Ever Wonder Your Attraction To Enemas? - I Do

Many men, including myself, have a strong liking for being bodily penetrated. It's one of those things that seems too complicated to understand, so we just accept it. Some of us act on it in various ways - giving another man oral sex, using toys, having a partner's fingers (or more) inside, being pegged by a woman, being topped by a man, prostate massage, enema nozzles, and enema solutions (including colonics). The difference with an enema, however, is that the penetration is much deeper and has the sensation of being a whole body experience. As a man, I've never felt as deeply and completely penetrated as when I have an enema nozzle in my ass filling me with 3-4 qts of warm salty water. The always startling sensation of the water starting to flow into me, the ever increasing weight of the water inside, the moving warmth of the water as it seeks out the deepest parts of my insides, the stretching and tautness of my abdomen, and the growing pressure are all unique sensations of being penetrated and filled - and of being “taken.” I seek out tha experience as often as possible. If a woman is administering the enema, then the sense of penetration is all the more accute and pleasurable because the submission element is also present.

My attraction began at a very early age even though I hated getting an enema from my mom or grandma. As I matured and became more aware of social mores and the sexual implications, I wondered if I had become perverted or otherwise a deviant. Over my 60+ years of existence, I've learned that I wasn't really abnormal in the majority of my beliefs and activities. The fact that I love enemas may be rather unique, but certainly doesn't interfere with the more typical aspects of life. I got beyond the personal shame decades ago and love to interact with others who share in this unique, but simple, procedure and pleasure. Many resort to drugs, chemicals, and other influences to cope with various issues. I resort to a nice warm enema and have enjoyed sharing this with those who have similar thoughts and desires.

My attraction to enemas began at an early age. There is no doubt about the reasons... Number 1: I loved the way my Mother always was so caring and loving with every enema that she ever gave me. She made the experience special. Number 2: I loved to feel the nozzle being inserted into my waiting rectum. It was always inserted gently and Mom always had it warmed a bit above my body temperature. Number 3: I loved to hear the snap of the silver metal shut-off and the swish of warm, soapy water entering my body. Number 4: I loved my Mother's words of encouragement as the warm, soap filled my belly. Number 5: I loved to have my Mom rub my belly as ounce by ounce fluid filled it. She would rub it and push her fingers gently into the belly's pressure points, which relieved any cramps that might be occurring! I have been hooked ever since!

My short answer is NO. I like everything associated with enemas, starting with the equipment. The sight of a bulging enema bag full of water weather for me or someone else manages to touch my soul. I got enemas from a very young age, a toddler, never once did I fuss or cry before during or after my enemas,

I think all of those who hate enemas was because of the enema giver not being sensitive to the process. I had a very hot tempered mother who changed her demeanor when she felt I needed enemas. She made me feel good about getting enemas. There was never any shame associated when she shared my enemas with our aunts, cousins, and neighbors. When she gave me an enema it was a time where she was nice to me, so I accepted them.

My siblings and I were anal erotic as far back as I can remember and getting enemas helped scratched that itch. So, we never really fussed about getting an enema. As we got older, enemas started getting more and more pleasurable and naughty all at the same time. When we got enemas from mom or grandma an enema was just an enema. But when we got enemas from our two aunts, they were different. They weren’t that much older than us, and just as curious and playful. In the beginning, we didn’t understand the feelings enemas gave us. All we knew was, they were pleasurable and naughty, all rolled together and something we enjoyed. The older we got, the more we understood the sexual aspects of enemas. Then as preteens, grandma taught us personal hygiene an enemas became our responsibility. Giving us more freedom to explore ourselves, our sexuality, and enemas. Leading to some very interesting things about our sexuality, enemas, and ourselves. Something we wouldn’t have been able to do without grandma teaching us personal hygiene as preteens, giving us all the opportunity to explore and satisfy our curiosity.

@Denise You sound like a girl after my heart.

I only got a very few from my RN mom but I decided that I liked things in or someone playing with my butt.

I developed a liking as a play doc and enema giver early on.

Luckily, I have a friend who likes my giving her enemas and, thanks to Zity, I am contacted by women who want to try enemas to see if they like them.

I’m right where I wished to be for years.

@Denema said,

Along with the question of why we crave them and do it is the question - do guys really do more enemas than women or is it closer to being balanced? Indications from Zity responses are that guys certainly are more willing to offer their thoughts about their interests, but only a few ladies have responded to this question.

A number of years ago, I got a colonic once a quarter, until the lady I saw moved out of state. Over the four or five years I saw her, we talked a good bit about enemas and colonics and who was into them. I was curious about who was doing colonics and enemas. She told me around 65 percent of her business was women and only 35 percent men across all age groups. Women were more open than men about it and would discuss the subject openly. Of the women who had kids most gave them enemas and at least half were bring them in for colonics. As for men, she said she found at least half wouldn’t discuss the subject at all. And the ones who would discuss the subject, weren’t as open as most women about it. And that fits my life experience regarding enemas with both men and women. Which is the opposite for this site.