Tied up for a spanking

For the most part my spankings have not been tied up or down in any way. most situations are either paddling (either some type of discipline or initiation themes) or the more intimate over the knee that is for discipline With perhaps a little restraint of holding the guy down.

I haven't been but that might change next month when I am due to get my first caning for a long time. My last caning was, I think, a hard one but I did get out of position a couple of times to give me a little respite - albeit at a cost of two extra strokes. The intention next time is that I am secured so I will get my full punishment without interruption and it will be felt to its full!

I find that most subs that I've spanked like the restraint aspects of it. First, it takes some time to restrain them, so the anticipation of the spanking builds with each limb that is tied. Most like to be tied either lying down or bent over a bench of some type….which is the most submissive position, ass up in air on full display/vulnerability and framed perfectly for a good hard spanking/paddling.

The only exception to the restraints are newbies….who have to get comfortable and feel safe with their spankings, and are afraid to give up total control in the beginning. But over time, they usually see the benefits of being restrained, so that they don't have to be restrained in their responses (wiggling, bucking, etc.)

I have discovered being spanked rather late in life. I like being over my guy's lap, bare bottom, my toes just touching the floor. He spanks me with his bare hand and if I get “squirrelly" when he is spanking or fingering me; he will hold the small of my back down with his free arm, and swing his legs over mine restraining me very effectively.

This is reprehensible.

The whipping/caning was beyond description; they ignored the safe word.

Just beyond the pale.

Heartily agree @Turkey1 . Safe word should be sacrosanct.

I discovered in my 60s that I really enjoy spanking naked ladies. I first spanked a model who I was photographing nude when she told me she liked being spanked while naked.

It was an amazing turn on for me. Then we added enemas to our sessions and she became a huge fan. Our sessions continued until the pandemic in 2020.

Since then, I have met another artist who was into spankings with a belt her father had used to spank her as a teen. Of course I quickly introduced her to enemas and butt plugs.

We’ve gotten together a few times and I have enjoyed giving her vaginal and rectal exams, multiple enemas, urethra play and multiple spankings.

She promises to bring a female friend to our next session. I plan to introduce needle play to their freshly spanked bottoms.

I’ve been spanked a few times as a sub in a dungeon. I was required to strip of all my clothes, present myself naked to the dom and get on the spanking horse. I was facing the wall. There was a door behind me and any guy who walked in could witness the event. My head and torso were face down on the top of the spanking horse. The right wrist was restrained to the right front ledge of the horse and the left wrist restrained to the front left ledge which resulted in exposing my air pit hair from behind. My knees were perched on the corresponding right or left rear ledge and the ankles were restrained to the back of the corresponding ledge. My legs were spread somewhat wide with my anus fully exposed and my scrotum visibly hanging between my thighs. I really wasn’t able to move much. The dom spanked my ass cheeks by hand and also used a paddle. He then put a glove on his right hand, lubed his index finger, spread my ass cheeks to fully expose my anus and the hair around it, and inserted his finger into my anus. He massaged my prostate and felt around my anus. I could only moan and try to squirm while any guy there could enjoy my discomfort. My penis leaked seminal fluid from the prostate massage and he eventually milked my penis from behind. I felt totally used…in a good way!

I like being tied up and penis gagged. I bring the rope to my Husband /Owner. Not now I am composing. Later I promise. I sit on the floor beside him and buff his leg mewww mewww. Look up pathetically. Go away!. I say later. Obey! Mew Mew. Buff buff mewww suck the penis gag like a pacifier. OHHH you are pushing it! I get up and leave the rope there making myself scarce. Things can become unpleasant, Still horney I resort to whacking myself with the fly swatter on my own with the gag on. It's not much fun and I feel a bit silly. The cats and bunny are zipping around me trying to figure out what I am doing. My girlfriend/slave comes into the kitchen with her art group friends. She is wearing her collar her soft, jiggly smoothness turns me on. For fuck sake miss give me that. She takes the fly swatter from me puts me on the floor ties my wrists to ankles with a kitchen cord and proceeds to draw a wooden spoon out of the drawer and beats my arse and cunt deep red with it while I squirm and howl past the gag and cum. Please just ask me next time Miss. Her friends don't know what to make of it. She offers to do it to them through my tears I see one is taking off their top others leave others stay. Maria is laying beside me with a dishrag in her mouth eyes darting around. She is yanked away to be tied like me. Face to face we feel Tina administer the spoon viciously. My wiggling toes attract her attention the spoon moves down my body for a few wacks to the soles. Maria squeals and other nude girls are joining the play. I trained her well.

haven't been but that might change next month when I am due to get my first caning for a long time.

@charles_uk do tell us how it went

@Secret_sub Sadly (or maybe not as the reality is horribly painful) it didn't happen, at least not yet. My disciplinarian's private life is a little complicated at the moment and finding a time that works for us both has proved somewhat difficult. Once Christmas is out of the way, things may be easier. I will certainly tell you how it went when it happens!

For one spanking my bf has tied me to a collapsable garden bench. It was pure horror. I could not move and had to wait until it was finished. Not a fan.

For one spanking my bf has tied me to a collapsable garden bench. It was pure horror. I could not move and had to wait until it was finished. Not a fan.

Is he still a boyfriend? Considering it was horror to experience.

Yes he's the love of my life. Nothing a little horror can destroy.

I have been restrained on one occasion by my wife when I had been drink driving. She was not impressed to say the least when I arrived home.

I still own the farm my parents had and my father had a wooden horse that he modified when I was a teenager which for some reason I kept in the tool shed in the woods where we raise pheasants for shooting.

She led me out of the house and walked me to the place of punishment, told me to strip naked and assume the position. She then secured my legs and wrists using the leather straps and got to work and used a wooden paddle (She still uses) and tanned my backside until I cried and wet myself.

Not an event I wish to experience again.

I was tied up while being spanked many years ago. To be honest, it was a bit much for me. I was blindfolded and gagged. My hands were tied together and secured to the bed frame and my feet were tied together. A butt plug was shoved up my bottom and I was spanked briefly but quite harshly without having my bottom warmed up first. Overall, I didn’t completely enjoy most of the experience. But I loved feeling completely helpless for part of the time…

@Iris1858 Were you first aware that this spanking was going to be done to you that way? were you naked during the spanking? Thanks in advance.

@joe_thom I had no idea the spanking would be done to me that way. I didn’t even know that I was going to be spanked. Yes, I was naked during the spanking.

I was restrained down to a wooden horse… spanked repeatedly… it was extremely hot. Being restrained definitely added to the turn on factor for both of us. I was completely naked and exposed.

I’ve never really had the opportunity, but would absolutely love to be tied to some sort of spanking bench to be punished. It adds another layer of excitement to the whole thing. 🙂

I had previously posted that I was due to receive a caning whilst secured but, in the event, that meeting never happened. However, last September, I finally experienced it. I was positioned over two back to back table chairs. My thighs were secured to the backs, my hands tied to the bottom of the front chair legs, and my lower legs tied to the seat. It did add to the vulnerability beforehand but, to be honest, once the caning began I wasn't really that aware that I was tied down. When I am being properly punished, I try to blank everything as much as possible as I find that's the most effective way of managing the pain.

I love being tied up for spanking (and for other punishments!). This makes me feel helpless and humiliated. My favorite positions are being tied up bent over a table. My legs are tied to the table legs and spread wide apart, and my hands are tied in front.

I regularly restrain my spankees who wre in it for the power exchange, specifically the helplesness. They achieve their desired total emotional release through their tears more thoroughly and deeply if tied down to the spanking table, vulnerable and totally exposed, butt up.