What's your favorite spanking implement for either receiving or giving or both?

Prefer the strap or the belt- Receiving and giving...

REALLY???!!!! The belt? Hated it from the slapping to the marks. You're mucho braver than I.

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The strap, I prefer a wide leather one, but in a pinch a school strap works or even a leather belt.

Ditto Canuck; For me the razor strop, giving or getting, is #1. The shorter, thicker school strap is also good, as well as a firm hand.

One of the moderators here once made me a leather paddle. It was oval shaped and would turn my late partners bottom nicely red after a hand warm up. She loved it. Sadly it was thrown away by her sister when she passed away. Nothing like a nicely reddened bottom waiting to be penetrated.

There is nothing like feeling a mans strong hand on my bare bottom.

I can feel the heat being generated as my bottom is getting warmed up, then his hand starts to heat up as well and it just makes it even more delicious!

Nothing nicer than giving a good hard bare bottom hand spanking. I sit on the bed with my back against the headboard my legs out straight, the woman lays over my lap.

A few years back I met with a woman from a spanking site, she had strayed into the medfet area out of curiosity. We came to a mutual agreement that she would allow me to examine her then she would be spanked. She was very experienced at being spanked and I mean very experienced, so I was a little nervous as this was the first time I had spanked a woman in this type of situation. She explained to me that the woman's bottom needs to be warmed up with fairly hard spanking before the full on spanking takes place. But I gave a good account of myself and she was very pleased with the result, and I have to say it made her extremely wet as well....

What's your favorite spanking implement for either receiving or giving or both?

I don't receive.

But for giving I have a long, thin leather strap that works to finish off reddening my subs cheeks. I warm him up with my hand, but it does get tired after a bit.

Spanking doesn't happen often, but I enjoy the opportunity to do it when I do.

I like a bare hand to start out and to finish or send a message home a belt or strap works, love the welts and sting it brings.

My favorite is a hand, because of the intimacy. However, I always feel very humbled by a hairbrush or spoon, and enduring paddlings and belts makes me feel like I am really "taking my medicine."

When my girlfriend and I know that I have been very naughty and deserve her strict discipline, I am sent to our bedroom with instructions to, "... be naked by the time I get there!"

When she arrives, I'm laying face-up on our bed, so that she can immediately see whether or not I have an erection, which is against her rules when I am to be disciplined. But, of course, I always do have an erection. Before using her hairbrush paddle, her leather strap, and/or a hickory switch on my bare bottom, she uses a school ruler and/or a very short/thin leather strap to discipline my "naughty penis" (she calls these her "penis paddle" and her "penis whip").

I love when she uses these implements to enforce her rule that I, "... shall not have erections without permission". She starts out with slow/tender slaps, which are incredibly pleasurable, but quickly ramps up intensity until she beats down my sexual arousal. She does this because she knows that when my sexual arousal has been tamed, I will NOT AT ALL enjoy the butt-blistering that she will give me next.

Sometimes, my erection will start to return when she starts to tan my butt. If this happens, she she puts me back on my back and starts over with her "penis paddle" and/or "penis whip".

Sometimes, she will intentionally discpline my naughty penis in such a way as to cause an orgasm. These are some of my most powerful/enjoyable orgasms, which she allows, because she knows that after an orgasm, I can quickly be brought to truly repentant tears when she goes to work on my butt.

Thin wooden paddle with or without holes for me

There certainly is “something” desirable & intimate when spanking a bared butt with an open hand. However, it is my thinking that using an open hand to administer a spanking is not only convenient but also sends the message to the recipient that they can (within reason), be given a spanking at almost any time & any place. Of course, when a spanking is given using a belt, a paddle, a hairbrush or et cetera, that is going to be more painful. It is my belief these should only be used for the correction & deterrent of serious misbehavior & offences.

A slipper.

I guess it depends which end you're on and whether you “enjoy” spanking or not. I am a spankee but I come at it from the perspective of the whole occasion: the emotions, the head-space, the nerves, the anticipation, the ritual, the power-exchange etc. The actual spanking is the centre-piece but it's not something I enjoy or want to enjoy: that defeats the whole purpose as far as I am concerned. So, I don't have a “favourite” implement. It's about what is effective and it's up to my punisher to administer what they think is appropriate.

Bare hand on my bare bottom is by far my favorite, occasionally with a paddle or belt used as well.

Similiar to threads https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=101933 "What implement do you prefer to be spanked with?" as well as thread https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=893458 "The Right Implement for Discipline Spanking"