How I told my wife about my liking of enemas

When my wife and I were first married, and we started discussing sex, I told her I enjoyed an enema once in awhile. As me, she grew up getting enemas from her mom. two weeks into our marriage she started her period. A few days before, I got constipated as well as her. She told me an enema reduced cramping. So began the once a month ritual of each giving the other an enema. We used ivory flakes in warm water and about ¾ of a bag. On occasion, I also received enemas from my wife when needed.

Sharing is caring and once a month is not enough, bet you wish could be every week or two

Sharing is caring, no matter what the frequency of enemas ultimately becomes.

I had got home from work, sat down and because I was bloated, I put my hand down the front of my pants-on my stomach. My wife went upstairs without saying anything, and I heard water running. After a bit she called to me to come upstairs. As I got to the top of the stairs, she said get your pants off and get on the bed. A towel was already on the bed, so I stripled down and got on the bed on my left side. I knew what I was getting, and it excited me. She entered holding a full enema bag of ivory soap and warm water. After putting vasoline on my butt hole and lubing the large nozzle, she slid the nozzle in and I heard the click of the clamp, as the solution entered my ass. It felt warm and good. A few cramps after the flow started the they stopped and then I heard the gurgling as the final contents entered me. She then removed the nozzle and took the equipment to the bathroom to be cleaned and hung to dry until next needed. I lay there for 15 or so minutes, then went to expell the enema. Feeling better I went down stairs to await supper. My wife did these enemas for me always unannounced many times during our 48 years together. RIP my darling.

Sorry for your loss. I'm on wife 3, first one didn't know of my enema use until I gave her an enema at 7 months pregnant due to constipation. She said it felt good and she felt way better after. She gave me a few enemas (5) before she decided it was wierd😢 . They were wonderful. Second wife knew I liked enemas from the time we started to get serious. She was a nurse her enemas were to clinical, also introduced her to enemas.

Third wife knew early on and had grown up getting enemas but will have nothing to do with them, doesn't care if I do them but won't help😢, or let me give her one.

Sorry to hear that 1, 2, or 3, aren’t into helping you. I guess I was lucky, as when ever I needed or asked for I received my enema.

For me, the subject came up when we were discussing marriage.

The hard part was helping him realize I'm not bulimic, and do do it in that sense, mindset or context.

This is how I got my husband involved. I enjoyed enemas since I was a little girl but only my sister knew I often did it strictly for pleasure. After I got married my husband became aware I gave myself enemas and he made some comment that I sure needed a lot of enemas for some reason. I gently quizzed my husband about enemas and he said he had never had an enema. I admitted that I rather enjoyed how they made me feel and maybe it would be fun if we did them together. He said he didn't understand how something that makes you shit could be pleasant. After lots of sweet talking I got him to agree to give me an enema before we made love and he saw how turned-on I got. After a few times giving an enema to me I even talked him into letting me give him one (us girls can be quite persuasive when we need to be).

He was not impressed. He said he did not enjoy it and complained that all it did for him was make him shit and the time in the bathroom could be better spent in the bed with me. Hmmm. For a time he agreed to pleasure me when I asked but would not let me give him one except rarely, and eventually I stopped asking him. So we agree to disagree. He knows I still do it when I am alone and does not complain.

@Cheryl77177 Wow, your husband is one lucky man to have you. To have found a woman who enjoys enemas, doesn't get better than that.

Most men are looking for a willing partner. I was lucky my wife grew up getting enemas as I did. So for our entire married life we gave enemas to each other, both for medicinal and pleasure. It’s nice when a couple enjoy enemas together.