Ever Wonder Your Attraction To Enemas? - I Do

Why Enemas?

I'm no play Doc but I do have theories:

I believe nature built in the desire to relieve ourselves, even made it pleasurable, part of our autonomic conditioning. Babies do poo on their own. And, it must feel good, lest they wouldn't do it.

My mother was obsessed with my going as long as I can remember, "Did you make, BM, today." If the answer was, "No," and I never lied, she jumped into action. Awful tasting liquids, pills, (Senicot) still nothing, suppositories. Still nothing, the bulb, and when I was eight, the Faultless Fountain Combo Syringe. My future was set out for me.

I was severely constipated. Which begs the question was it nature or did I do it on purpose. For one, I couldn't ever wouldn't go in a public toilet, especially school. So holding it in was a major factor. I've never been a big water drinker, factor two. I consumed a lot of dairy products, that didn't help. Hated roughage. I was an enema waiting to happen.

It's not like I never sat. My mother was always on my case, so I sat for hours, reading. A great way for alone time.

Now, I'm 11, rolling around in bed, thinking about enemas, and one day I became a man. That poor pillow.

Now I'm hooked, I searched the shelves for enema stories. Penthouse letters, the best.

I went through a series of wives, girlfriends looking for my enema goddess. When I found her I've never strayed.

Now, I'm still bad about going on my own. Sometimes I do get the urge. But if I'm busy chatting, posting, I let it pass. Going on my own does have a downside for me, sitting on the cold seat for long times. Grunting, groaning, squeezing, pushing. Then there are the hemorrhoids, and fishers, oh my. Miralax, stool softeners, laxatives are merely a suggestion to my system.

Now for the sexy bits. Enema's are a turn on, going in and coming out. I love to give, get, and thanks to my wonderful wife, I love to watch.

In our marriage enema's have brought us closer, keep the romance going. Can't beat that... 🌹

I have no doubt why I love enemas to this day. I was given enemas as a child and I loved getting them. I pleasured myself with enemas ever since then.

I just love the potpourri of sensations in my anal cavity and colon. Makes me cum everytime. No woman can do that to me. End of story👍💯

Given that both parents were Klismos, if I had no attraction to it at all, that would be strange.

Since I cannot remember a time when I didn't get enemas, the attraction seemed inevitable.

I was anal erotic before I knew what that meant. I was not given enemas as a child, but my mother had an enema kit and I was very keen to try it and I eventually did. I was hooked after the first enema. The anal sensations from enemas were so pleasurable that I became very anally focused when thinking about sex. As time went on, I learned that I had a prostate and how that figured into what I was feeling when sticking things up my ass. Fast forward to being an adult, I started adding anal toys and then dildos and more types of enema equipment- colon tubes, retention nozzles, and shower shots.

So I think at least there was some innate built in predisposition to feel pleasure in my anus. When you combine that with a burgeoning sex drive of a teenage boy, it was like striking a match and throwing it on gasoline. I think if I hadn't discovered enemas as my first way to give myself anal pleasure, I would definitely have tried them at some point and gotten hooked. So I would say I was destined to become a Klismo.

@ProV1 I agree there might be a pre-wiring to all things anal. As I have found out through the years some lady friends are anal and some adamantly against. There doesn't seem to be a direct correlation between anal sex and enema's, though. In fact my most anal partners were very anti-enema.

@ProV1 I agree there might be a pre-wiring to all things anal. As I have found out through the years some lady friends are anal and some adamantly against. There doesn't seem to be a direct correlation between anal sex and enema's, though. In fact my most anal partners were very anti-enema.

Yes eeetime, enemas can be very difficult for some to accept or even get sexually excited about. I think that comes from the person's feelings about their privacy and turnoff with anything that is associated with a BM. If the person can compartmentalize the expelling of the enema as just part of the experience and even feel pleasure due to the release of pressure in their gut, then they might actually enjoy enemas. I would say most (not all) people who like enemas are anal erotic to some degree. But once again enemas do carry some very negative baggage for some because of what comes out their ass is viewed as very unpleasant.

My attraction to enemas is inserting things into your body. I think more people have this attraction than they may think. They just don't bring it to there conscious mind. Specially women. They feel its just part of sex.

For me it stared very young. My first memory I have in life is being given an enema. I cried of course but I remember bouncing my bottom on the bathroom floor trying to get what was in my bottom out. I think even at around 3 years old something clicked.

Then as I got a few years older maybe 5 years old my mom took me to see a doctor because I had problems going on the potty The doctor put his finger in my bum and that pretty much hooked me. I felt a feeling that I can only describe as a tickle feeling that spread all over my body. Then the doctor gave me an enema with a bag and that really hooked me. It was amazing to me as the enema was flowing in me. Then the nurse put me in a diaper and sent us home. On the way home I felt my butt explode in the diaper. Yes quite a feeling as you might guess.

I became hooked and I during a nap started to play like I was having an enema. I started to poke around my bottom with first my finger and then a crayon. I noticed I got that same strange tickle feeling like at the doctor’s office. This time it got a little more intense. It felt so so so great to me. Then by one point I started to breathe harder and harder. This was feeling even better. I remember I started to pant. Then oh my what had I just done. It felt like my entire body got stiff and I shook. Then it felt like I could actually reach the tickle deep deep inside of me. I had just discovered something amazing. I had a dry orgasm at only 5 years old. I of course became hooked on this. I really have never stopped doing this. My mom caught me a few times as I got older but her yelling at me never got me to stop.

I will say as the years have past that my dry butt induced orgasms were really amazing. Still good now but not like my really early days. Fun times. Anyone else start as young as I did… or am I unique in this.

During an anatomy class in college the instructor arrived one morning to discuss the pudendal nerve. Despite her threat of more than lethal repercussions if anyone giggled during class, the overwhelming 18 and 19 year old female group of students broke out periodically during the three days the nerve was discussed.

If you have never heard of the pudendal nerve, it is not surprising although you use it any time you void, defecate and engage in sexual activity. It is found in both male and female but is frequently damaged in women, causing incontinence. The pudendal nerve is a two way information path for nerves and muscles in the genital, perineum, and anal areas. as well as communications to anal sphincters, urethral sphincter etc. If a nerve in the penis, vagina, anus or perineum is stimulated, the pudendal nerve transports it to the spinal cord for transmission to and processing by the brain. Any signal to the muscles is sent back via the very same nerve. And like many parts of the body there are two distinct pudendal nerves that run from the front of the genitals, through the perineum, by the anus and onto the brain.

What was laid bare in the class was the conundrum of there being no explanation as to why some individuals exhibit different responses to the same stimulus of the nerves served by the pudendal. It was pointed out when caring for a patients, some would react with horror when faced with suppositories and enemas while others either were very nonchalant or exhibited signs of enjoying the experience. We were also introduced to the fact that some individuals recoil in pain with stimulation of the genitalia, which gives rise to a specialty realm of psychology.

No one seems to have a definitive answer as to why anal stimulation is erotic for some and totally abhorrent for others. I suspect while it may trace to genes expressing themselves differently, I cannot ignore the universal, everything anal is dirty training that is inculcated by every Mom into their children. It would not be surprising to discover the answer is one of those odd multiple choice test questions with the instruction, “select all answers that apply”.

@Victoria1951

Interesting and informative post. Thank you.

I have always wondered: Do I like enemas because as a little girl I liked sticking my finger, or crayons or whatever, in my butt and an enema nozzle is one thing that legitimately belongs in your butt? Or, because I liked enemas from as early as I can remember, sticking things in my butt was just a substitute for when I could not have an enema?

@Victoria1951 - what an interesting, learned post. Are you a Doctor, Nurse, scientist?

The pudendal nerve, who knew 😉 Does the pudendal govern the urge to go to the bathroom in infants, in us all?

Does the variances in sensitivity explain why some prefer anal sex. The attraction of enemas, dildo wearing.

Of course there is a large psychological component but I wonder what drive is stronger, nurture or nature.

Victoria you may have done what Einstein couldn't, come up with a theory of everything (anal) 🌹

I was conditioned by mom but who knows whether I was wired that way. All I know is as a teen I started to enjoy enenas and had more intense orgasms. Then like many the shame set in and in those days the ridiculous fear you must be gay. So as information grew and I became more intelligent I started to just enjoy and accept myself. I really don’t know why I am aroused by enemas but it has brought pleasure and why nit. Between consenting adults and no one being hurt life is to enjoy

@Cheryl77177 re your comment #13, yep, meeee to.

When I'm giving myself an enema, is this like "making love" to myself? I'm certainly not starved for love in my own family. However, is loving myself occasionally with warm water and an enema bag a good thing, or is it unnatural? I wonder what a therapist would say. Then again, maybe I wouldn't want to know!! (Lol)

When my husband is giving me an enema, I feel deep affection and love between us. Even though I might be feeling awful at the time and asked for his help, I savor those moments between us. Having an enema bag has sometimes renewed sparks in our marriage. Another good reason for partners to have an enema bag.

I don't think that is unnatural!

"I have always wondered: Do I like enemas because as a little girl I liked sticking my finger, or crayons or whatever, in my butt and an enema nozzle is one thing that legitimately belongs in your butt? Or, because I liked enemas from as early as I can remember, sticking things in my butt was just a substitute for when I could not have an enema?"

YES, YES and YES!!! I still do. I love both.

Eric

"When I'm giving myself an enema, is this like "making love" to myself? I'm certainly not starved for love in my own family. However, is loving myself occasionally with warm water and an enema bag a good thing, or is it unnatural? I wonder what a therapist would say. Then again, maybe I wouldn't want to know!! (Lol)

When my husband is giving me an enema, I feel deep affection and love between us. Even though I might be feeling awful at the time and asked for his help, I savor those moments between us. Having an enema bag has sometimes renewed sparks in our marriage. Another good reason for partners to have an enema bag.

I don't think that is unnatural!"

Vicky,

Like making love to myself? Yes, best description I've ever read!

Unnatural, no way. When my ex lover and Domme gave me very caring but intense, large, long sexually submissive (me) enemas, I felt VERY loved. Still do.

God Bless an exciting loving enema from your loved one/lover. Gotta love it and them. Carry on.

Eric

No, never wondered for a minute since the first one I put in my butt at age 15 and realized I loved everything about it. Learned even more to love later in life when I discovered girlfriends and loving Dommes who loved enemas, luckily the same woman most of the time for me.

.Eric

Why I enjoy it? I was indoctrinated in early childhood by a mother that believed enemas were not only the best remedy for even the slightest case of constipation, they were her first line of defense at the onset of any illness. Although firm in her resolve and thorough in the administration, her enemas were never a punishment. It was all very matter-of-fact that being cleaned out was just about no different than brushing your teeth. It was something that just needed to be done. And throughout those enemas she would talk to me, telling me how good I will feel afterwards, how good the enema is for me, how it feels good to have an enema, how I'm taking a good enema for her (everything was “good”) and after awhile I became a believer! Couple all that with being totally naked, anal stimulation from the nozzle and a little warm water pressure on a young prostate and it's no wonder.

Yes Redbulb I found how great enemas were like you did at a very young age. Everything was overwhelming to me. When I was given my first enema with a bag at the doctors office at only 5 years old I could tell this was amazing. As the flow started at first it took me by surprise but soon I noticed it felt wonderful. I got a feeling like it was tickling me inside. It was the most incredible feeling. I have been hooked ever since… Nothing can beat the feeling you get when the flow from an enema starts flowing up your butt.

I don't have to wonder about my attraction to enemas. I have written about this in other posts and in greater detail on here, but it goes back to the one and only enema my mother ever gave me at age 5 in the late 1940s. I was naked, on my back on the bathmat with her holding my legs up in the air by my ankles and slightly back toward my head. I could see her squatting down through the opening between my legs. She used one hand to fill the 2 ounce red rubber child's enema bulb syringe with soapy water in the bathroom sink. She would insert the black enema nozzle into my rectum and squeeze the warm, soapy water into me, She probably gave me 4 or 5 bulbs full and then I would guess she let me get up to expel. I don't remember if I had to hold the enema or not. BUT I do know that one enema “flipped my enema switch” to permanently on for life.

As redbulb and highndry said the enemas from mom did it for me. The bulb syringe and the total enema process became something i wanted. Around age 10 I started giving to myself with the bulb and then mom switched me to the bag. Then I changed my enemas to the bag as well. I was craving them from a young age and still do.

I know my attraction to enemas so well. My mother and grandmother were and still are convinced that enemas are the best prevent all/cure all for what ails you including a cure for a bad attitude. I was given an enema every Wednesday and Saturday almost without fail plus a “bonus” enema (I considered a bonus!! lol) and have to say I have been hardly ever sick and even when I was, an enema straighten me up right quick. Same with a bad attitude which I kind of wished I had faked on more occasions. 😃 Now, the attraction part is that they feel great, love the feeling of being clean inside and out, and the usual side erotic benefits. Denise

@Denise - what would happen if you tell, mom, now, you are feeling a little under the weather 😉

Many times over the years I have asked myself that question: Why do I like something most people find thoroughly disgusting? On the surface enemas can be embarrassing because you are exposing your most private parts, they can be uncomfortable due to cramps and eventually the full feelings, and then the results are most un-ladylike with all of the splashing, farting, and smells. But I can’t wait to do it again. Are some of us born this way or is it just something we learned along the way.

I think this is an age old question that probably repeats over and over amongst those of us that indulge. Along with the question of why we crave them and do it is the question - do guys really do more enemas than women or is it closer to being balanced? Indications from Zity responses are that guys certainly are more willing to offer their thoughts about their interests, but only a few ladies have responded to this question. I find in private conversations both on Zity and with women friends willing to share that many do take enemas and some quite frequently. Also many ask the very same question themselves. Why??? Cheryl77177 said it well - But I can't wait to do it again. Puzzling isn't it.

. Are some of us born this way or is it just something we learned along the way.

One person's poison is another's pleasure. Maybe they are wired wrong and we were wired right.

While many won't admit it, even here, there is pleasure in all parts of the enema experience. Just sit back and enjoy 😉 🌹

Many times over the years I have asked myself that question: Why do I like something most people find thoroughly disgusting?

@Cheryl77177, you are not alone! I have asked myself that very question countless times over the years. And that question is quickly followed by another question: “Am I crazy”?

All kidding aside, I think it is simply how we are wired. Somehow, I find great delight in the sensations that come from an enema…the dilation of my anal ring to accept the enema nozzle…the fullness in my rectum…and the tickle in my tummy as the enema churns away in my gut.

Everyone is different and we all come to the enjoyment of enemas from a myriad number of avenues. But the bottom line is this: It's all good!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb