RJ Llex … so which part of the S/M are you into (or your SO)? I share your problems (or your SO's problem?); i.e. Love of enemas and FOOD!!! There has to be some way to increase the efficiency of one affecting the other. So, how do we come up with a means (or at least a kinky rational) for more enemas…or more sex (yeah, I like that) to reduce weight?? The winner gets TWO dozen glazed doughnuts!!!!
I'm lazy hedonistic sadistic glutton scientist. Not very dominant (since lazy). In term of enemas 99% giver. Occasionally receiver.
My dear is brave and athletic girl. Not very submissive. She likes to bite, struggle, twitch, kicks etc. Being overpowered with evident consequences.
And she not very much into enemas. Yet she need them sometimes. So with my poor (since lazy) physical condition it's becomes a bit challenging.
Once she overplayed "a bit" and kicked me in head during "i don't want enema"-struggling. Even it was not intentional weak hit, i was dizzy blurry vision headache for couple of weeks.
Since then, the restraints during enema is a must for her.
Surprisingly she become much easier about enemas in restraints then without it. We also started practicing bondage without enemas.
Long story short. We often playing quite rough. And i believe a weekend with her is worth a week without getting out of fitness.
But i quickly recovering weight via some yummies.