Assisted Changing, who changes your diaper/nappies do you have a care giver?

I first came across this subject last year and this is my honourest response.

At the moment as of now no-body assists me changing myself in and out of diapers/nappies as the last time that happened was when I was 6-9 years of age,

However I am thinking more about that because my incontinance problems aren’t going away and eventually at some point in my future there will come a time when I will once more need to be in diapers 24/7 in the near future,

And this would mean I would need to get a care giver to look after my needs should I need to go down that path in the future which is likely to happen later in my life.

Should this happen then yes I would need to be assisted as I find it difficult by myself and probebebly would need to be ready to regress back to a toddler like state at least physically speaking.

And all of this coming from someone who will be 41 as of October 2021, and this from someone who didn’t see this coming unti a decade ago in 2010 when I turned 30 and became partially incontinent.

As this was when my body kind of forced me to adapt to a new or old way of life depending on how you look at it.

I think in another decade or two let's say when I am in my 50's or 60's I might well become fully regressed both Physically and mentally to the point where I will literally by back at square one and once more be back to the stage I was when I was a little child or back before the age of 6–9 and a half, when I stopped wearing diapers,

however speaking of my early childhood on a personal note I was toilet trained at the age of 4 years of age but had to wear diapers due to bed wetting accidents, until I was nearly 10 years of age, see my earlier replies for more details.

However look at it I think its a no brainer as they say that I will become like a baby/infant again with all that that entails because I know it going to happen its not if but when and is only a matter of time relitively speaking and I will be ready for it when it happens.

And when it does I would have gone full circle so to speak of quite literally.

HYes i have full time Aides .

Here to do all the things in a “normal” day that a high function “quad” can not do like diapers,cathters,laundry ,sweeping,mopping ,bathing me ,assisting with meals and feeding etc .

They will do anything I reasonably request or need done because I can't.

They have job security ,living wages & a job that isn't intense and full time ,meaning there's plenty of recreation built into job like having coffee or watching movies ,yes there's work however plenty of standby, supportive and “playtime” .

For most people if you can run your own life and household ,you can do mine with a liberal sprinkling of medications, cathters and diaper changes thrown in..for people with the right personality ,a thick skin and plenty of humor ( I am the king of sarcastic, sparky one liners ) there are alot worse ways to make $22 an hour .

For me I treat my Aides like family because the only person in the world that knows you as well or better than yourself is your aide . After a few months they know you and your routines better than you do ,and can know when your going to be thirsty,hungry.messy etc… before you are and are prepared to fix that when you realize it .

I do for the most part. My home health nurse comes once a day through the week and helps me with my coloclense system thingy and once that has stopped draining, she will check to see if I have any more poop left in me manually. If not, she changes gloves, helps me on my back and catheterize me just to make sure my bladder is completely empty. If it is, she will get my meds together while I bathe. I lie down and she spreads my labia and makes sure every part of me is covered in diaper rash cream, powders me, secures my diaper and goes about her merry way.

Otherwise I do it all.

For past several years since my wife and I started living together and she and her daughter moved in with me, she has been changing my diapers most of the time. That typically means once in the morning when we awake and finish our coffee, again in the late afternoon, and finally in the evening before we go to bed. I'm a confirmed lover of wearing cloth diapers and rubber pants only, no disposables and part of our agreement is that I'm responsible for doing all the diaper laundry, which seems only fair, given how much I love when she changes my diapers. It reminds me so much of when I was a kid, wet my bed and my mother would diaper me every night until I finally stopped wetting my bed. I was 17 when that happened and by that time, I had become sexually aroused when I was diapered, often having erections while my mother diapered me, and would masturbate at night after she left my room and again in the morning when my diapers were wet and I'd get so aroused I had to relief myself before she came in to change me and help me get ready for school. So now when my wife changes me I have much the same reactions and become very aroused, my pee-pee gets quite hard when she cleans me with baby wipes, powders me and pins a fresh diaper on. I feel so naughty and childish knowing I'm going to go potty in my diapers soon, and have to touch myself, even at my age.

My mom, girlfriend and aid change me

All diaper changes are done myself unfortunately, I'm not sure if I would want someone else to do it. I pretty particular about my fit and how it's done to my standards. Sometimes I can't get the fit I want doing it myself. Diaper changes aren't the easiest thing to do yourself at times.

I change my own bottom but would be happy for a loving person to change my bottom and speak baby to me as they did

I change my own bottom but would be happy for a loving person to change my bottom and speak baby to me as they did

Nappyolder you are bilingual!

My wife pins on my nighttime cloth diaper and puts on my nighttime plastic pants. During the day I change my own disposable diapers and plastic pants. If I’m having trouble with one of the tapes she will ask me if I need help and finish the change.

Mainly I do my changes myself. When I am at a con or munch with my ABDL family my big sister does them mostly.

Spike

What's it like at a munch do people change each others nappies ?

What's it like at a munch do people change each others nappies ?

Sometimes. It depends on who is there together I guess, but it isn’t a “change-each-other-fest”. I got offered a change by someone other then my big sister (some one I know pretty well from the scene) and respectfully decline, since to me it is very intimate and fragile stuff being little. Next to that my Wife is more then okay with me being changed by sister, but I’m not sure how she would feel if it was someone else. To me it felt scary and strange even thinking about it, not because af the person asking, but just because it is only feeling right if sister does it. The bond I have with her is very special and it took 1,5 year to get there for me.

Spike

While my wife is the one who usually changes me, she did tell her mother about me a year or so before got married. Since then, my MIL has changed me a few times when she stays with us for an extended time. My wife is perfectly fine with her mom changing me and sometimes even helps. My wife has also told a couple of her girlfriends I wear diapers and rubber pants and let them help when she has changed me when we were with them. We have a fun time when that happens.