Catheter Insertion Preferences

As a giver or receiver, what are your preferences for inserting a catheter and why?

For Example:

Do you like to go slow, or quick?

For male genitalia, do you perfer erect or flaccid?

Do you perfer to have a full bladder/urgency?

Lube: Injected into the urethra prior to insertion or globbed at urethral meatus? Also, do you perfer an anesthetic lube?

Do you perfer the receiver be bound, free, or a more clinical setting?

Please share me any other preferences you have.

I have been catheterized three times and the insertion has been the same for all three. After telling my Mistress that I was curious about what a catheter felt like, she offered to put one in me. We ordered everything necessary. When the time came, I was bound spread eagle, and I had a hard on that only got stronger with each step of the process. (I was surprised when she started swabbing the head and especially the meatus with Betadine and I got even more aroused.) She lubed the catheter, and put a glob at the urethral meatus. She had one hand wrapped around my penis, and the other gripping the catheter. She looked up at me and asked, "are you ready?" She looked like she was going to jam it down my urethra, so I asked her to go slow. She said, "you are not going to like the way this feels, so it is best to go quick and get it over with." I told her I wanted to go slow because I wanted to feel it. She said, "I always do it quick for patients, but if you want, I will go slow." I felt a slight burning sensation, that was mixed with pleasure as she slowly penetrated my urethra. It felt really good as the catheter passed through my prostate, and then a bit intense as she penetrated into my bladder, and the slow relief as my full bladder drained into the bag

I have been curious what it feels like to have her treat me like her patients, and do it her way and with a flaccid penis. However, I do not want to exchange a rare opportunity for urethral pleasure for potential pain, and I don't think I can stay flaccid.

I would love to hear your preferences and reasoning, and if you think I should let her do it her way?

Have had two catheters in my life, first was a camera into my bladder, was ok going in, but after it was done it was like i wanted to pee all the time, and felt like i was peeing broken glass ! second time it was inserted after i had an epidural for my knee replacement, so didnt see it done or feel a thing, when it was removed i still was ok with it, all feeling had returned waist down, and no broken glass this time !

Late wife was very heavy into medfet to the point of becoming a RN. Xray tec. Front office/back office even medical billing . I don't know how many time's i was cathed or sounded . I being very submissive when the bedroom door is closed i enjoyed being under her control and had faith that with her skill that she would not permently harm me . After a bad day at work she would come home in one of her moods and i would get worked over . To lay still and take a 30Fr catheter worked slowly in as i watched her face changed from bland holding it all in to that small smile and her handling of me go from cold and impersonal to warm and loving was worth every thing to me . You're brain does something strange in that if something painfull results in a feeling of fulfillment the pain changes into pleasurer . As in to an arthritic a bee sting that make's the swelling and pain go away becomes something to look forward to.

Slave2Ds, just an important comment about your question about using an anesthetic lube... DON'T unless you are an experienced medical professional. Pain is your body telling you that something is not going right and to Stop Now! If you deaden that sensation, you could seriously injure yourself and be almost completely unaware of the problem until you see blood. I see more people in my practice than you would imagine being victims of anesthetic lube. I recommend 3 - 5 gram sterile packets of KY Gel, nothing more exotic.

For me, I like to have lubricant injected in my urethra, a nice slow insertion into a full bladder, the catheter inserted all the way, balloon inflated, and then tugged gently to set the balloon in the bladder neck. I like an 18 fr 10 cc Bard Lubricath. I can be either erect or flaccid, doesn't matter. My favorite part is when the catheter passes through the prostate and pops into the bladder. The sensation of the bladder emptying is one of my favorites as well. The setting really doesn't matter to me. Watching the penetration is the erotic part.

@Deke I agree completely. I have never used an anesthetic lube for catheter or any other insertion. I included it as an option to try include as many possible alternative preferences as possible.

@Darius

I think injecting lube into the urethera would make insertion better. I have searched for pre-filled sterile lube syrings, but I can't find them in smaller quantities. I would never be able to use 100 before they expired.

Also, you say that you perfer slow insertion, have you ever experiencd a fast insertion? If so, how did it compare to slow?

I have had catheters in the hospital, and decided to use good technique, reading up in nursing texts and seeing videos. Kits are cheap, $3 or so; new catheter (latex) under $2. Leg bags $4 So new stuff, every time for playing is less that a drink at a bar.

Aroused or soft? Doing it to myself it’s usually soft but sometimes I get hard. It’s just easier with an erection. Lube: I use what’s in the kit; 10% of the time I buy a kit with a syringe. The ease of insertion is the same. Just more fun with an extra step of injecting something in my penis. Anesthetic: I tried it a couple times but it spoils the fun sensation of the passage, and there’s the odd feeling of ‘no feeling’ at the tip of the penis. When I was playing more I got myself up to FR 24 but FR 20 is comfy; no leaks, few spasms.

I use a Foley catheter infrequently now—weekends only. As a full-time cross dresser, still working, it’s impossible for me to dress smartly with a catheter and bag.

I’ve been cathed a few times, and I prefer the lube being shot as far into the urethra as possible, and a slow, careful insertion. After prostate surgery there seems to be less sensation due to some nerve damage, but I can still enjoy a catheter or sounding when the mood is right!

I like to go slow, easing the catheter in bit by bit. I use a disposable catheter tray each time, with a new straight catheter. Erect is easier, and I squeeze the packet of sterile lube out into the tray before dipping and rolling the catheter in it. All this is after donning sterile gloves carefully.

Having been cathed in hospital about a half-dozen times, and self-cathed maybe twice as often, I've some definite thoughts:

My first experience was having a Fr 16 latex Foley inserted by a nurse for not being able to pee after surgery under general anesthetic. This Post Operative Urinary Retention (POUR) is apparently quite common in both men and women. She emptied the lube packet int the sterile tray and dipped the catheter into it. The insertion was fairly slow and a bit ouchie, but the relief was wonderful. There was soon over 1000ml of pee in the bag! After the cath removal a day later, peeing was very ouchie, although the feelings went away with succeeding pees. In retrospect, the Fr 16 was a bit too big for me.

The subsequent insertions in hospital in the following several years were all pretty much the same, except I insisted they use Fr 14 size. This had a down side , since Fr 14s were not stocked on the floor, I had to wait with a painfully full bladder until one was gotten from central supply. All the hospital caths were either red rubber straight caths or silicone coated latex ones.

The first few times I tried self-cathing I used Bard kits, bought new. I never knew about injecting sterile lube into the urethra until someone mentioned it here, and I then went looking for cath kits with the appropriate lube applicators. Some cath kits come with pre-filled lube syringes, but it is unclear if they are designed for insertion. I've only found a single brand of catheter kit with a lube applicator clearly designed for injection.

I have never had an anesthetic lube injected, and would not, because, as I've written before, pain is the body's way of saying STOP. Unless you're an expert professional at this, I'd strongly suggest never using an anesthetic gel. I do agree, it's a pity that syringes or applicators, pre-filled with sterile lube, don't seem to be available in the US in reasonable quantities.

As to fast or slow insertion, I'd always go with slow for reasons of caution. Going slow likely is a bit more ouchie, but it limits damage should something go wrong. If a cath is being inserted into you by a nurse, she cannot know she's hurting you and it takes some time for you to say 'stop' and fer her to process that. Consider, would you rather run into a door or walk into one?

When the cath tip gets to your prostate, don't just push it through. Try to relax, as if you're peeing, and it may slip through more easily. Also, unless you're having a residual pee test, cathing with a part full bladder is easier because you can see by the pee flow when the cath is in you far enough to inflate thye balloon if you're inserting a Foley. You don't want to insert with a very full bladder either, unless needed. When it's very full, the muscles are trying to hold your urethra closed hence making a cath passage harder. I usually insert with a few hundred ml of pee inside... ie: not having peed for a few hours.

Finally, before you cath for play, be well aware that it can cause a UTI, either because of poor technique during insertion or just because you have a cath in. The longer a cath stays in, the higher the probability you'll get a UTI. A quick in, pee, and out with a straight cath is unlikely to to cause an infection. Put a Foley in for a week and your chances are maybe 20%; and if it's in longer, getting a UTI is pretty much certain. And you really don't want a UTI. Getting one often means a course of antibiotics. And antibiotics not only kill the bad microcritters in your urethra but also the microcritters in your bowel that process poo.. Even if you take a probiotic, it's quite likely that you'll get the runs... badly enough that you'll NEED diapers.

In summary:

Be careful, cathing takes sterile technique.

Go slowly and never force anyting.

Be aware that cath play can cause real life problems

I am most curious about pre-filled syringes with lube. I have not found any at the place I buy my catheters and such.

I have catheterized myself all the time. I usually go slow, so I know nothing about fast insertion. The only time I was catheterized by someone was when I had my botox injections. The nurse did it so that she could drain my bladder and then inject some liquid to numb my bladder so that I would not feel the needle when they injected the botox. I had a few twinges of pain here and there, but overall it was painless and enjoyable.

The nurse that catheterized me was super. In went the catheter and out came the pee, they wanted to check if I had any infection in my bladder. I didn't. When I went back a week later, I had to pee in a cup, they also checked for infection. I had some drugs before the event and then they gave me more after the event. Precautions.

I would love to have pre-filled syringes to shoot lube into my urethra to help with the insertion of a catheter. I really do like the feeling of a catheter in me. Those would make it a lot easier.

I now put some lube in my urethra and some on the catheter and then start insertion. I put a plug in the catheter so when I get it in my bladder I don't pee all over the toilet or floor in the bathroom. I then hop in the shower and use my shower shot to rinse myself off and get the lube off my penis and catheter. I dry myself off and then put a leg bag on and then when I go to bed, I put a bed bag on the catheter. Some days I can put 1400 to 1750 ml of urine in the bag.

My girlfriend will catheterize me when she gives me a large enema which she wants me to retain for a while. The enema always causes an erection and she first swabs the tip of my penis with Betadine solution and next she uses a Luer syringe to inject some cold sterile lubricating gel into my urethra while firmly holding the tip of my penis to keep the gel in. Then she slowly inserts the catheter until it reaches my prostate. I feel it go through as she tells me to try to pee which opens the bladder to be invaded by the tip of the catheter. I have two balloons holding in my enema which she has inflated and now she also controls my urine flow. I enjoy both procedures immensely.

I prefer very slow insertion. Catheter is always lubed prior to insertion. My penis is flacid. I don't enjoy insertion when I have an erection. Full bladder. My experiences are always with a fantasy doc or nurse. I'm a young boy who is forced to submit to the treatment, so I have no choice or control when it comes to size, prep, insertion, etc. That is best for me. I'll take what I am given.

My girlfriend will catheterize me when she gives me a large enema which she wants me to retain for a while. The enema always causes an erection and she first swabs the tip of my penis with Betadine solution and next she uses a Luer syringe to inject some cold sterile lubricating gel into my urethra while firmly holding the tip of my penis to keep the gel in. Then she slowly inserts the catheter until it reaches my prostate. I feel it go through as she tells me to try to pee which opens the bladder to be invaded by the tip of the catheter. I have two balloons holding in my enema which she has inflated and now she also controls my urine flow. I enjoy both procedures immensely.

Alberto,

Sounds exciting. I'd like a GF like that! How big the enema? How long she makes you retain it? How long is your catheter left in? Do either of you do anything sexual during the insertions and retentions or wait until you're empty? Thanks,

Eric

I was a total wus when they put a catheter up my penis It was horrible--I later apologized to the nurse who inserted it and

he told me i was ok and that the worst guys were pro athletes who started screaming before they put it in so i did not feel so embarrassed

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As a Gynecologist im always at giver end for females. i always prefer slow and ultra slow insertion of well lubed foley and gentle on urethral meatus while interacting with patient to exhale from mouth softly and try to relax. the insertion movement takes a while to reach bladder to ensure minimum or no discomforts to patient. full bladder or empty bladder both are ok for cath. just need to see that cath should not be harsh on urethral meatus.

I have straight self catheter myself several times. The goal was to stimulate the prostate internally with small movements inside the prostate. I did have great success but always had some bleeding even with ample lube. I tried small to large FR8 to 18 the bleeding wasn't just from the prostate stimulation internally it was even just a in and out type bladder drain also.

I never had any UTI's from any of it but a few times bleeding would drip out for up to 30 minutes or little longer so I gave it up. Never had any damage. It's been at least 10 years since the last time with sounds. I never had any bleeding, but could not reach the prostate like I could with a catheter. I always used silicone with lube. Not sure where the bleeding was from but didn't want to cause any damage.

I would like to see a good femdom who knows what she is doing maybe try it again with bladder filling that might be fun. I never been able to replicate the prostate stimulation with anal massage compared to urethra prostate stimulation. I have seen a few vibrators that can get down that far but I worry some how they come apart end up stuck in there. Then a trip to the ER would not be fun.

I have been wanting to straight cath myself but I need to work up the nerve to do it. I bought one on this website called wish.com .

I bought one on this website called wish.com.

I didn't know that wish.com sold medical supplies. I would make sure that it is a sterile product before inserting it into myself.

I like to go slow with the insertion process. I have only been catherized once by someone other than me, so I have no experience with how others are catherized.

I like the way the catheter feels once inside me. I feel all dressed up so to speak, the catheter feels so good.

The feeling as the catheter goes in is a great feeling to me. When I inserted the catheter yesterday, I didn't realize that my bladder was so full and when the catheter went into the bladder, I had pee all over me, the floor, towel and so as soon as I got the balloon inflated, I hopped into the shower and used my shower shot to wash myself off with some baby shampoo and then got out and dried myself off and put a leg bag on as fast as I could. I have never had that happen. Sure did feel good to have a catheter back in though.

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I did sleep all night with the catheter in me and a bed bag. Felt so good.

I am sure that I will have to take my catheter out next week because on Thursday I have a PET scan to go through. Then I have a couple of Dr. appointments. I don't worry about those. I tell them I inserted the catheter and that it is a way to save me money of Depends.

I will have a fun couple of weeks. I get my right eye done on Wednesday, going to do laser surgery to clear up the cloud that has formed behind the lens that was put in so that I can see. Had the left one done, it was a piece of cake. This coming one should be just as easy.

I'm a gay medical fetishist and enjoy the whole spectrum of medical play and procedures as both doctor and patient, from a typical doctors office to more advanced / invasive procedures. Although I'm not into sub / dom scenes I feel there is an element of this, even in a real medical situation. Having a catheter fitted in a fetish examination scenario is, in effect, handing control of a bodily function to another person. If I am the “doctor” I like to begin with a phrase that was used by my first play doctor…"you appear to have some urine retention and I need to pop a little drainage tube into your bladder to empty it". I then clean around the meatus with Betadine and inject either Instillagel or Optilube into the urethra and work it down with my fingers and leave it for a minute or two for the local anaesthetic to take effect. I then show the “patient” the catheter which is still in it's sterile wrapper and connect a 500ml bag and explain that I will be passing the catheter through his urethra and that he would feel 2 points of pressure…the first as it passes his prostate and the second as it passes his bladder sphincter, and to tell me if he feels any pain or discomfort except for the pressure. I slowly advance the catheter until I see some urine flowing into the bag and then inflate the balloon. I then palpate and massage over the bladder area and let nature / gravity do it's thing.

The use of catheters for sex games is certainly very pleasant, but it also has some risks. Catheterization must be done very cleanly and carefully. Otherwise a urethra or cystitis can easily develop. There is also the risk of overstretching the urinary bladder sphincter and thus causing urinary incontinence. I've also introduced catheters with CR30. But I don't do that very often. I prefer to use Hegar dilators with a diameter of 13 mm, which are only 19 cm long and do not go into the urinary bladder. It is enough if the dilator goes through the prostate. It's very comfortable and not as dangerous as catheters. I also still have clean urine to flush the urethra. So you should definitely urinate after sounding.

Like it to be semi erect. I like to take it slow but once it gets to prostate I go fast. The feeling is so intense I stop. But once it's through its fine.

I love catheters, but even more when I do it to another guy or them doing it to me as it's so sensual and intimate.

My preference is my being fully shaved, or shaving another to reduce contamination, then if possible using a prep kit for total sterilization of the most private parts with bentadine running all over their balls and ass crack.

If the patient gets an erection it makes things easier, as I use one hand to bend it straight down, as I snake the tube straight towards his bladder until he starts peeing into the prep tray. Then inflation and hooking them up to a collection bag.

Depending on the scenario, this might be in preparation for extended bed rest, or procedure / surgery. My procedure usually includes several enemas where any outputs by the patients are controlled by me. If the patient is good while examining his catheter and gets an erection, I might be inclined to masturbate him to ejaculation to make him more comfortable.

I didn't know that wish.com sold medical supplies. I would make sure that it is a sterile product before inserting it into myself.

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As for me, I have only had catheters in me when I have been in a hospital for some reason. When the were inserted, I was still under the anesthesia given to me for whatever was being done to me. So, I could not tell what it was like to have it inserted. The first I knew that it was in me was when I woke up. So, I cannot say what it really felt like to get it put in.

However, I can say what I think about it being inside of me and when it was taken out of me. The last time I had one put in me while in the hospital was in June of 2017 when I was in the hospital for open heart surgery. The surgery is something that I will not go through again. I would rather die than get that done again. You have to go through it yourself to know what I am talking about. However, that is another subject. As for the way the catheter felt when I first knew it was inside of me, it did feel rather weird. I had no control over the piss that came out of me. It would come out when it wanted to and there was no way for me to stop it. As the bag filled and filled and filled, I started thinking more and more about it. If the nurse, a female, came in to check it, I was a little embarasesed about it. But, after two or three times, it was nothing. I had it in me for three more days before it was taken out of me.

When the nurse finally took it out, she did it very slowly. She was the only one, other than me, who was in the room. After she pulled it she cleaned the tip of my penis by rubbing it with a cotton ball. As she did this, she held my penis with one hand and the cotton ball in the other hand. At first, it was very soft. However, I did start to get an erection. She noticed this right away and after cleaning off the tip, she started to masturbate me a little. It was only about 30 seconds until I was rock hard. She asked me if I wanted her to continue. Just as quickly as I said YES, she started rubbing even faster. It was not very long until I felt my cum start to get pressure to come out of me. I told her that I was about to cum. She reached for a cup and held the tip so that I would drain it all out into the cup. As I did cum, it felt really good as she also squeezed my balls to force the cum out of me. She did not squeeze so hard that it hurt. She was very gentle with them and it really felt not just good, but GREAT! It made me cum more than I had in a long time and I really got a lot into that cup. She then shook the cup around for a moment and asked me if I had ever tasted my own cum before. At first I was a little shy to tell her that I had tasted my own cum before. She then said, “Would you like to do it?” I said it was okay if she wanted me to do it. She told me to open my mouth and she would pour some in. As she did this, I let the drops fall on my tongue. Then I swished it around for a moment and quickly swallowed it all. She said that she could tell that I had tasted it before the way I swallowed and started to pour more if in my mouth. As the cup was now empty, I swallowed the remainder really quickly. Her comment about this was that she knew I really liked it and she would do it again in about an hour. Sure enough an hour later she came in and did it again. This time she took off her clothes and did it to me in the nude. Now that was really exciting and I started to feel as if I was going to cum before she even touched me.

She did not do it to me again during my stay at the hospital which was about another three weeks. However, when that nurse would come into my room and no one else was in the room, she would let me see her nude for a few minutes. No, there was nothing else sexual with her.

My girlfriend will catheterize me when she gives me a large enema which she wants me to retain for a while. The enema always causes an erection and she first swabs the tip of my penis with Betadine solution and next she uses a Luer syringe to inject some cold sterile lubricating gel into my urethra while firmly holding the tip of my penis to keep the gel in. Then she slowly inserts the catheter until it reaches my prostate. I feel it go through as she tells me to try to pee which opens the bladder to be invaded by the tip of the catheter. I have two balloons holding in my enema which she has inflated and now she also controls my urine flow. I enjoy both procedures immensely.

I was only catheterized once many decades ago and avoid it recreationally only from UTI risk. But I’d love to try it, especially while I’m holding an enema, like Alberto’s post. I've always wondered about something I read. So, Alberto or others with catheter experience, when you feel the catheter push through your prostate, is it especially pleasant, or similar to orgasm, or isn't there much difference? I had read several times that going through the middle of the prostate was almost orgasmic. Thanks,

Eric

I was only catheterized once many decades ago and avoid it recreationally only from UTI risk. But I’d love to try it, especially while I’m holding an enema, like Alberto’s post. I've always wondered about something I read. So, Alberto or others with catheter experience, when you feel the catheter push through your prostate, is it especially pleasant, or similar to orgasm, or isn't there much difference? I had read several times that going through the middle of the prostate was almost orgasmic. Thanks,

Eric

Enemas and cath's can be sexual and kinky when combined, plus it can give you a great nights sleep. Once catheterized by yourself or other, and then getting a good soapsuds enema with no rinse, it makes your kidney's work O/T to process the residual soap. Better have a 2000 ML bed bag though, as I have filled mine full when waking up in the AM, but get one of the best sleep nights doing this and feel great after. Removing the catheter with either help or not can also be kinky too, as after the balloon is deflated, masturbation can be highly erotic, when just upon orgasm my tube, and jerking just seems to push it out.

Eric, when the catéter goes past My urethra, I feel something like an electric shock pass down My leg to my toe.