Warm up spanking

I usually receive layer cake spankings. Starts over what I'm wearing, then to panties, and finally bare. Always with an implement, but then ending with a hand spanking to subside any bruising.

It depends on the scenario I guess, but if it's going to be a severe spanking I prefer a warm-up.

With my ex girlfriend there was never a warm up , I always got it with a bathbrush hard. How long she paddled me dictated the severity

My dad definitely built up the intensity during my spankings, and tears flowed as it proceeded.

SubmissOne, I was taken downstairs to the basement for my strapping at 16. I got 16 strokes across my bare behind with mom counting them. She told dad to give me an extra one because i would soon turn 17. I never shoved my mother away to go to an end of school year party ever again!

Many years ago, when we were first married and played spanking games, my wife wanted her bare bottom warmed up with a long, increasingly severe, hand spanking, across my lap, before being positioned on the bed for the belt. She wanted (needed) and could take significant pain. She was not satisfied unless she lost control and cried involuntarily. Actually, a session that ended without that release of emotion, left her frustrated and irritable. It was a little much for me, but I tried to accommodate her as long as she had that interest, which just got lost in the passage of time and new interests.

When my parents spanked me there was no warming-up period and no stages. They'd give me a couple of dozen smacks on my bare bottom in quick succession and that was it.

I LOVE getting spanked over my undies, but instead of having them pulled down I like to have them pulled UP into a hard wedgie, then beat on my buns with my undies deep in my buttcrack.

As a spanker (still awaiting my 1st) I do prefer the layer cake approach, especially if it is the spankees 1st. However in certain situations (ie. the person needs major attitude adjustment, or if they seem to be way too calm and relaxed) then I like to deliver a very firm hard spank, leaving my bare hand on their tush after I deliver it.

I never got a warm-up spanking when my parents spanked me. As an adult, I've only been spanked a couple times, but those spankings didn't involve a warm up either.

For a real punishment, why would there be a warmup? In a play situation, maybe or maybe not. As a sexual stimulus, much more likely.

On maintenance sessions I normally do give a warm up with my hand and maybe a light touch of the hairbrush. As @Rigel stated correctly there‘s no use of a warm up in a punishment situation. Just do it cold and hard.

Often when I was given my correction, I was spanked by hand and it built as it went on. It was usually culminated a several swats with the strap.

In a play scenario about 50 with the hand until a nice red glow then a hairbrush or paddle will finish it off nicely with the magic wand applied to the clit directly after!

Usually I get a warmup spanking especially during my maintenance spankings.

When I misbehaved badly there be no warmup and the spanking is hard with the first strike on my bare bottom. All my spankings are on the bare so that he can see how sore my bottom is and not to over spanked me. It is a discipline spanking and not abuse.

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I do NOT enjoy a spanking that starts out too heavy too soon. I suppose if I put myself in the frame of mind to receive a "cold" caning with no warmup, I would manage. However, I prefer a painful pleasure with my spankings.

Rather than spanking over pants or underwear, my wife starts right out with my bare bottom, but she strikes lightly no matter what implement she is using. After a minute or two, when I'm pink and warmed up, she begins to increase the intensity. After another couple of minutes, she can pretty much smack me with full force and, of course, it hurts, but it hurts soooooo gooooooood.

In the early days of our spanking adventures, my wife would start swinging away right at the start thinking I just wanted a good, hard spanking. I would have to stop her and remind her I needed a warm-up period.

For my spanking sessions, my wife or I will select three to five implements from our stash of about 15 implements that includes eight wooden paddles in a variety of shapes and sizes, two leather paddles, one strap, two wooden bath brushes, two Delrin canes, one large wooden strainer spoon, two wooden spoons, and a partridge in a pear tree.

Sometimes we play "Name that Paddle" where I try to guess which paddle she is using. I can really only recognize the distinct feel of about three of the many paddles: the large wooden strainer spoon, each of the two leather paddles, and the long, narrow wooden paddle.

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For me, even though it's always consensual, it has to feel like a real punishment. That means full on from the start. I often find the first few strokes the hardest to take so they can be the most effective.