Men with a birth fetish

Just wondered what happens to guys who have a birth fetish when their partners give birth, is it still sexual for you or is it different when it's the real thing?

I mean like if a man has a birth fetish what do they do when their partner is actually in labour do they get turned on when your actually physically there watching the birth or is it not sexual when its the real thing

Not sure what you mean. Men experiencing a birth fetish, or being part of your wife’s birth. I delivered my 3’d son. Absolutely not sexual. That was part of our joint birth. Are you asking about men wanting to experience contractions and delivery?

When the time comes, like many other fetishes, I am able to turn it off. Just like when I go to the doctors, dentist, in for surgery. Everything is serious, so my fetish is pushed down deep where it belongs. Maybe after I can think about the procedure and it will excite me. But during the actual event, nothing is really exciting.

Personally, it's more of a turn on later. As @wlbj said, its fairly easy to turn off your "fetish brain" when you're in a real life situation, dentist, doctor's office etc. It helps that the, though the physical surroundings are very similar to your fantasies, the emotions and connections with the people involved are completely different; thus it's easy to turn off the fetishistic side. Now where things become interesting is later, remember the event or at least certain aspects of it, and using that as fuel for your fantasies.