or partially nude in front of siblings, cousins, relatives, etc.... was no big deal! As small children we would, on warm days, in the garden and in and around a swimming pool, have no clothes on; so nudity/semi-nudity was something we were use to! As we got older and I think I can speak for others as well, being nude or partially nude became something that was embarrassing and humiliating! Also getting erections started to become an issue though my Mom, Dad, Aunt Rose, Uncle Frank and most other adults all were and seemed very relaxed and laid back about this! Other kids, especially the girls found it very amusing! The spanking itself of course dampened down any sexual ardour with my penis returning to its normal size; only for it to increase in size when the bonfire on my backside had cooled down and become a more bearable heat! Once alone in my bedroom I would masturbate and in doing so derive some pleasure from an otherwise thoroughly unpleasant experience!

IMO it's all emotional. I've gotten spankings that bruised a little and hurt so badly but been stubborn and not cried, and I've cried from hand spankings to light pink. To me tears come when I am genuinely disappointed in myself and my actions, when I feel guilty, when I know I disappointed my mom, and when I accept the punishment. If I am defiant or resistant you can burn my butt for an hour and it won't happen. So if you want to cry my best advice is to be in a close relationship with someone where you experience those feelings.

Or get spanked on your cycle (ifykyk lmao).

IMO it's all emotional.

Agree with @cherryblossombottom , it’s an emotional release vs physical. We can endure a lot physically, our emotions are more sensitive.

I cried from spankings when I was a child. One was especially formative in that it left me sort of shivering and having small orgasms although I didn't realize what they were at the time. I've always wanted to re-create that one that was given by my father, he was very loving, but certainly strict. I got very few spankings from him and this is the only one that was like this.

My brother was very stubborn and I heard a spanking. He gave my brother through the door. I remember him lecturing him telling him that this was for acting up somewhere and it seems to go on forever. I remember he was yelling in the next day, he was slightly bruised.

there was one more he got when we were in a place where he told us both to be still and not move. My brother got up and walked around and openly defied him. He came in and spanked him over his knee with a piece of trim board and he was screaming at the end.

I always wanted to be my brother in that scene. Please be assured that none of us were hurt seriously but he did make sure that we got the message.

Today, I get a fair number of spankings and every once in a while, we agree that I need one that's a punishment and more serious.

My friend understands this and usually uses a heavy paddle and a CaniLac Wangee cane or a Dragon cane. She can spank very hard and keeps it up until I am seriously crying. (I sometimes start crying before she starts the spanking. she stands by me and asked me if I know why I'm getting it and then lectures me. She also lets me say something, which is always about being contrite. I lie on a dresser with a large pillow underneath my hips and grab the edge.

These spankings seem to go on forever, but somehow I always want them to restart after she's finished despite the fact that I'm doing anything I can to beg her to stop.

I would like to be able to cry more because it is so beneficial.

I'm afraid I got off topic here and wasn't answering your question.

I think someone else said this – the emotion is key to being able to cry. I have found that when she sits with me and talks with me about what I have done that I may start to cry a little before she does anything else.

I read from one Guy years ago that the best way to get a woman that he was with the spank was to overload her capacity to process. So it was a question of how fast he spanked as much as how hard he spanked he thought it had to be hard and fast. Almost like creating a shock and never letting her recover.

I'm not sure if that's helpful or not, but for me, the emotional part is important to get me started down the path of crying. I have to have a reason to cry and I don't think pain alone will do it.

But, I also think that I really hard and fast session with the cane could start me crying if she were scolding me.

Hope that's helpful

It definitely happens that I cry when I get spanked. Not every single time, but most spankings end up with me whining and crying.

It definitely happens that I cry when I get spanked. Not every single time, but most spankings end up with me whining and crying.

If it is a " punishment - spanking ", that will be a normal reaction !!

What works for me is getting a very harsh lecture before the spanking....to the point where I am broken down emotionally and am on the verge of tears before the spanking begins. Then when I feel the physical pain from the spanking it pushes me over the edge to cry.

Recently, I had a spanking that brought me to tears. First of all, I felt really bad about how I was misbehaving and not being a good girl for my Daddy. I admitted to him what I had done wrong and basically asked for my punishment, just so I could get it over with and be back in his good graces again. My Daddy had dealt with this issue with me before, so he was upset and disappointed in me.

It's worth mentioning that for some time, I had expressed to my Daddy a desire for him to spank me until I cried. I'm pretty sure that my need to do this is partly rooted in my childhood experiences, I like the way that it feels- both the pain and how it makes me feel like a little girl, and also because it's just hot and sexy. Though he has given me many spankings, none of them have brought me to tears, even when he used various implements and left marks.

As I was on my way to see him and get my punishment spanking, I was actually really nervous about it and I secretly wanted to show up and have him decide to give me a loving session instead. When I got there, he called me by my first and middle name and told me to go stand in the corner. After he sat down, he ordered me to take down my panties, pull up my dress, and get across his lap. He gave me the most serious spanking that he has ever given me. Usually, he would give me some kind of a break, but not this time. He spanked my whole butt and upper thighs really thoroughly. Then he asked me to reach in my bag and hand him my wooden paddle, which he used and then had me count down the final five swats. It was really painful, but I never wanted him to stop.

After the spanking was over, he ordered me into the bathroom for an enema. As I stood there watching him get the bowl of water ready for a bulb enema, that's when the tears came. I felt so bad that I had disappointed my Daddy and also so embarrassed that he had to give me a real spanking, I couldn't help it but put my head in my hands and finally cry. It's worth noting that the bulb enema was amazing and we also had anal sex while Inwas holding the water. My Daddy cares about me a lot, and it is just a powerful realization at times for me. My bottom also really hurt too, it actually left marks and bruises which I enjoyed watching heal over the next few days.

After my punishment was over, I loved how he took care of me. I laid next to him with my head in my lap while he told me how special that I am to him. I loved it how just like when I was a kid, everything started over new after my spanking was done. It just all made me feel amazing and reset me, I've actually felt really good since my punishment.

@Allie80 I've longed for an experience like that for a long time, you are a very lucky girl, congratulations and yay for more happy kinky chosen families 😄

@Allie80, thank you for sharing your erotic spanking experience. The fact that it led to a flood of tears speaks to how deeply it affected you.. This is well beyond what is know as sub-space, but harkens back to early experiences you had. I was very taken by your tale. Thanks again for sharing such a personal happening